"Daddy... Brother, please don't send me away", in the hospital room, a little girl with sad tears on her face, crying and pleading with her father lying on the hospital bed, the father reached out to wipe the tears from his eyes, did not speak, after a few seconds of silence, the little girl slowly knelt down to the ground, the brother saw the situation and quickly helped her sister up, the little girl sobbed, intermittently said: "Please don't, I don't want to go to someone else's house." ”
Why did the father insist on sending his young daughter away, despite her bitter pleas? What kind of untold story is hidden behind this?
Terminally ill, he had no choice but to send his daughter
The man lying on the hospital bed above is named Xu Xianzhong, and the little girl kneeling down is her daughter Wen, who is nine years old this year.
Father and daughter have always relied on each other for their lives, and in the eyes of their daughters, Xu Xianzhong is the only one his father relies on in this world.
However, a sudden illness completely changed the life of the father and daughter, a few months ago Xu Xianzhong went to the hospital for examination because of physical discomfort, and when he learned the results of the physical examination, he was completely ignorant, and bone cancer was still advanced;
In the half a year after his diagnosis, his health deteriorated, and the torture of illness made him bedridden all day, not only losing the ability to earn money to support his family, but even his daughter's living life could not be taken care of, and he could only temporarily hand over Wenwen to his cousin Chen Ying to take care of;
Xu Xianzhong on the hospital bed is extremely helpless, thinking of his current situation, he hides his face and cries bitterly, can not let his daughter live happily with himself, healthy growth, Xu Xianzhong feels that he is not a good father, everything is too realistic, he will soon bid farewell to this and many people who have many attachments;
After half a year of illness and torture, Xu Xianzhong gradually got used to the fear of losing his life, he has thought very clearly, he can not escape death, but for his beloved daughter he can not give up, in order to make up for this deficiency, to find a good home for his daughter has become Xu Xianzhong's only wish for the rest of his life, for this reason she concealed Wenwen, found a couple with better family conditions for her, willing to adopt her;
Dad has been hospitalized, Wen Wen is very distressed, but young she does not know that her father is terminally ill, may leave her at any time, she even naively believes that dad will soon be cured and return to her side, when she will make her father's favorite dish;
In order to make Wenwen accept the facts, the aunt told her the truth, when she learned that her father had cancer, the young Wenwen began to realize the seriousness of the matter, and at that moment the little girl finally couldn't help but cry out sadly, and the big tears slid down her thin face;
Then the aunt told Wen Wen a cruel thing, her father could no longer take care of her in the future, he wanted to send her to a kind uncle and aunt for adoption, almost without any hesitation, Wen Wen sobbed and begged his aunt: "I don't want a kind uncle and aunt, I just want my father and brother to go, can you persuade my father not to send me away?" I miss my dad so much",
Seeing that his aunt was indifferent, WenWen cried and complained: "I will be a little more obedient, I will eat a little less, and I will definitely be admitted to college in the future."
Hearing her nine-year-old niece say such touching words, aunt Chen Ying could no longer control her emotions and hugged Wenwen and cried into tears;
The day before Children's Day, Wenwen called his father, hoping that he could accompany him to play, but his father said that he could not get out of bed, he could only let his aunt play with her, Wenwen's face was full of disappointment, but she quickly figured it out and decided to go to the hospital to accompany her father;
Wen Wen with carefully prepared meals for her father, followed her aunt to the hospital, in front of the bed, the little she kept fanning the wind for her father, when it came to eating, she also brought the meal to her father to eat, she also prepared a song for her father, Xu Xianzhong lay on the bed, secretly wiped her tears, he did not want his daughter to see her crying, Wen Wen went to the bed and stretched out her hands just to hold her father, she quietly said in her father's ear: "Daddy, I love you;" Xu Xianzhongqiang suppressed tears, gently patted his daughter's back, and said: Dad loves you too. ”
However, all of Wenwen's actions did not make Xu Xianzhong dispel the decision to send her for adoption.
He suppressed his tears and chased his daughter away with a cold face on the hospital bed, "Obedient, go fast, Daddy doesn't want you anymore!" Listening to Dad's "abandonment" Wenwen cried bitterly, "Daddy... Brother, please don't send me away", the child pleaded bitterly in a childish voice, and then she slowly knelt down to the ground, and Brother Wenwen quickly lifted his sister up when he saw it;
"Dad has to think about his own life, live, can't think about you!" Go, go! Xu Xianzhong looked at his crying daughter with pain and kept urging her to leave. Seeing that his father's idea had been decided, Wen Wen could only helplessly shed tears, and walked out of the ward reluctantly after a few steps.
