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I have seen this sentence: "Life is a run without an end in sight." ”
Admittedly, don't think that after the age of sixty, life will be worry-free, you can rest in peace, and leave everything behind.
Our lives are broadcast live every day, and no matter how old you are, you can't live in a vacuum, away from reality.
The writer Wang Xiaobo once said: "A person should live his own life and be clean." ”
The older you are, the more you must love cleanliness, so that you can embrace blessings with your bosom, create blessings with your hands, feel blessings with your heart, and find blessings with your eyes.
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"Hands and feet" are clean and physically and mentally healthy.
In my hometown, I say "unclean hands and feet" to people who like to steal. Today to go to the owner to pick a pocket of cabbage, tomorrow to go to the west to take a handful of firewood, although it is a small matter, but it is caught, it is inevitable to lead to a dispute of words, and will lose money.
It doesn't matter if you are old, your image is not good, don't embarrass your children.
The ancients said: "The house of good will have a remnant, and the house of the bad will have a remnant." ”
The rule of "father and son pay back" tells us that what the older generation has done, if they have no way to take responsibility, they need young people to bear it. When a person is very old, there is no way to control his consciousness, and the children must at least bear the "guardianship responsibility".
In addition, clean hands and feet also mean hard work and good at managing the family.
An old man, idle, take care of the health of the family, let the children come back, feel the warm breath, eat a hot meal, it is also necessary to do.
Some old people, when they go out, dress up beautifully, but the home is a mess, such a way of life, not advisable. To be a person, we must be consistent in appearance and cannot do things that deceive ourselves.
The writer Lu Su said: "Cooking smoke, slightly sweet air, fragrant grass and trees, white rice and black charcoal, iron pot wood stove, square table bench." Simple life, precious tranquility. ”
The use of hands and feet is directly related to whether the family is beautiful. The elderly should seriously understand.
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The "circle" is clean and well-connected.
Su Dongpo, a song dynasty literary hero, after being demoted to Huangzhou, wrote several masterpieces, showing his talents and exposing his "circle".
In the "Former Chibi Fu", it is said that in the autumn, he and his guests took a boat to Chibi to visit, the breeze came slowly, the water surface was like a mirror, the cup was raised, and everyone drank wine while giving poetry. Singing, the oar of laurel shattered the moon shadow; miss ah, let people see the beauty on the side of the water.
In "Later Chibi Fu", it is said that on October 15, he and two guests passed by Huang Nisaka, and everyone sang while walking. There was a crane, coming across the river, its white wings skimming over the boat everyone was riding.
"Chen Ji Often Seen" said that when he was an official, he was often afraid of interacting with people, and he was no longer an official, but he liked to have guests visit. As long as you don't hate the humble, it's fine.
When people are old, they should have the realm of "ancient poetry", don't take the circle too seriously, but don't blindly refuse to fit in and isolate yourself in the flow of people in society.
As long as you have no greed, the people you associate with are free, and there is no economic transaction, you will form a feeling of mutual help. As long as you and outsiders are not involved in love, there is no non-division of thoughts, then the feelings of husband and wife will be pure.
The key to socializing is that the elderly around you have hobbies and can have similarities to stimulate enthusiasm for life. For example, the aunt likes to dress up beautifully and pose, and the uncle likes to take pictures and use the aunt as a model. Each of them plays their own strengths, and life has an artistic sense.
Most of the elderly do not have the talent to bard, but they can have a good yearning. Everyone leads each other and does not limit the height of life, then they can tirelessly "pursue".
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The "mind" is clean, with no desires and no desires.
One day in the Spring and Autumn Period, Zi Zhang asked Confucius, "Teacher, what is etiquette?" ”
Confucius did not answer directly, but made an analogy, saying: "Without the courtesy, it is like a blind man who has no one to help him and does not know where to go; it is like looking for something at night, but without candlelight, he cannot see anything." ”
When people are old, no one restrains you, but you have to restrain yourself, don't become a directionless person, and wander around.
There is a way, the heart is clean, and the talent is expensive.
What can make life better is not only money, but also mentality. The elderly, to calm their minds, to their own life, light a candle, as long as you go to the place where there is a light, you can find what you want.
"Old and scholarly, such as walking by candle at night", have noble pursuits, respect rules and morality, is the best way to enrich the soul. Don't forget to clean up the dirt in your heart and light a heart lamp for yourself.
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"Eyes" are clean and full of scenery.
The scholar Gongxi Chi of the State of Lu asked Confucius for advice: "How should officials who have been punished be treated after they die?" ”
Confucius said: "If he is dismissed from office and is no longer enabled, he is an ordinary person; if he continues to dedicate himself and can enjoy retirement benefits, then he is treated as a person of rank." ”
From this point of view, when we look at people, we must treat them with a "change" perspective, not those "stereotypes".
There is a saying that goes well: "When you go to the grassland to see the scenery, the optimistic people see the blue sky and white clouds and grassland, and the troublesome people see the cow, sheep and horse dung." ”
Look down, look up, that's your own business, but you have to keep your eyes clean and don't stare at the stains. As the saying goes, don't talk about people's excesses, don't look at people short, don't expose people's ugliness, and don't pinch people's pain.
You're old, what haven't you seen? We must learn to look down, see open, see through, and see smoothly.
The eyes are all scenery, the tentacles can feel the breeze, you can meet good people when you go out, and you will see fireworks when you go home.
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Many elderly people want to enrich themselves, but they don't even pay attention to life, and their words and deeds cannot be restrained, how can they get their wishes.
Remember, happiness comes every day, not picking up nature without.
Even the poor and poor have happiness, but he doesn't have the heart to feel it.
People over sixty, do not become "greasy grandparents" in seconds, do not carry "old age".
The window is clear, and the head up is a bright moon.
Dress up properly and go out with a breeze.
The appearance is the same, and living is a landscape.
May you and I, all the days, be clean and comfortable.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.