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Some people have said that in the emotional world, in fact, most of the male friends are the so-called "bones", can not be chased forever in the turmoil, too easy to get but do not cherish, especially women tend to men better, the more tolerant of men, the more accommodating to men, the more for the sake of men, the more men are ignored by women; on the contrary, the more women are cold to men, the more women do not care about men, the more men will be attentive to women, the more they will desperately like women to go up.
Think about it, there is indeed a certain truth, as Eason Chan's "White Rose" sang, what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear; therefore, female friends must understand that if they like a man in their hearts and want to completely grasp the heart of men, then women must learn to use men's psychology and learn to "snub" men.
However, in the process of interpersonal communication, want to "snub" a man also has a certain skill, if the woman is really like a cold iceberg, the man is particularly cold and ruthless, there is no trace of emotion to the man, then no matter how much the man likes the woman in his heart, he will not take the initiative to go up, and will not try to pursue the woman.
In fact, there is such a person in this world, obviously you are each other's right people, obviously two people can hold hands together, accompany each other for the rest of their lives, but because the two of you get along the wrong way, or do not know how to get along, so that each other can only become strangers without any relationship.
In the end, in love, because you don't know how to manage feelings, you finally lost the person who really loves you, that is the biggest regret in life, even if you live very happily in the future, once you recall the past, you will often feel regret.
You know, the reason why some male friends in real life can enter the hearts of female friends and can be worried about by the hearts of female friends is because male friends are not active to female friends.
Therefore, if you want a man to care about women, and even forget, learn to "snub" on the line, the following three skills of snubbing men, if women learn well, men will definitely think about women, will be worried about women, will be worried about women, will be obsessed with women!
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Know how to "reject" men appropriately
In real life, many women, once caught in love, it is easy to be desperate for "love", in front of the men they like to become without any bottom line, become without any principles, as long as the men they like a word, no matter what problems the other party has, or what requirements are put forward, women will meet men one by one.
However, women often do this more, the more they love humble in their feelings, love women who lose themselves, and in the end they will often be hurt more deeply by male friends, and even men will not care about women's feelings at all, and will be very ruthless and cold to kick women away, and finally men will not remember what women look like, and forget men completely.
In fact, in the process of interpersonal communication, when a woman loves a man more deeply, the more she wants to be with a man for a long time, the more she must know how to learn to "reject" and learn to "reject" men appropriately. Girls should remember that no matter how much you love a man, don't lose yourself, and don't forget to love yourself.
And gender psychology mentioned above, in fact, men have a "desire to conquer" psychology, the more they can not get, the more he wants, no matter which man is good, they themselves have a very strong "desire to conquer", and sometimes in the game of love, women are like the prey of male friends, if women are always very easy to be caught by men, all of a sudden by men conquered.
Just imagine, male friends must feel particularly uninteresting, the so-called prey sent to the door, "tasteless food, abandonment of pity", once the man loses interest in women, or looks at other prey, wait for the two of you to pass the love period, wait for the man to the woman's fresh period after a while, then do not think about it, men will definitely be very ruthless and cruel to abandon women.
Therefore, female friends should know how to properly "reject" men, in the feelings of women should learn to be the cunning fox, not a well-behaved rabbit, to let men see women, touch women, but can not get women, so that will arouse men's "desire to conquer" women, attract men's attention to women, men will be more and more interested in women, and will really spend time, energy, and thought on women, but also will really put women on their hearts.
Even if the two of you don't come together in the end, or your love can't blossom, then I believe that men will also have a deep memory of women, and they will never forget women, it can be said that women are equivalent to the dream that will always be in the depths of men's hearts, which can be reached, unforgettable, and cannot be forgotten.
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Once a man betrays himself, he must know how to "leave" immediately
In fact, in the relationship, women must have their own bottom line and principles, for the betrayal of the boyfriend or husband, must know how to stop the loss in time, must know how to "leave" the other party, for the betrayal of women men can not be forgiven, because when women forgive once, they will get countless times of harm.
