Duchess of Sussex, Megan Markle, described herself suffering in the royal family in a 2021 interview, saying that the royal family was cold and that no one tried to help her, causing her to struggle under outside public opinion and pressure.
However, the royal family did not agree with Meghan's statement, and insiders pointed out that Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge, and Sophie, Countess of Wessex, had tried to help Meghan many times at different times.
Royal family expert Rachel Bowie confirmed that female members of the royal family did try to reach out to Megan, but megan refused.
When Meghan first entered the royal family, there were many people on the outside who were dissatisfied with her African-American identity and divorce experience, and the first to help her was Camilla, the Duchess of Cornwall.
At that time, Camilla would often invite Megan to her home for afternoon tea and share her experience with Megan, telling Megan to learn to be patient and minimize out-of-line behavior, and after a while, the outside public opinion would disappear.
Some people think that Camilla took the initiative to show kindness to Megan at that time because she lacked "allies" in the royal family, trying to win Meghan and her "the same camp", but Megan did not accept her suggestion, in the eyes of this arrogant American woman, Camilla is because of this hidden tolerance until now has not eliminated the outside world's dissatisfaction with her, Megan believes that she has the means and ability to "conquer the people" faster.
Megan then resorted to a series of PR tactics as a Hollywood actress in the past and tried to show herself in public, but these disregard for royal traditions and violations of etiquette brought her more controversy, and during that time, Kate also reached out to Megan.
However, the arrogant Meghan also rejected Kate's kindness, which is likely to be Megan's self-esteem, because at that time, the outside world frequently compared her with Kate, highlighting Kate's perfection with her inadequacies, making Megan determined to surpass Kate to prove herself, which is also the reason why Meghan was repeatedly questioned by the outside world in 2019 about her intention to compete with Kate.
After realizing Meghan's resistance to Kate's help, Queen Elizabeth II very intimately sent her most satisfying daughter-in-law, Sophie, when it was reported within the royal family that the Queen had arranged for Sophie to be Meghan's mentor, instructing her on how to deal with the various problems that the royal family needed to correspond to and reduce the "drama" surrounding her.
Princess Sophie is known to have been a countess because her husband, Prince Edward, rejected the title of Duke when she was young, and because the Princess never publicized her charity work and was not a senior member of the royal family (the Edwards joined the royal family after Harry Meghan's departure), she received far less attention than Kate and others.
In contrast, Meghan, at that time, she and Harry had successfully "separated" from William Kate, and the two newly opened "Royal Sussex" social media accounts broke the Guinness World Record and became "the fastest account to break through one million followers".
In the eyes of the former actress, the attention and popularity are the key to determining a person's ability and identity, which makes her "look down" on Sophie's guidance at all, and believes that The reason why Sophie is not controversial is because she is "not popular enough".
That is to say, the female members of the royal family did want to help Meghan, but in the end, Megan's "isolation and helplessness" situation was completely her "self-inflicted", and after returning to the United States, she dared to accuse the royal family with these backward rakes, and I really don't know whether the former princess is "too big in heart" or really so self-contained.