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New Year's Day, some people can't go home, some people don't want to go home (talk about the cruelty and helplessness of reality)

author:Yuan Dadao

Put on your mask, bow your head, hurry up, and eat heavily.

The epidemic has caused many people to lose their jobs, jobs that people would not have considered before in order to survive,

Now, it has become a sought-after job.

In the early morning of winter, the wind is cold through the bones, the people who are wandering in the streets are waiting for the factory car at the end of the day to pick them up to work, these people are constantly shivering, while squinting their eyes and looking into the distance, they sincerely hate this kind of assembly line work that makes people have no dignity, but they have to look forward to it, look forward to today's day end smoothly,

Because their lives are already very unsmooth.

New Year's Day, some people can't go home, some people don't want to go home (talk about the cruelty and helplessness of reality)

People who can't go home, miss home, but they have a responsibility.

Over the years of the epidemic, I have seen a lot of deeds about these people, although there are many voices on the Internet attacking "they should not have worked so hard".

But in the end, they have been insisting for us, for more people.

I know that many people are very disappointed in this environment now, because the various social events that have occurred in recent years have shown that people's disappointment in the environment is not that people want too much.

Rather, they want the society to be fairer, even if only a little.

Maybe it's because I'm older, maybe I've seen too much, I have an unspeakable mixture of tastes in my heart about what happened to these people, it may be that I've had a similar experience, I know how heavy these people are carrying, and I know that they've done a lot of overloaded work.

But in this society, there must always be people who eat the losses that they should not eat, do the work they don't want to do, carry the insults that they should not carry, and then be silent and live.

Therefore, I sincerely hope that these people who are really willing to do things can get better opportunities for development in the future for those who shoulder too many responsibilities but do not enjoy good treatment.

I know, someone will jump out and say, my idea is very childish,

They will tell you that this society is so cruel, so ruthless, so trampling on people's hearts.

But I always believe that no matter what kind of way society develops, people's hearts still have temperature, and if those who can speak up and spread ideas cover up their lack of empathy with indifference, then such an environment will only get worse and worse, and there will be more and more people who want to go home but can't.

I don't want to use the so-called indifference and ruthlessness to show that I am very mature and see how thorough the problem is, I always think that a person who can see through social phenomena and still has temperature in his heart is the real sense of maturity.

Some things, we know are not good, but these things, we can not because of bad and wanton to trample, even if there are many difficulties, as long as we still have the ability, we should contribute to our own strength with a kind attitude.

If there is real hope in this world, then what can we do?

Just don't let that hope become humble and ridiculous.

New Year's Day, some people can't go home, some people don't want to go home (talk about the cruelty and helplessness of reality)

Those who can go home but do not want to go home have a heavier heart than the burden on their shoulders.

Going home is a relaxing thing, reuniting with your family and feeling the warmth and peace of mind that home brings.

However, those who do not want to go home often do not feel warm and reassuring.

Instead, the indifference of his family members to their own incomprehension, and the various things they have to face when they return home, lead to their own worries.

Many people call this phenomenon the generation gap, the generation gap after a few zeros and a few zeros, but in fact, many families, regardless of the age and youth of the family members, why can they communicate in a proper way?

Behind the generation gap is actually a prejudice caused by ignorance and stubbornness.

Some people, they can't be people, but they always teach others how to be people, they can't do it themselves, they can't do things well, but they ask others to do it perfectly, and what they do makes neighbors and friends admire.

Those who live in the shadow of the family begin to find that they are a tool to show off to outsiders at home, and if this tool is "not good", they will not think that they use the wrong concept to understand the problems of others, but will blame the "tool" why it is "not good to use".

Over time, these people are tired of the endless quarrels, tired of the problems and contradictions that can never be explained, so they don't want to go home:

It's not that they hate going home, it's that they feel,

That place could no longer accommodate its own existence.

New Year's Day, some people can't go home, some people don't want to go home (talk about the cruelty and helplessness of reality)

Approaching the New Year, worried and worried, ask yourself,

How long has it been since there was no heartfelt happiness?

I used to think that as long as the New Year is over, as soon as the firecrackers are fired, the aroma of Chinese New Year's Eve meals and the laughter of family members will dilute everything.

And now, I find that there is no going back to all this.

Whenever and wherever we are, we have to fulfill the "obligation" we pay for survival,

On these endless roads, the number of peers is innumerable:

The price of no longer being young, it turned out to be so heavy,

The price of no longer childishness, it turned out to be so painful.

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