In love, always full of joy and sorrow, when you just like a person, the heart will always be full of a variety of emotions, in these emotions, happiness often occupy a lot, because at this time you, do not know what kind of answer the future will give you, always look forward to this relationship can have a perfect ending, hope and like the person you like can go on forever, may also be now you, do not think about the future will be, just feel that there is a person in your heart like, It is a thing that can make you very happy, but how can everything be as people wish in real life, and in a relationship, often the most existing is helplessness! Maybe experienced the division and combination, noisy, know the last dish to understand, now like the people, always far away from themselves, once everything, the original is an illusion, always think that the person is very close to themselves, with the passage of time, only to find that you have always been separated by an insurmountable gap, always not a road people, perhaps, this is what we often say love and can not, obviously they use their best to love, but each other still go farther and farther, maybe only those who have experienced can appreciate, Falling in love with an impossible person is actually the painful practice of loving life on the way forward!
Feelings are like this, many times are often weak in heart, even if they love, but still can't get, love is an uncontrollable desire, because the two are obviously in an unequal state at this time. You are in love with him, and you are extremely attentive to everything about him, thinking day and night, and never forgetting. You want to give him the best of everything, surround him with love and care, and make him happy forever. Of course, you will also have selfish intentions. You want your efforts to be rewarded, and you want him to fall in love with you from the bottom of his heart. At this moment, his inner feeling was different. In his eyes, you may be an ordinary friend or someone you can socialize with, but you are far from a lover. He doesn't care much about you. He may think of it occasionally, but will soon forget it. After all, you are just wishful thinking. This so-called "feeling" in your eyes will always be your one-man show. You always try to deepen the relationship between two people, but he always keeps his distance from you consciously or unconsciously. The more I loved, the more tired I felt. Love is not allowed, but it is the most uncomfortable. It's a desperate feeling of powerlessness when you've exhausted all your strength and you're getting nothing. I can't forget it. It is often difficult for those who do not get it to let go. Because this relationship has become the biggest obsession in your heart. How much effort and hope you have put in over the years, just thinking that one day you will know and love the people you love. But in the end, he was beaten to the head and coldly told you that everything was wishful thinking. No one can accept this ending. So the person who is deeply involved in it has to deceive himself again and again: "If you try a little harder, he will be touched by you." This obsession is intertwined with regret, grievance, indisputability, and so on. It's too powerful and you can't let it go.
Even if one day, you really recognize, figure it out, and despair, you still can't easily let go of him. You will still habitually think of him, worry about him, worry about him, worry about him. He seems to have integrated into your world and cannot be abandoned anytime, anywhere. It's an unforgettable love and longing, even though he never really loved you, even though he was always far away from you. But in your heart, you have put him above all else. The more you don't get it, the more you can't forget it. This mixed emotion doesn't mean you can let go. Learn to let go and do what you need to do. Some people, no matter how much they give up, can only let go. There are many things in life that really need to be adhered to, but they must be based on one foundation, and that is worth it. The most important thing about love is to see if it is worth it. If the person you love has never really loved you, and it is only perfunctory or deceitful from beginning to end, then if you choose to continue to love, you are wasting your time and life. It's really not worth it. You have to understand that love is never the whole of life. There are so many people and things in this world that are worth our efforts and time. You can start your own business, cultivate some good hobbies, do a lot of things you like, and enjoy life. You can also pay more attention to the people around you who really care about you, your parents and relatives, your mentors and friends. It is "worthwhile" to spend time and thought on these people and things.
And the man who never puts you in his heart is not worth paying so much for him. Because it's not love at all. All your obsessions with him end up being just a waste of time. Forget it, maybe it's hard, after all, I've worked so hard. But you have to do it, because only then can you get rid of the shackles, find your true self, find the real life. Falling in love with someone impossible is a painful exercise. Perhaps, none of us can avoid this catastrophe. However, after we have experienced pain and crying, we can all understand: take responsibility for yourself and don't waste your time on people who don't deserve it. Those who don't get it, don't forget it anymore.