Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
The initial color of love is simple, two people together, and things that are not so complicated. However, as the two get along, the things that are mixed with each other become more.
Indeed, isn't the purpose of our pursuit of love so that the two of us can be together well? The premise of being well together is the material basis.
Seeing this, some people may think, is it that without materials, the two cannot be together? In fact, material is the basis of love, if the material conditions are really bad, what maintains feelings is the relationship between the two people.
After all, in the world of feelings, there are too many things that can make him "addicted" to you. And this addiction will make the road to love more smooth and unimpeded, making the relationship more intimate.
In fact, when we look at love from a dialectical point of view, you will find that feelings are like a game, the attack is too fierce, it will make the other party wary, and will not easily show weaknesses in front of you.
On the contrary, if you are advancing and retreating, he will let down his guard because of his self-confidence, thus giving you the opportunity to "attack".
Therefore, in the face of feelings, we must be relaxed. Especially to get a man, you don't have to pay too much, as long as you deal with the problems in the relationship wisely, he will be addicted to you.
In a man's mind, a woman with a "mind" will make him addicted:
Above we said that to make men addicted to you, you need to be a person with a "head". But about the matter of having a "brain", many women are confused.
Because there is a "mind" in love, which is very different from having a "brain" in work and life. It is not an exaggeration to say that people who are excellent at work may not be able to navigate in their feelings.
So, what would a woman with a "brain" do to get a man addicted to you? Before figuring this out, we need to figure out, what kind of women do men like?
You know, in life, women pay more attention to emotional details than men. In other words, to make men addicted to you, women need to pay attention to the measure of some things in their relationships.
The ancients said: "No rules, no squares," which applies to feelings. If a man is addicted to you and feels that you are a woman with a "brain", you need to learn to be considerate and tolerant in the process of getting along with you.
Especially in important occasions, as far as possible, show your own generosity, so that the man will feel that you are very sensible and can accompany him to cut through the thorns.
Therefore, in a man's heart, a woman with a "mind" will make him addicted, and this woman with a "brain" is a woman who knows how to divide and measure, knows how to understand and respect men.
Of course, in addition to women who know how to understand and respect men, and can get men's appreciation and addiction, women also need to know how to show weakness and grasp the distance between the two.
You know, a woman who will show weakness will melt a man's heart. When the sexes get along, there will inevitably be some friction, at this time, women with "brains" know how to show weakness, and will not have to be ignored.
Speaking of this, I suddenly remembered a friend who said such a sentence: "Means and abilities should be used on outsiders, and there is nothing wronged between lovers." ”
Indeed, being unreasonable may make you win in this argument, but it will make you lose completely in this game of feelings.
A woman who likes to argue will only give men a headache. Especially in some very small things, there is obviously no need to argue, but it is counted by women as worthless. What man likes to spend time with such a woman?
Also, a woman who makes men addicted also needs to have the ability to grasp the distance between the two. Juan Valera once said: "Separation is the cure for the chronic disease of love." ”
In other words, the distance between the distance and the distance is better than the two people who have been tired of being together. The initial part of the relationship is always full of passion and curiosity. But with getting along, the two will fade this love, and they will naturally be separated after a long time.
Therefore, in the man's heart, a woman with a "mind" will grasp the distance between the two. Grasping the distance can maintain a sense of mystery and thus attract his attention.
In the process of getting along, don't put yourself out completely. Properly retaining some is the most appropriate way. Don't show too much "love" for him, the more active you are, the more he withdraws.
Grasping the distance, he will have a constant curiosity about this mystery, want to possess, and be passionate, and over time, he will naturally become addicted.
Love Words:
Women with "brains" know how to score inches, know how to show weakness, and also grasp distance. In the process of getting along with men, she will always face it in a just right state. Even if she loves each other again, she has not completely lost her mind, and she is also managing her feelings.
Know how to divide inches, let men be fascinated by your understanding; know to show weakness, let men charm your weakness; grasp the distance, when men are fascinated by your mystery. Such a woman with a "brain" will make men addicted.
In this way, neither let yourself be too tired, nor let yourself always be attached to men, why not enjoy it?
Therefore, if you want a man to be addicted, you must step out of the role of "chaser" and become the one who is loved. Only if you feel from the bottom of your heart and think that you are the leader of this relationship will the other party recognize your importance.
Feelings need skills, and women with "brains" know best how to do it in order to better manage their feelings and make men addicted to themselves.