Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Yesterday I came home late from work, very tired, and wanted to take a hot shower.
As a result, after taking off his clothes, he found that the water had stopped, and he was shivering with cold.
Remembering what I suffered in a day, whether from the unit or the child's rebellion, it was all irritability, and my heart was like a fire, and tears came out of my eyes without controversy.
At the age of 40, he is not valued in the unit, has nothing to say between husband and wife at home, and hates iron and steel in front of his children.
The human world is not worth it, if there is a next life, do not want to come again.
The ancients said, "Thirty and standing, forty not confused, fifty knowing the Mandate of Heaven, sixty ears obedient, seventy indulgences do not exceed the rules." ”
Many people don't see through the real meaning! How difficult it is for an ordinary middle-aged man in his 40s to be a man with his tail between his legs in the unit, for that little bit of salary.
There are old people in the family, and there are small children at the bottom, worried about the parents' health, worried about the children's studies, and also save some money for the children to enter the society later.
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At this age, you are not qualified to have hobbies, no yourself, only responsibility plus body, want to take a break is a luxury, no one can understand the parents are not in good health, at any time the phone may call in the heart of the frightened.
A beautiful and decent dress in the dream do not dare to have, afraid of not enough money ah, happy people, this life does not believe that there are people like us in this world.
Because the elderly parents' health is deteriorating, things have to run to the hospital, they dare not get sick, they dare not spend money indiscriminately, they raise their children, they send their parents away, they complete the task for their children, and they are old.
It is so realistic, so sometimes it suddenly feels like people are over forty and too tired to live.
A family shrinks food and clothing to buy a house, the mortgage is overwhelmed, the price of the house has fallen, the child is rebellious, the study is not good, the worry is not going to high school, the unit efficiency is not good, and the voluntary overtime is often trained.
Frightened to receive a monthly salary, quickly transfer the mortgage, and insomnia is serious when stressed. Think about how you actually live not life, you can only call it living.
-03-
When people reach forty, they will no longer be as flesh-and-blood and willful and impulsive as when they were young.
But knowing our own position in this society, the experience of life makes us less passionate, but more calm, less impulsive, more calm, more responsible.
The happiness of a middle-aged man ends before the age of forty. All that's left is the walking dead, living only for a kind of responsibility.
But their own body is deteriorating, once looking forward to a happy life, the reality is hard and cold and helpless, hard to live to support, inadvertently people have grown old.
The leaders in the unit like to be young, and they are conscientious and conscientious, and they have not fished well. Young people don't do things carefully, and they have to carry the pot for them. You have no job or power, and young people don't take you seriously.
At our age, we can't take care of ourselves, in addition to working hard, the most important thing is that the parents are healthy, the children can learn self-discipline, better than anything, if it backfires, they can only heal themselves in pain.
-04-
After the age of 40, I have a clearer understanding of myself,
Have ideals but not delusions, know their own range of ability, not too optimistic, but also not inferior and negative,
After 40 days of noon, people have passed half of their lives, and their hearts have more calmness and open-mindedness.
Thinking about it, you can only comfort yourself: no one's life is born smooth, you see the surface scenery of others, but you can't see how sad others are behind them and you must insist on working hard.
Both men and women are under great pressure, no matter how difficult it is, you must grit your teeth and insist, shoot your own strength to others, no one can help, and no one really sympathizes with you.
Don't cry, every middle-aged person's life is unspeakably difficult, try to persuade yourself to reconcile with life.
It is a pleasure to meet you in my writing, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.