After a year and three months, Bo Han finally graduated.
As a child who needs rehabilitation, Bo Han's time to receive rehabilitation is somewhat late. As parents, we did not find out the child's hearing problem in time, which is where we are not qualified, which is a big regret in my heart. But fortunately, when Bo Han was three years old and eight months old, we found this problem and chose KangYuan for rehabilitation, without delaying for a longer time, which made me feel a little less guilty about him.
I still vividly remember Bohan's first day of school. It was September 22, 2020, and Bo Han was three years old and nine months old. At that time, he only knew red and white, counting was completely impossible, the length of the sentence was about six words, and his speech was vague. We were assigned to the walking class taken by Teacher Yue. When I first entered Kangyuan, as a parent, I was very anxious, and I wanted to know how my children were eating. How did you learn and can you keep up? Adapt to school life? Later, I found out that this was all mediocre self-disturbance, and Bo Han's adaptability was much better than I thought. Although he did not like to express himself in school, he did not resist going to school.
I believe that every parent who has just recovered with their child is as confused, confused and depressed as I am. We don't know what the teacher said about the auditory description? What is Tongue Exercise? What is abdominal breathing? What the hell are these jargons? How come I've never heard of it? In order to keep up with the other children in the class, parents are at home forcing their children to learn. But not all children are willing to cooperate with their parents, we have intimidated children, beaten children, and even locked up in small dark rooms because children are disobedient. But this leads to another consequence: the child does not like to learn, and he is disgusted when he sees seaweed; he cries when he says learning, and the parent-child relationship becomes tense.
For a while, I forced him to study, and I couldn't sleep without practicing the homework assigned by the teacher. As a result, the child did not sleep enough during that time, his mental state was not good, and even his hearing fluctuated. These are all misunderstandings that I have walked through, all bitter tears.
Fortunately, I found a learning method suitable for Bo Han, which made me feel full of hope. Bo Han is very well-behaved in school, but at home he is a different look. He refused to sit quietly at the desk and study as he did in the class. So I would pick him up on his way home from school and take him to review what he had learned that day. After arriving home, I insisted on telling him picture books every day. The benefits of picture books are known to everyone, expanding vocabulary, developing sentence length, improving children's comprehension, imagination and so on. Bo Han's vocabulary is relatively rich, what wind power generation windmills, fire alarm sirens, lights, hot springs... Most of them were obtained through picture book reading, and some of them were told to him by what we saw while walking. I would also teach him to count for a short time before going to bed, and the two of us would take turns counting he could count to fifty. I would still talk to him before going to bed, and I often asked him if you had anything happy about today? At first he didn't know how to answer the question, he just said no. Then I will say what I am happy about. Now he would say that the children were happy to share food with him, and he would say that he was happy to have tennis lessons. On weekends, I often take him out for a spin or write two whole-brain developments.
Every child needs a suitable learning method, and the content and way of learning are formulated for their own children. This is not only beneficial to the child's progress, but also has a harmonious parent-child relationship. Blind persecution and rigid imitation of other people's learning methods are not advisable.
When we have problems, we must communicate with the child's homeroom teacher in time. At first, I didn't like to look for teachers, because I had social phobia, I didn't know what to talk to teachers, thinking about finding teachers often, and the teacher would not be annoyed. When walking around the class, Teacher Yue took the initiative to come to me and told me to communicate with the teacher more. When I arrived at the new class, I slowly changed myself and began to talk to Teacher Liu about the child's recent situation. Then I realized that fear actually came from the unknown. When we talk to the teacher, we don't have to deliberately find a topic, and sometimes we pick up the child and ask a question to know the child's performance. At that time, I was keen to participate in the weekly parent salon, and if there was confusion and problems, I would find Teacher Yanxia to solve it. Ms. Yanxia has more than 20 years of teaching experience and has a lot of teaching experience. Therefore, I hope that parents must seize this hard-won opportunity to participate in salons and training, children are learning, and parents must enrich themselves.
Kangyuan not only brings good rehabilitation effects to children, but also cultivates children's self-confidence and self-esteem. At the beginning of the year, most of the children in the class were promoted, leaving Bo Han and three other children. I was very confused, so I went to find Wang Yuanchang. Wang Yuanchang said that Bo Han's grades were at a medium level in the class at that time, and they were not prominent in the class and did not like to express themselves. If there are new children promoted to Bohan's class, other children may not have Bohan know more and learn more knowledge, so that children will have more self-confidence and are willing to express more in class. Get encouragement and praise from teachers. In the long run, the child's self-confidence will become stronger and stronger.
Indeed, teacher Liu, who was walking around at that time, praised him almost every time he handed over. Bo Han's boldness also grew. The teacher told me that he would actively answer questions during class. I also found that when Bo Han played with other children after school, his voice became louder; he would also "stare" at me and argue with me. Let me see the spirit and vitality that a normal child should have.
Bo Han's ability to have the current results is inseparable from the efforts of the teachers of Kangyuan. Thank you to the teachers of Kangyuan for their meticulous care, thanks to the teachers of Kangyuan for their sincere teaching, and thanks to the selfless efforts of the teachers of Kangyuan. Thank you! Thank you for interpreting the meaning of special education teachers with love, patience and perseverance!
Although my child graduated, the pace of recovery could not stop. This is a long process that requires parents to be patient with their children. I'd rather spend three or five years helping my child recover than delay my child's life because of these years. I also hope that other parents will sink their hearts on the road to their children's recovery, patiently accompany their children, and do not leave regrets for their children's lives.
Thank you again to the teachers, thank you guys!
Bohan's mother