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Some people say: "When cold meets warmth, there is rain; winter meets spring, and there are years; heaven meets earth, there is eternity; people meet people, and there are emotions." ”
Along the way, the most painful thing in life is not to study, earn money, support a family, or suffer from illness, but the soul is wandering. Everywhere you go, you can see the crowds of people, but there is no one to rely on, let alone a person who understands himself.
There is no known who you will meet in the next second, but there will always be someone you will meet, or like, or loath, or insensitive.
I really want to meet a person whose soul is with me, just like the Ming Dynasty scholar Feng Menglong's Yu Boya and Zhong Zi period.
When the mountains have flowing water, they are vivid; when the flowing water has the mountains, they are warm. The artistic conception of the mountain flowing water meeting the zhiyin can only be understood, not spoken.
Today, we will learn from the ancients, and look forward to a confidant and enter life.
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Those who are accompanied by souls are not humble or profane, and have the same level.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Yu Boya, the grand master of the Jin Dynasty, returned to his hometown, the State of Chu. Feeling the melancholy of "a young man leaving home and returning to his old age", he embarked on a journey to become an official in a foreign land.
The country is still there, but the people are old.
Yu Boya sat in the boat and played a song. Suddenly, the piano broke and the sound stopped. A woodcutter came up and said, "Don't be surprised, I'm listening to the piano." ”
"A firewood shooter, also dare to say 'listen to the piano'?" After Yu Boya finished speaking, he did not arrange for the woodcutter to sit down.
Instead, the woodcutter unceremoniously untied his coat and the bucket, set the axe aside, chose a marginal position, and sat down.
From the beginning of the story, it is not difficult to see that Yu Boya's attitude is arrogant and rude, and the attitude of the woodcutter Zhong Zi period is insulting.
In terms of status and economy, Yu Boya is high above the top, and Zhong Zi period is a grass people, but they have become a level of people because of the sound of the piano, and they call each other brothers and brothers.
In real life, we always want to meet the soul confidant, but the posture is arrogant, or we have degraded ourselves, and we dare not look up at people.
There is a way, the way is different, not a conspiracy.
I always want to meet the same people, but the people on the same road are competitors, often for the sake of profit, the competition does not stop. Let's say the owners of two restaurants, both of whom want to squeeze each other down, are exalting themselves.
As a person, no one should look down on anyone, and no one should be ashamed of themselves. When you meet a confidant, you actually adjust your own level, try to be "at the same level" as the other party, no matter how high or low your status, age, or money, you don't care.
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People whose souls accompany each other have nothing to do with the wind and the moon, and have a spirit in their hearts.
Yu Boya asked, "If the lower official strokes the piano and thinks in his heart, can you understand it?" ”
Zhong Ziqi said: "'Others have hearts, give them a degree', yangyanghu, the meaning of adults, in the mountains also; soup and soup, ambition in the flowing water." ”
As a high-ranking official, I think about the great shore of the mountain for a while, and think about the far-reaching flow of water for a while. The position is high and powerful, but the homeland is difficult to leave; the ambition is thousands of miles, but the heights are cold.
The real mystery of those who can be with the soul lies in the connection of the soul. You don't say, I know; I don't want to say, you know.
Xi Murong once said: "We are on two very high ridges, far away from each other can not look at each other, but we can hear your gentle voice." ”
For various reasons, we can't be together every day, we can't walk hand in hand, but we can express greetings in various ways, and we can use tenderness to surround everything about each other.
On the road of life, someone listens carefully to your voice and reads your words and deeds, which shows that he really loves you and cares about you at all times.
Heart and heart together, is the best companionship, better than the twilight of the morning, Qingqing and me. This is the subtlety of "reading you a thousand times and not getting tired of it".
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People who are accompanied by souls help each other, regardless of return.
Yu Boya took gold several times to Zhong Ziqi and his father. He knew that as a woodcutter, the family must have difficulties, and it was only natural that he could help him.
After the two separated, Zhong Ziqi relied on Yu Boya's sponsorship to buy a lot of books and study them carefully.
Do your best to help each other, and don't reciprocate, this feeling is more precious than the gold itself. People's hearts are all flesh, how can they not be moved?
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius's student Zilu was playing the piano. Confucius sighed and said, "This sub-road is too talented, the first king formulated music, very rhythmic, integrated into the warm atmosphere of the south, not the cold of the north." ”
Zilu was very scared, and he didn't expect that the teacher knew the piano so well.
Confucius also said, "If you can change it, you will be able to enter it." ”
In terms of "piano sound", the words and deeds of Yu Boya and Confucius have "the same magic of the same song". Recognize the sound of the piano and educate people by talking about the sound of the piano.
"The same is the end of the world fell into the people, why should we have known each other when we met", the real help is not just to give money, but to help the will. Push the other party's ideal goal far away, and always remind, in this way, the brothers and sisters who are in distress will become stronger and stronger.
Being a person is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat, if you meet someone who is accompanied by your soul, you can advance and retreat together, and finally progress together.
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People whose souls are with them, and who have faith in their words, can always be reunited.
Yu Boya and Zhong Zi met during the period, and on the fifth or sixth day of the mid-autumn of the following year, they met by the river.
"Late to the autumn month, is refreshing, not for the gentleman", this sentence, the word integrity, reflected.
The weather is unpredictable. Zhong Ziqi died young, and did not get Yu Boya after all, but he buried himself by the river and "waited" for his confidant.
Invisibly, when we meet someone whose soul is with us, we will agree to reunite with him, agree to eat together, and agree to fight together... Because of the "agreement", on the road of life, confidence is full, even if there is wind and rain, it is not afraid.
It is often a person who walks, but is not afraid, because there is still a person in his heart.
Warm heart, beautiful reunion day, this is the driving force for moving forward. Even after the reunion, it doesn't matter if they still have to be separated. As long as you desperately miss a person, the other person will feel it.
Let's say you pick up the phone and ask "how are you?" and the other person says, "I'm thinking of you"; you're just about to send a message, and the other person sends a message. Everything is natural and touching.
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The poet Feng Yanshu wrote: "Spring feast, green wine a cup of song again." Goodbye to Chen Sanzhi: one wish lang jun chitose, two wishes concubines chang jian, three wishes like Liang Shangyan, the years to see each other. ”
I wish each other, health and longevity, not for anything else, only wish to be together for the rest of their lives; wish themselves, health and longevity, not for themselves, only wish to be inseparable from years to year.
As long as you are good enough, there will be such a person, once met, once in a lifetime.
True feelings, like a slowly growing tree, in time, become a towering tree.
Roots and roots together, leaves and leaves holding hands, floral fragrance in the fragrance of flowers, sharing a piece of the sky.
Be a sincere person, there will always be a person with a soul to accompany you.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.