Looking at the back of the child turning away, Xu Xianzhong, who had been holding back tears with his face stretched, could not bear it any longer, he pulled the quilt over his face and cried bitterly, and after he calmed down a little, he opened the quilt but found that his daughter Wenwen was still in front of his bed.
Xu Xianzhong thought that Wen Wen was disobedient and insisted on sticking to him and refusing to leave, and once again screamed, "Why are you back again!" Come on! Wen Wen carefully paced to his father's bed while crying, choking and making a request to Xu Xianzhong: "Dad, then you have to promise me to get better quickly." ”
In order to reassure her father, she took the initiative to assure him: "Daddy, if you drive me away, I will live well in someone else's house... Obedient. ”
The brother on the side saw this scene and said to his father: "Don't send your sister away, I will raise her, and I will take her with me if I am not married." Wen Wen looked at his brother gratefully, while his father Xu Xianzhong resolutely interrupted his brother's proposal: "You raise! You're still a child yourself, how do you raise them? Brother Wen Wen silently lowered his head, thinking about his situation and stopping making a sound.
Why would Xu Xianzhong prefer to endure the pain of separation rather than agree with the eldest son's decision?
It turned out that the eldest son Xu Zheng and Wen Wen were half-siblings, and the son was only 19 years old, and he still had to study and study, so how could he afford to take on the responsibility of raising another child? The son also has his own life, dragging a half-grown baby, his future and marriage may be ruined. As a father, Xu Xianzhong, although he was distressed about his daughter, he really couldn't bear to ruin his son's life! It's not fair to my son either!
Foster care is a challenge
In the process of preparing the procedures for Wenwen's adoption, Xu Xianzhong encountered another difficulty, according to the laws of our country, in addition to the consent of the father, he must also seek the opinions of the child's mother.
The child's mother is still in the human world, why does Xu Xianzhong not contact her to settle the child's life in the future, but directly chooses to send someone in a hurry? If it wasn't for the obstruction of sending him to the rescue, he wouldn't even be willing to inform Wenwen's mother of this decision? Is there any hidden meaning in between?
Xu Xianzhong said that he and Liu Rongfang have been divorced for many years, she has not paid attention to Wenwen, and she has remarried and has a new family, and the economic conditions at home are not very good, Xu Xianzhong believes that she cannot provide a good living environment and learning environment for her daughter.
He wanted to find a good family for his daughter, let her have a good environment for growth, and hoped that she would be admitted to college and get ahead in the future, so that even without her father, she could live well.
Now the adoption procedures can not be completed, Xu Xianzhong had to contact Wenwen's mother Liu Rongfang, the phone dialed Xu Xianzhong to briefly explain the situation to his ex-wife, expressing the intention of sending adoption, and Liu Rongfang, who has not seen the child for a long time, said that she wanted to talk to her daughter first, Wenwen was obviously very strange to her mother's call, she calmly took the mobile phone, listened to the voice from the other end of the phone, and did not have too many words to say to her mother.
Wenwen's mother asked Wenwen if she was willing to live with her, but somehow the words stimulated Wenwen, and Wenwen suddenly cried and yelled at her mother, "No, I don't!" Anyway, I just want to live that life with my dad, or anyone else, anyway, just don't live with my mom! ”
The vanished mom appears
Half a month after receiving the news, Liu Rongfang, who worked in other places, returned to her hometown to deal with the problem of sending her daughter to adoption. Since Xu Xianzhong could no longer get out of bed and move around, he asked his cousin to accompany Wenwen to see his mother. After not seeing her mother for many years, Wenwen had already blurred her impression of her mother, she was very distant, how she refused to call her mother, nor was she willing to accept her mother's closeness.
Liu Rongfang strives to communicate with Wenwen and find topics, trying to find the familiar feeling between mother and daughter, but Wenwen always refuses to communicate with her and is indifferent to her enthusiasm and concern. Liu Rongfang talked about the reason for her divorce from Xu Xianzhong, when Wenwen's grandmother died in a car accident and got a large amount of money compensation, after having money, Xu Xianzhong looked down on her and did not want to live with her, so he drove her out.
Hearing her mother describe her beloved father as so unbearable, Wenwen, who has been silent, immediately retorted loudly: "No, in my eyes my father is the best father in the world", when she thought of her father in the hospital bed, Wenwen began to cry again, and she made her position clear to everyone: "I love my father the most."
Liu Rongfang looked at her daughter's vigorous maintenance of her father, both happy and sad, happy that Wen Wen's father must be very good to Wen Wen, and the child would be so close to him; Sadly, her own biological mother, as a child, was rejected by her child so much that she was generally reluctant to pay attention to her as a stranger.
But what mother would not love her child? Even if Wenwen treats her coldly, Liu Rongfang does not mind at all, and still patiently interacts with her daughter.
