First, men who are too good to themselves have no temper and are too greasy
For women, a man who is too good to himself is like a glass of tasteless water, and it will definitely get greasy over time.
But men who are not so good to themselves are like a bottle of drink, the more they drink, the more they taste, and they also enjoy making this kind of man care more and more about their sense of accomplishment.
And those so-called good men who blindly treat women well are the ones that women do not take seriously, and women always say that they want to find a good man who hurts themselves and spoils themselves;
But she actually gets bored when men are really nice to her, and this kind of man is really good for marriage, but honestly doesn't arouse their interest.
Men who aren't that good to them are more challenging
People like new things, women are the same, and men who listen to what they say have no meaning at all, but are not as challenging as men who are not very obedient;
This process is the most infatuated with women, and what they may like is not the man himself, but the process of making this kind of man good to himself step by step, so that he will feel very attractive.
And those men who are too good are too bland to refuse women, to accommodate them all the time, but to spoil them so much that they don't take you seriously.
What you do she takes for granted, how can she agree to be with you because of a momentary touch? It is not a child who lives a family, and a woman is much smarter and more difficult to understand than a child.
Women naturally like men with attitudes
Those men who have always been good to themselves, saying that it is good to hear is called no temper, saying that it is ugly is actually no attitude, is it right for women to say anything?
Is she going to do what she says? Don't you owe her anything, just because you like her, you have to be sent by her?
This will only make her look down on you, what she prefers is a man with an attitude, and no one deserves you to drop everything to be nice to her, especially women who don't take you seriously.
It is better to have a little temper, don't listen to her so much, you are not without your own judgment, appropriately reject her, appropriately ignore her;
Let her come to you by herself, instead of you keep posting and asking her if she is cold or hungry, give yourself a little courage as a man.
It's not wrong to be nice to the woman you like, but it's a mistake to be too nice to her. Be careful to spoil her unreasonably, take all your good for granted, and even demand more and more from you.
Don't blame her for not being grateful, this is all caused by your own blind accommodation and tolerance, instead of regretting it at that time, it is better to show your attitude at the beginning.
Don't be a pug behind a woman, sooner or later you will be kicked away by her, sometimes you have to be cold, don't keep the enthusiasm on your face, so that she can really leave you.