Parents can't often scold their children for not showing up

In fact, in our real life, there are many parents who do not recognize the mistakes of their educational behavior. Many parents often criticize and predict that their children will not be successful in the future because their children are disobedient, unmotivated, or have poor academic performance, do not study hard, and are more negative.

There are even parents who accuse their children, "If you have a job in the future, how to do it, a child like you, it is strange that you can have a job in the future." ”

Some parents simply say, "Like you, the future is the life of moving bricks, no one wants you to go out to work as a coolie, I see that you will be left with a garbage to beg for food in the future"... Wait a minute.

Some parents have many, many forms of language like this.

The original intention of parents is to stimulate and stimulate the children's inner morale through such an educational method, but they do not think that such education is actually a failure in most cases.

The more parents blame the child in this way, the more they predict the child in this way, and the more they say that the child is not out, he may really not be out in the future. Because the child's little fighting spirit and willpower have long been consumed by parents.

There is also a situation that the child's self-esteem is particularly strong, parents often prophesied in this way, will continue to stimulate the child, so that the child becomes particularly sensitive, he always wants to use his own efforts to prove that he can do it, to prove that he is not in the eyes of the parents, so that he will live in the proof all his life, live in inferiority all his life, and live in the struggle to show others all his life.

In fact, no matter which kind of result is not good, the most important thing for parents to educate their children is to encourage and stimulate, guide children to move forward in the right direction and positive energy, rather than to combat and restrict the development of children.