Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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When you have some feelings in your life, when you want to share what you have seen and heard, do you choose to share it with people close to you or do you choose to record it in a pure land that you think is?
In the early years, diaries were carried around. Whoever you meet, what kind of experience you have, what is under your eyes, and who is in your heart will cling to pages in your diary.
With the progress of society, the diary has been replaced by the talk and log of social software, and then replaced by the circle of friends!
Whether it is talking or journaling, or the circle of friends, when it is just emerging, the spillage of mood and the sharing of what they see and hear are all "operations" that people are happy to get.
The person who writes has no scruples with his heart, and the person who reads it is sincere and has no distractions.
However, in recent years, the logs and talk have disappeared, and the circle of friends has changed from all visible to three days. What exactly is it that makes us no longer "free"? Who is it that disturbs our otherwise pleasant joy?
Although it is a public land, it also belongs to the personal "land", how can it be bound and not allowed to be "arbitrary"?
Once upon a time, the circle of friends was an essential part of our lives! Before going to bed, waking up, the footprints of the circle of friends, I don't know how many steps there are! At that time, the circle of friends was a different form of interaction between people!
But now, the circle of friends seems to have become a psychological burden for too many people. The people who send it are cautious, and the people who watch it are even more "open-minded." As long as it is sent left and right, it is not good or bad!
The circle of friends understands a person's words, and does not know how many people mistakenly agree! In fact, in addition to the negative words in the circle of friends expressing the poor mood of the parties, other bystanders can not understand anything!
It seems that after the "reality" law of the current interpersonal exchanges between people continues to be true, it is difficult for people to be "real".
Therefore, for the circle of friends "not casual" and subject to personal restraint, for too many adults, it is a wise human sobriety!
In the adult world, the circle of friends is appropriate or simply not to send, is the action of the wise!
Deeply believed!
Want to see if a person is really mature, how to send the circle of friends, how to send is the best proof!
Most of the sober people who are really smart, mature, and wise rarely send or do not send a circle of friends. The reason is simple:
1: There is no need to be "hated";
2: Do not want to be defined in vain;
3: Don't want to be a joke after anyone's tea;
4: Your own life, do not want to be too many irrelevant people in vain to increase the trouble;
5: Do not want to be a negative "reference" for whom;
6: Your own life, moods and sorrows, do not need to show to others...
Sent beautiful things, was said to be Versailles, sent bad content, was said to be negative energy! Every day, I simply share my daily trivia, food, and flowers, and I am said to be too idle!
At any time, one can never control the thinking of others. If it is not RMB, it will never be liked and recognized by people, and try to get closer!
Not "randomly" sending a circle of friends is probably the best sign of maturity!
Some people say, my circle of friends I love to send what to send, "free" courage is rare, but the consequences of freedom may not be what you want! When some people's attitude towards you makes you feel inexplicable, it may be that your circle of friends is the root cause.
No matter what the content of your circle of friends is, it is the people who understand you in real life and define your people on the Internet!
People close to you will not observe you in the circle of friends, and people who care about you will not interact with you in the circle of friends!
People who haven't seen each other for a long time don't necessarily love you, and people who like you all day are not necessarily your true friends!
People are like this, the cruelty of reality will make you understand that hitting the south wall and turning back is already a loss. If you have seen the south wall and stopped, it is the best self-protection!
What's more, in your circle of friends, there may not be a few people who really care. Perhaps, others in your circle of friends simply "can't see" it. Because, your content others do not want to see, blocked!
"I send my circle of friends, others do not see it, like it, comment does not comment is not important", if this is the case, it is best not to send or only see it yourself!
Between people, there is no empathy! Your sorrow, the pain of the enemy, your joy, will make people who do not see you wait for the opportunity to "trip up"!
Perhaps, some people will think, where is a circle of friends so complicated?
In fact, the circle of friends is not complicated, the complexity is the human heart! If, cautious or not, can protect yourself very well, you still think that this is too malicious by others, it can only mean that you really don't know much about human nature!
Looking back at the diaries of the early years, if it were not for the people who were really close, you would certainly not hand them over to him, and this is also the truth in today's circle of friends!
The content you post, who you want to see, you can set up a group, if you just record your own life, it can only be visible to yourself!
In the world, the best empathizer is oneself, the listener is oneself, and others are others after all!
Between people, giving others a false conclusion is not cultivated enough, but giving others the opportunity to assert themselves is their own immaturity!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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