When she received a call from her girlfriend, she complained to me, and then helped her child with homework every day, she was going crazy. Two language papers, a math paper, a full 7 hours have not been done, the key is to see the wrong questions.
This side of the child grinding and rubbing, can not complete the homework, there the teacher sent a message to urge homework, girlfriend said really want to get angry, the child is like an eraser, soft and hard do not eat, look at it to be angry.
Probably during this time, the mothers are more anxious and have a bad temper, because it is the final exam again.
My city has been locked down because of the epidemic during this time, the children have been at home for more than 20 days of online classes, looking like they are about to take the exam, the children are still grinding and dragging as usual, of course, mothers can't stand it.
For the child's procrastination, many parents are very resonant.
Obviously, the homework that can be completed quickly, the child always has to watch TV and play when he comes home, and then start writing homework, always delaying until very late.
Parents look at the child and procrastination, the homework written is not yet of quality, the handwriting is sloppy, a lot of wrong questions, so they lose their temper, reprimand the child, the child is criticized, either crying or stunned, the homework is still not completed.
This pattern is repeated every day, making children hate writing homework more and more, and parents are becoming more and more impatient.
How to help children get rid of the habit of dragging and slow movements and improve the efficiency of writing homework? A few suggestions for you.
Give your child the right reward
When a child feels that writing homework is a painful task, he will run away. Rubbing is a way of escaping.
If a reward mechanism can be developed so that the child can see the sweetness and know that there will be good things waiting for him after writing the homework, then the child will definitely improve the speed of writing the homework.
Specific incentive measures Parents can discuss with their children to see what kind of rewards their children want.
For example, if a child wants to watch TV, parents can agree with their children that if they can complete their homework on time and with quality and quantity, they can reward their children with 10-20 minutes of TV watching time.
Of course, it would be better if you could reward them with extracurricular interests.
The child already has a football, and he says he wants a better football, so I tell the child that if he can complete his homework on time for 2 weeks in a row and there is no mistake, I will buy him the football he likes.
After reaching an agreement with the child, we wrote clearly in black and white the requirements to be met, and the requirements to be met and the prizes that could be obtained.
During that time, the child's enthusiasm was very high, after all, he had his favorite football as a driving force, and he was naturally very serious.
The child did as required, and I fulfilled my promise to buy football for my child as a prize in time.
Through this incident, the child realized that in fact, the speed of his homework can be improved, but he is not serious and focused. Through my continuous guidance, the child is much faster and more active in writing homework.
Make a plan and proceed in an orderly manner
Children's homework is very heavy, Chinese, mathematics, English, science, etc., there are many subjects to be learned, and each homework has to be previewed, reviewed, and homework is done every day. Many children don't know how to start, which subject to start with.
Without a plan and not starting, it is important for children to learn to make their own learning plans.
Without a reasonable learning plan, children will think, hesitate, and tangle, and time will quietly slip away.
Before your child starts writing homework, help your child list and categorize the day's homework.
Let your child see what is easy to accomplish and what is difficult and takes more time to complete. After classification, try to complete the more difficult homework when the child is energetic, and easily put it when the child is more tired.
Then ask your child to estimate how much time it will take for each subject to be completed, based on the amount of homework.
Then parents must time the child's homework, let the child see that the actual completion time and his estimated time is not much different, this habit once formed, can help the child in the exam reasonable estimation of time.
If the child's actual completion time is faster than his estimated time, parents must praise the child in time.
Children should have the ability to manage their time
Careful observation will find that those children who study well, they are very organized, will arrange their own time, watch them also like ordinary children, when they should play, but their grades are very good, this is actually due to the fact that this type of children are very good at time management, they pay attention to learning efficiency.
In fact, the children's IQ is similar, and the difference between the children is not because of iq, but because of time management.
Once a child has mastered the tricks of time management, learning becomes easy and parents become less laborious.
Time management is not innate and needs to be learned.
I have read a set of books recommended by the children's class teacher before, the title is "Children's Time Management Manual", this set of books gives some practical methods for children's time management in detail, I read after applying the knowledge to children, the effect is very obvious.
The book analyzes the child's learning situation from all aspects and gives some sincere suggestions. Use the 30-day children's time management method to help children cultivate the concept of time, correct children's procrastination habits, formulate time plans, implement the discipline of time management, exercise children's concentration, and teach children to use and manage time flexibly and freely.
After reading it, it will give parents a lot of inspiration. It can enable parents to learn how to guide their children more scientifically, educate their children, and help their children improve their learning efficiency.
This set of "Children's Time Management Manual" is divided into two volumes, one is "30 days for children to learn more efficiently", and the other is "30 days for children to learn more self-disciplined", the methods and suggestions in it are very good, they can be used after learning, and they are effective when they are used. Not only suitable for parents to see, but also suitable for children to watch.
If your child also has problems such as procrastination in learning and writing homework, it is recommended that you buy this set of books to read with your children. I believe that you and your children will have something to gain.
An inch of time is an inch of gold, and it is difficult to buy an inch of time. It's about the importance of time, and children who can grasp their own time tend to be better.
Master the ability of time management, become a master of time management, it is not too late at any time, and act with your children!