After consulting her current husband, Liu Rongfang unanimously decided to take Wenwen back from Xu Xianzhong's side and raise her, and resolutely disagreed with Wenwen's father's idea of giving her away. And promise to take good care of her instead of her father, even if he doesn't have food, he will not be hungry! Liu Rongfang's current husband also said that although their family is not well-off, they will try their best to raise Wenwen.
Wen Wen still showed great resistance and rejection of her mother's true feelings and bitter mouths, and she cried while saying: "I want to follow my father, I don't want to go with you."
The mother took Wenwen's small hand and patiently explained to her that in order not to hurt the child's feelings, she lied kindly: "Daddy has no way, Daddy wants to work in a far place; He can only follow his mother, the place he wants to go is so far away, there is no way to take you, he has no choice, he can only follow me, you know? ”
The mother's expectant persuasion was exchanged for Wenwen's cold and strong refusal, "Then I would rather follow others than with you!" ”
This sentence was almost roared out, and the thick disgust in the words stabbed Liu Rongfang's heart fiercely. She couldn't help but ask her daughter, "Then why do you hate me so much?" Then she said: "Mom can't do it, not because she doesn't want you, but when there is no way."
Grandma Wenwen on the side was completely out of breath, and she angrily accused Xu Xianzhong's family of deliberately teaching Wenwen to be like this in front of Wenwen and Aunt Wenwen, and now the child and his mother were not close to each other, but also full of hostility and resentment.
Wen Wen's aunt is not willing to show weakness and count the children's mothers over the years, without the slightest mercy, she said that Liu Rongfang is so close to the child, but never asks about the child, because she has not fulfilled the responsibility of being a mother, the child is not willing to be close to her.
The two adults attacked each other with the past for the sake of their former grace and resentment, and quarreled inseparably, and Wen Wen listened silently and kept crying.
The aunt also told Wenwen that not only did her mother not forget him for a moment, but the sisters and sisters who played together when she was a child missed her very much, and she herself missed Wenwen very much, hoping that Wenwen could come back, and everyone welcomed her back to her mother's house to live.
Her aunt asked her gently and patiently, "Why don't you want to talk to your mother?" You tell your sister-in-law what you think."
Wenwen finally expressed his concerns: "I heard people say that your goal is money."
It turned out that this was the reason why Wenwen was unwilling to live with his mother! I don't know who instilled such thoughts into a simple and naïve child, XiaoYi and Wen Wen's mother immediately made their attitudes clear, "We don't want money, we don't want your father to take money, we don't want anything, as long as you!" ”
Liu Rongfang took the snacks that children love to eat and squatted in front of Wenwen, telling her about the situation over the years, and may have really ignored Wenwen's feelings when she first remarried, but now she sincerely wants to make up for her debt and wants to live with her. Wen Wen was still red in the eyes and shook his head, refusing the snacks handed by his mother and refusing his mother to enter her heart.
After not seeing each other for many years, Liu Rongfang understood that the feelings between their mother and daughter were not as strong as before, and there were still many misunderstandings between herself and her children that had not been explained, and many knots had not been unraveled, which could not be explained in three words in a short period of time. She was willing to give Wenwen time, willing to wait for her daughter to accept her mother again.
She takes Wenwen to her sleeping little brother, and wants to remind Wenwen of some of the warm times she had with her mother when she was a child.
Wen Wen looked at the cute little boy on the bed who looked a little like himself, his heart was slightly touched, and tears flowed silently.
The little aunt on the side saw it, hurriedly wiped away her tears in pain, this child's tears seem to be running out of tears since his father was hospitalized, why did fate let her taste the greatest pain of life at such a young age?
After receiving a very clear reply from her mother, Wen Wen and her aunt temporarily returned home.
Before leaving, Wenwen's mother walked up to Wenwen again and said sincerely: "Mother gives you time, is it okay for your mother to wait for you to come back at home?" Mom isn't going out this year."
From WenWen's mother's careful and gentle words, it can be seen that she always has this daughter in her heart, and the place where she is there is Wenwen's home, and she is also the strong support of her daughter Wenwen in addition to her father Xu Xianzhong!
Aspirations have been dashed, but there is hope for the future
After Xu Xianzhong learned that Liu Rongfang was going to live with Wenwen, he resolutely disagreed with such a practice because he did not trust Liu Rongfang.
However, according to the law, as long as either parent has the ability to support, there is no condition for the adoption of the child, and the idea of the child's father cannot be realized after all.
We always believe that blood is thicker than water, that the father's love for his child is as safe and reliable as a mountain, and the mother's love is as long as flowing water! Wenwen's mother's love for her child is overflowing with words, and I believe that as long as there is enough time, Wenwen will definitely open her heart to accept her mother's hug! Wenwen will also be able to grow up healthily and vigorously as Dad expects!