Single men and women aged 24 to 30, regardless of whether their parents have urged themselves to quickly find a partner, seeing classmates and friends walking together in pairs, there will be more or less anxiety in their hearts, afraid that they will become leftover men and women.
To be honest, it is really difficult to find a partner when you are older. When you are young, you can also choose others, and when you are older, you may only be chosen by others. This is not alarmist, it is the experience of many people who have come over, and the taste of it is understood by people who have been on blind dates.
In the matter of finding a partner, boys are often more active than girls, but if they really meet someone who makes them move, timid girls will also become active and impressive.
After 95, the kindergarten teacher wrote a note to confess to the driver
Kindergarten teachers, that is, kindergarten teachers, are very popular with boys when they are on blind dates, and basically do not worry about finding a partner. But Xiao Shao, from Lanzhou, Gansu Province, has been single since graduating from university.
As a post-95, even if the age is not small, perhaps worried that she will become a leftover woman, so I want to get off the list very much. As we all know, the people who learn kindergarten teachers, the students in the university are basically girls, working in kindergartens, it is difficult to contact the opposite sex.
Therefore, Xiao Shao's road to getting off the list is not easy. Reluctantly, she began to look for the person she liked in her life. Kung Fu pays off, on a bus, she really met her own heart, and her heart was like a deer jumping around.
As a girl, many people dare not take the initiative to confess to the people they like, and Xiao Shao is the same, mentioning this matter to her classmates in the car, and the classmates encouraged her to confess bravely.
Xiao Shao did not want to miss it, plucked up the courage, wrote some words on the note and handed it to the bus driver.
In the note, Xiao Shao introduced his profession as a kindergarten teacher, or a post-95, asked the little brother if there was an object, if there was any interference, if not, can you consider me! At the same time as attaching the contact information, Xiao Shao bluntly said that he was writing a note for the first time, and his guts were almost frightened.
As a girl, Xiao Shao saw that the people she liked dared to take the initiative to confess and showed great bravery. Love at first sight, although romantic, may not be able to get the desired result.
Sure enough, the driver's little brother is not Xiao Shao's Prince Charming, he already has his own family and children. After receiving the small note handed by the girl, the driver's little brother did not know how to respond at first, and not replying would hit the girl and hurt the girl's heart, but he also did not want to deceive the other party.
So, when he added the girl's contact information, he issued a verification request but did not want the other party to add himself, and the little brother wrote a verification statement: Give me a note to scare me, think about it for a long time to reply to you, I am 5 years old, no need to add me.
Most boys, for the initiative of the girl will not refuse, but this little brother is not the same, married is married, will not hide, do not deceive the little girl, tell the other party can not agree to the reason. To tell the truth, this little brother Sanguan is very upright, and very upright, and is a good person.
The first time I wrote a note of paper, I was rejected, and the reason was a bit of a cry, which is also a funny thing in life. Xiao Shao is a person who likes to share his life, so he shared this matter on the online platform. She also accompanied it with the text: The first time she did this from childhood to adulthood, but the ending was really "the scene of the death of a large society".
After the video was released, Xiao Shao was on fire. A netizen said that it was very good and the courage was commendable. Another netizen said that the girl and the driver are very good, the girl confessed, the premise is that the little brother is single, the driver is very gentlemanly, do not hide, say their actual situation. Some netizens said that girls are good and boldly pursue people they like.
Although most netizens approve of the girl's confession, some people also pointed out the flaws in it, and the disturbing words were written more than one glance, and the risk was also written wrong. Some netizens also complained that Xiao Shao's writing was ugly, saying that the handwriting was really not flattering, and some netizens said that there was nothing to practice more!
My response: I was nervous
The inadvertent video was accidentally fired, which made Xiao Shao a little surprised. Post-95, kindergarten teachers, confessions, these words are very topical, causing netizens to discuss is normal.
For the encouragement of netizens, Xiao Shao expressed his gratitude, and some netizens commented that the words were ugly and there were wrong words.
Xiao Shao also responded, she said: That is because it was the rush hour, there were many people crowding the bus, but also to avoid others, do not let others see themselves writing small notes, the words are ugly, wrong, mainly because I was very nervous at the time, but also afraid, so I wrote wrong.
Xiao Shao's words restored the scene of writing this note at that time, on the bus, the car will shake, people are very crowded, she does not want other passengers to see that they are writing notes, nervous and afraid of the situation, the writing is ugly, mistakes are difficult to avoid.
However, the words of netizens also show that a person can write well, which will be more popular, which is also their own plus.
Meet the person you like bravely confess, in order to leave no regrets
In the video released by Xiao Shao, many people affirmed her brave confession, only by being brave enough to love and boldly pursuing the people she likes can she have the opportunity to get off the list.
Although Xiao Shao's confession failed, by writing a note, she also knew the situation of the other party, and she would not regret it in the future.
In life, many people are shy and timid, and dare not express their love to the people they like. Personally, I think that if you want to get off the list, you still have to be brave.
People like kindergarten teachers, who have a small life and work circle, have few opportunities to contact the opposite sex that they like, and they should be decisive when it is time to shoot.
Teacher Yu Minhong said a passage, before confessing, the other party does not belong to you, after the confession is rejected, the other party still does not belong. You have nothing to lose, you are still the original you, what if it becomes?
I agree with Teacher Yu Minhong that we can only seize the opportunity by overcoming our inner fears and confessing to the people we like in time. Otherwise, the opportunity is left to others.
The little brother is very kind, and the girl surpasses herself
On the Internet, some netizens said that this kindergarten teacher is hyping himself, if you use your own subjective judgment to speculate on other people's ideas, it is actually not advisable. Some Internet celebrities do hype themselves for traffic, but the thing that Xiao Shao shared, I don't think it is like hype, it is just that the little girl shared a troublesome thing.
Many people like to share their lives and share their own growth stories, and when Xiao Shao did this, he should not have considered so much, that is, to reveal his feelings of being rejected.
In this matter, there is actually no shortage of highlights. Xiao Shao showed great bravery, surpassed himself with actions, and walked on the road of getting rid of the single. Although it has not succeeded for the time being, one day in the future, this beautiful and cute little girl will definitely be able to find her own happiness.
The little brother of the bus driver did a good job, did not hurt the girl, but told the other party the actual situation, acted very rationally, and let us see his kindness.
The pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, although the result is not perfect, none of them hurt anyone, this way of doing things, the right way to treat love, deserves our appreciation and encouragement.
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