Winter vacation, children do not take the initiative to do homework? Non-existent! One trick to teach you to motivate your child!

Winter vacation, children do not take the initiative to do homework? Non-existent! One trick to teach you to motivate your child!

Give back the responsibility for learning to your child!

Parents have great responsibilities, great pressure, and it is understandable to have higher expectations for children, but do not worry too much about children, otherwise the child's sense of responsibility for learning will be lost after a long time, and the motivation will be gone.

The child does not like the parents to arrange everything for him, saying that this is not ok and that is not done well. Where people's needs lie: to be understood and respected and valued! Imagine if our superiors arranged every day to do everything in great detail for you to execute, and then said that you are not good, would you be very depressed and not ego and just want to lie flat?

Last year's winter vacation, I remember spending a lot of time and making a thorough study plan for the child, but the plan was abandoned within two days.

After the winter vacation exam this year, we did not care, he lay flat for a week, asked about the homework he said he did not arrange, after the online graduation ceremony to the homework list and to print to him, you go to see and arrange. He began to do it silently.

Remember a sentence: if you are strong, he is weak, and if you are weak, he is strong! If you arrange too much for him, don't say that he has no opinion!

Give more power and encouragement, and do what he needs and wants you to do! Parent-child relationship is good, feel the love of parents, will also love parents, naturally will work hard to learn to repay parents.

Tell your child that learning is your own business, believe that you can do a good job, need help please feel free to talk to me!

Please return the responsibility of learning to the child, he can grow! Mistakes are allowed during this period, and the younger you are, the smaller the cost of trial and error, and the better you can correct them!

If you have children's educational anxieties and want more good ways to educate, welcome to discuss with Teacher Xie!