I have written and heard the stories of so many people who have come over, some female fan friends love their men too much, and after learning that their other half has betrayed themselves and betrayed their families, as long as the other party says something that asks for their forgiveness, they will forgive men very easily.
Some female friends will also be very pitiful to ask each other not to leave themselves, thinking that they can save their other half and save their families, but they do not want to do so, which will only make the other party more fearless, make the other party look down on women more, and thus be more ruthless and cold to women. There are also some female friends in order to keep a man who has betrayed himself and his heart is no longer on himself, and even does the kind of stupid things that hurt themselves such as crying, making trouble, hanging, etc., and finally makes themselves into the hospital, but in the end they are still cruelly abandoned by the other party and kicked away mercilessly.
Therefore, female friends should know that in the face of men who betray themselves, they should learn to be the same as Mao Xiaotong, after finding that men betray themselves and make things that are sorry for themselves, they do not have to say anything to men, nor do they need to listen to men's explanations or reasons, directly pack up their things and luggage, and turn away directly without turning back to men, which is the most rational and correct way, and it is the most able to make men never forget women in their hearts.
The principle and bottom line in the relationship are really important, what small mistakes and small problems can be forgiven, but once the bottom line or principle issue is touched, do not forgive, do not look back, this will make men look at women with disdain, in turn, bitterly beg women for forgiveness, want to start over with women, and if you do this, you can be 100% sure, it is estimated that men will not forget women in their hearts in this life.
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For men's retention, we must adhere to our "original heart"
I know that most female friends are more emotional, more affectionate, more affectionate creatures, even if women are ruthlessly hurt by their beloved men every time, but as long as they apologize to themselves and admit their mistakes, and ask themselves for forgiveness, they will immediately forgive each other. Even after a long time, men still don't know what to do wrong, always die, and use the same method to hurt women, so the cycle begins, infinitely.
In fact, to tell the truth, a woman like this is really very humble in her feelings, and at the same time, it makes people feel very pitiful. Dear girls, you still have to understand that if a man makes a very serious and unforgivable mistake, or if the two of you break up for some irreversible serious reason.
As long as the problem or cause between you still exists, then two people should not think about compounding, no matter what the other person says, because even if the two of you end up reuniting and getting back together, the same mistakes will still happen all the time, and you will eventually be separated for the same reason, for the same reason.
To know that in the process of interpersonal communication, sometimes treat men like this, no matter how much they love this person, how much they like each other, do not lose themselves because of "love", love loses themselves, and do not love so that they become humble, the more women want to get the sincerity of a male friend, the more they want to keep this relationship for a long time, then they must know how to adhere to their "heart" and retain their own bottom line and principles.
In love, you can't lose yourself, the more you have to know to snub men, know how to hang men's appetite, only let men know that they will leave at any time, then, men will be afraid of their own departure, and they will always have a feeling of "suffering from gain and loss" in their hearts, which is the best way.
Writer Zhang Ailing once wrote such a sentence that is worth pondering: "You can use any way to get love, but maintaining love requires wisdom." ”
All in all, as I said at the beginning, "what you can't get is always in turmoil, and you are favored without fear", maybe many people are such a psychology in love, once they are sure that the other party will not leave themselves, they will want to start to indulge in their own problems, so as to ignore the feelings in each other's hearts, so as not to take each other seriously, which is true for both men and women.
Therefore, in feelings, women should learn to snub men, in fact, they are telling themselves that when facing feelings, they must make themselves more calm and composed, do not lose themselves in love, and do not regard love as the whole of their lives, after all, when you regard a man as your own world, the moment you lose each other, you will feel that the whole world has collapsed.
For the above 3 love skills, I hope that every woman can master it, and I hope that all women can be treated gently by men, do not become humble because of love, and do not lose themselves because of love.
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