Text: Cradle of Love Smile Winter
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
Low-quality life refers to a simple and simple life that does not require too many external conditions, so as to be able to remember bittersweetly, work hard, enrich life, and realize value. The richer the heart, the simpler life is. Life is frugal, work is simple, and work is simple.
Not reluctant, not strong, not victorious, low match, in order to more effectively control their lives, so as to achieve the goal of life. After forty years of age and prosperity, you will find that being able to live a "low-end life" is a kind of happiness, pure and beautiful.
Corresponding to the low-configuration life is the high-configuration life. In the high-end life, many resources are wasted idle: the children are piled up with toys, many of which have only been played once; the wife is full of clothes in the cupboard, many of which are worn only once.
Most of the rooms are empty villas, most of the equipment is idle factories; 70% of the software is not used in high-end mobile phones, 70% of the functions are not used in high-end cars. Not to mention wasted food, lost decorations, etc., and so on. The waste of resources is deplorable.
Therefore, knowingly, living within and out, and adapting to the situation have increasingly become an attitude of life pursued by low-ended people, not luxurious, not wasteful, minimalist and simple, enjoying life, transparent and wise.
01
Low desire
Everyone has all kinds of desires, too many desires, will distract people's energy, no desire, life will be boring. Only by retaining a properly low-matched desire can the quality of life be enhanced.
The English poet Milton said: "Learn to live in the simplest way and don't let complex thoughts ruin the sweetness of life." "Reduce your desires, don't have too much imagination, let your life develop in the direction of refinement, efficiency and intelligence, and you will live a simple and fulfilling life."
The low standard of life is not to lower the standard of life and settle for once and for all, but to know how to make trade-offs. Abandon those things that seem gorgeous but not practical, abandon those lofty and unrealistic goals, abandon those things that are complicated and take up space, so as to return to the essence of life, to love the people who should be loved, to do what should be done, simple and clear, refreshed, and easy to move forward.
To learn to live a low-end life is to learn to maintain a sobriety, to learn to discern and give up in the dazzling chaos of choices; in the ever-expanding city of desire and desire, to maintain a self-discipline, to learn to be moderate and refined, so as to ensure the quality and connotation of life, live a dashing and comfortable life.
02
Circle low match
As the saying goes, friends have more roads to go. As a result, many people think that the more friends the better, the larger the circle, the better. But in fact, people's time and energy are limited, it is impossible to operate, manage too much network of contacts, not to mention, equivalent exchange, in exchange for reasonable help.
Without a good enough self, not able to provide equal value, no matter how many people you know, it is useless, and you have worked hard and hurt others and hurt yourself.
The so-called circle is never squeezed into, but it is good enough to be accepted by the past. Therefore, it is wise to stay away from ineffective socializing and focus more time and energy on improving yourself.
If you want to fly with the geese, you must first have the ambition of the bird. For most people, instead of racking their brains to think about how to expand their circles and expand their connections, it is better to learn to polish themselves and make themselves better and better in the cultivation day after day, year after year, and good people and things will naturally be attracted to you, surround you, and let you calmly and comfortably. Otherwise, even if you break through, you will not be able to integrate into the circle of an elite, which will only increase your annoyance and sullenness.
Over forty years old, you must understand that only the self-confidence and charm that have been increased by the tempering and precipitation of the years are the capital that enriches the resources of human connections, and it is also the strength to resist the storms of life.
Learning to be low-grade circles is to put your time, energy and money in a small circle with choices, so that you can be able to improve and be promising, pick up the ranks, and will not waste wasted time, barren years, and lose yourself in pushing cups and changing cups and staggering chips.
03
Substance low ratio
Hemingway said: "In an era of luxury and waste, what human beings really need is very little. "With the great enrichment of modern material life, more and more people have the habit of shopping and consumption.
But gradually, you will find that many of the items that were snapped up on Double Eleven cannot be used several times, and many things have been piled up in one corner of the party for a long time, covered with dust.
In fact, when you abandon the high-quality life and choose the low-quality life, you will pay more attention to the quality and utility of an item. You may use the money to buy a few clothes to buy a high-end atmospheric high-grade dress, fashionable and comfortable, but it will never be outdated, and it can be worn repeatedly.
You may retire a large house and move into a small and exquisite apartment, no longer tightening your clothes and food to repay the loan, reducing the quality of life, giving yourself more space to place your soul, storing your ideals, and improving the taste and quality of life.
What's more, in order to pursue a low-end life and stay away from the prosperity of first-tier cities, he built his home in a small village with beautiful mountains and rivers, working at sunrise and resting at sunset, composing a pastoral song of his own.
These people are many accomplished painters, well-known scholars, and experienced investors. They can show their talents in the city and are willing to spread their youth in the countryside. With a low-end life, witness the years of growth, do not come to this fireworks in vain.
For a person, low match is not only an attitude to life, but also a responsibility, only a simple life, in order to continue to develop, both live free and textured, but also for human beings to make greater contributions to society.
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