"Yang Dai's biography" said: "No matter how good a person is, he does not feel sorry for you, there is no use, vows can be made up, romance can be disguised." Only heartache is an emotion that comes from within, and it cannot deceive others or deceive itself."
Teacher Yang Dai's words are very reasonable, that is, this kind of love is the true feeling, there is no half hypocrisy, there is no trace of disguise, love comes from the heart, not from the mouth. In the face of a person who says that he loves you all day, you don't just listen to the sweet words spoken by the other party and believe that this love is sincere, because the love in the sweet words is often false.
People who love you, who really love you, will worry that you are hungry or not, thirsty or thirsty, cold or cold, hot or hot, worried that you will be sick, worried that your money is not enough to spend, because everything is in the hearts of people who love you.
The happiness of love lies in this, and the person who really hurts you will make you feel the warmest happiness, and such love is also worth having and cherishing, and there is a response in gratitude. Talking sweetly to you all day, saying how much I love you, but I don't care about your warmth and coldness, I don't care about your safety, this kind of love, no matter how good it sounds, is useless.
In La Traviata, the beautiful woman Margaret, she has many counts who love her, rich men, but there is no man like Armand who is distressed by her cough and worried about her illness. Therefore, this woman who does not easily move love, just the moment Armand saw her coughing and held her hand and was in pain to tears, she fell in love with Armand.
Because women in the field of years know better what is true and love, they are accustomed to those rhetorical love, but also listened to those sweet words and hypocrisy, the only thing that is lacking is that someone to really hurt themselves, it is not easy to feel sorry for their own hardships, and they know how to care about their own warmth and cold people.
There is not much love, it is enough to have a real heartache, this is happiness. Such love, for each of us, is rare and not easy to get.
Therefore, in "La Traviata", the beautiful and amazing Margaret, in order to really feel sorry for her love for Armand, is willing to spend her own money, as her own jewelry, considering Armand's difficulties, and together with Armand for true love in the countryside. And what about us in reality? Why not expect that?
In our own love, marriage, look forward to being able to treat each other with our lovers sincerely, care for each other and feel pain, but the reality is a bit unsatisfactory, we will always feel very disappointed and sad after hearing the cover-up of rhetoric and the deception of sweet words, and feel that it is too difficult to have a person who really loves and loves herself. Happiness is always so far away from us.
Therefore, friends who want to have a happy love, to learn how to identify true love, true love, is the heartache and care in the trivial details of life, care and love, not to see how much the other party pretends to be, nor to listen to how good the other party is, but to feel that there is no feeling of the other party's true heartache and love intentions. That alone, you know.
Love is really painful, not pretentious, not pretentious, but out of the heart and subconscious details of the embodiment of behavior, the person who can hurt you is the one who deserves to love you.
Therefore, we should not believe in the love of rhetoric, but also the extramarital love that hurts people with deceptive sweet words, true love, will not always appear with a hurtful face, people who really love you will only quietly hurt you, give you the most natural care, and the most natural pay, there is no half a bit of false pretense, and will not deliberately say sweet words to decorate love.
Natural is the real, love is also like this, like the beauty of nature, natural is true, and heartache is the most natural manifestation of love, only people who show love to you with heartache can be people who truly love you.
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