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As parents, each of us is willing to believe that the child is a pure and flawless blank sheet of paper, that their thoughts will not have the slightest evil, and if there is, it is also caused by the failure of post-education, and has nothing to do with the nature of the child.
But this incident that happened in Suzhou, Anhui Province, not long ago, made countless netizens begin to question the nature of children.
Some people even think that some children are born "bad", and their behavior is unpredictable and harmful, so parents must pay attention to family education.
The 4-year-old brother covered his sister's head with clothes, netizen frying pan: is it ignorant or deliberate?
The little boy in the picture is 4 years old, lying on the bed and his face covered with a small pillow is his sister, a small baby born only 28 days old.
The sister lay on the bed to sleep, the brother pushed the door in and went to the bed to tease the sister, but after a while, an unexpected scene happened, only to see the brother pick up the small pillow next to the bed and cover the sister's face.
Perhaps because it was funny, at this time the brother pulled a piece of clothing next to the bed and covered his sister's face as well, and at this time the sister already felt the pain of breathing and began to struggle uncomfortably.
But the brother did not feel that it was a dangerous thing to do so, and as he continued to cover his sister with his clothes, he said happily: I cover you!
Apparently, the sister's crying was like a funny response to a four-year-old, and there was no security to realize that the brother was just standing by the bed, and after a while he went to the kitchen and told his mother that he had covered his sister's face.
Fortunately, the mother immediately rushed to remove the clothes on her daughter's face after hearing it, and at this time, the sister had been covered by the clothes for 2 minutes, and if the mother was one step late, the consequences would be unimaginable.
This move by the 4-year-old brother immediately blew up the comments section, and some people thought that a 4-year-old child would not deliberately hurt his sister, all he lacked was safety awareness.
But there are also many netizens who say that the current child understands everything, and it is not excluded that his behavior is a revenge for seeing the second child.
What can a four-year-old have in mind? If he really wanted to hurt his sister, he wouldn't have covered his head and run to tell his mother. ”
" It is likely to be a joke to tease the sister, but the child's small grasp is not good, and the safety education of the adults in the family has not been in place."
"My baby is also four years old, he knows everything, and now the child thinks he doesn't understand, he actually understands everything!"
The 4-year-old boy's act of covering his sister with clothes has caused a lot of controversy on the Internet, from the child's point of view, we have reason to believe that his behavior is unconscious, but it is clear that parents are very lacking in their children's safety education.
In family education, parents should tell their children several safety guidelines:
1. When you're at home alone, don't open the door to strangers.
We do not recommend that parents leave their young children alone at home, but many times parents will always be negligent about this, so when the child has established a sense of behavior, parents need to tell the child not to open the door to strangers, if there is no one at home, just wait quietly.
2. Do not cover your mouth and nose with anything, otherwise it will cause suffocation.
When two or more children play together, they often unconsciously cover their mouths and noses with things, or lock themselves in an airtight cupboard while playing hide-and-seek.
In this regard, parents must tell their children that doing so will cause suffocation, and give examples for children of which places can go, which places cannot go, which behaviors are correct, and which behaviors are wrong.
3. Don't throw things down from a high place, it will seriously hurt others.
Throwing objects from heights is also a dangerous behavior that many children often do, and for children, throwing things from a high place down will get a sense of pleasure, and they do not know what kind of harm they will cause to others by doing so.
Therefore, parents must strictly prohibit their children from throwing objects from high altitudes and tell their children the reasons why this behavior will hurt others.
4. Don't go to dangerous places such as windows and balconies, and you can't play with windows.
Despite our precautions, there are still news of children falling from buildings every year. In addition to installing anti-theft windows, parents should also develop some guidelines for children that must not be touched, such as not climbing the window and not going to the balcony, and the two-pronged approach can minimize the risk.
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