When your child comes home from school every day, should he be asked to write his homework first? Or let him eat first. Homework can't be written for a while and a half, and dinner has to be done for a while before eating. How do you arrange your child's time after school? Take a look at this mom's experience
1. Eat fruit before returning from school
The child's brain has been running for an afternoon, and his body's glucose consumption is almost exhausted, and it is necessary to replenish it in time. The child rests for 15 to 20 minutes, the brain has energy, and then it can do homework.
2. Do your homework before dinner
Writing homework after dinner is usually less efficient. Everyone has the feeling that after a full meal, people are lazy. Why is that?
It turns out that food eaten into the stomach needs to be digested, and digestion requires blood. At this time, most of the blood in the body flows to the stomach. In this way, the brain is in a state of insufficient blood supply, especially in children who have just eaten big fish and meat.
Therefore, I advocate that children's homework be done before dinner. When to eat dinner, parents can control. If you really can't complete your homework before dinner, you should pay attention to resting after dinner before studying.
3. Complete your homework before doing what you like
Every kid has one of his favorite leisure activities. Or watch cartoons, or games, or sports. For example, your child's favorite cartoon can be watched, but it must be watched after doing homework.
If there is no such habit before, parents can re-enter into an agreement with their children.
Suppose the cartoon is broadcast at 6 o'clock, and the child will start doing homework at 5 o'clock. After reaching an agreement, it is written on paper, signed by mother and child, and pasted on the door. The child obeys the protocol every day.
4, you can do it for a while, play for a while
Continue to make an agreement with your child: allow your child to do homework for a while and play for a while. This may conflict with parents' educational concepts. Let me first talk about why I want to do it for a while and play for a while. When the child does homework carefully, the child's brain nervous system runs at a high speed, and after ten minutes, the brain's glucose supply is insufficient.
If the child does not actively stop working, the brain will form a stress. In order to transfer stress, the brain will instruct the child to play. At this time, it is not the child who plays, but his brain wants the child to play. We parents do not understand, often blame the child for not doing the work, greedy play, this is unfair.
5. Do not add homework
Sometimes we parents see that our children finish their homework quickly, afraid that their children will waste their time at night, and then add homework to their children. This is a manifestation of our parents' eagerness to make quick gains. You don't know that if you do this, you will destroy the child's feeling of doing homework, and in the end, the child will not like homework, and he will not like to learn.
Of course, some children offer to do more homework, parents can consider. But the smartest parent at this time to limit his desire to do more homework is the best policy, just like good things do not let him eat too much.
You have to know that children's learning is a lifelong thing, a lifelong thing, what are you anxious about? If your child has a lot of leisure time, you can ask your child to read storybooks with color pictures that interest him, or arrange for him to read other kinds of books according to his reading ability.
6. Classical music can be played when doing homework
Children listen to classical music while doing homework. This can improve your child's concentration, relieve fatigue, prolong homework time, and improve homework efficiency. This method is suitable for auditory children.
7. Optimize the working environment (study)
If children like homework, they can enjoy learning. Therefore, other factors in the child's homework must be solved. Children's homework is done in the study.
If possible, parents can give their child a separate room as a study. If the child's study and bedroom are combined, the study and bedroom are separated by a woodblock to form a separate room.
The study can be decorated according to the child's wishes, and a sound system that can play music can be put on. Tell your child that the study can only be used when doing homework. Leave the study immediately after completing your homework. If the child plays, he must go to the hall and do not play in the study.
If you have fun in the study and form a habit, as soon as you enter the study, the brain nervous system will enter the state of play, thereby inhibiting the brain's learning nervous system. Use the study as a place to get your homework done efficiently. The scientific rationale here will no longer be explained in detail.
8, do not criticize children in the study
If you're going to criticize your child for something, please lead your child out of the study. You want your child to feel that the study is a place to be happy. That is, happily send the child into the study, and happily lead the child out of the study.
The study should be used as a learning mecca for children and a place for gaining happiness and self-confidence; It would be foolish to turn the study into a place to reprimand, nag, and scold children. In this way, the child will be miserable as soon as he enters the study. If you want to criticize, first lead the child out of the study.
9. Form rhythms
When your child comes home from school and goes to bed, the location, content and time of activity should be fixed. After the child adjusts to a set of schedules, he will not move. This is important for the child's present and future. Those college entrance examination winners have extremely strong rules of life and study.
The homework methods mentioned above are basically in line with ordinary children in primary schools, but they are not necessarily suitable for every child, and parents should refer to them. Especially for special types of children, such as "little rogue" children, this method should be changed.
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