What will a boy who is kidnapped by "No Crying" slowly lose?

Pay attention to me and live calmly and freely together

(The child is about four years old)

Mother Cow's heart

At the beginning of the article, the child's father praised the little sister of his peers and compared him with the little sister.

The child may feel a sense of crisis and not be loved,

So immediately show weakness and ask for a hug, this method obviously irritated Dad even more,

Maybe Dad thinks that if you can't do it, you should work hard, how can you still ask for hugs, why are you so unenterprising, not seeking progress, so weak?

For a four-year-old child, feeling unloved, feeling low value, how to face this feeling? Of course, the experience is insufficient, and he obviously uses the "baby" trick of showing weakness. This is all too common for a four-year-old.

If we can accept this feeling, but do not encourage the child to face the difficulties in a way that shows weakness, but encourages the child to challenge himself, overcome himself, and overcome the difficulties, the child will be encouraged to accumulate new experiences, not just to show weakness.

However, indifference, rejection and confrontation will only make the child feel more indifferent and more negative. In a popular phrase on the Internet: "He will not stop loving his parents and parents, but he may stop loving himself." ”

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