Falling in love with a person, everyone wants to show their best side, in exchange for the favor of the other party, to attract the other party to fall in love with themselves, and then harvest love.
It's just that everyone's cognition is different, the choices they make are different, and the result is, of course, some people can be with the people they love, and some people are empty.
There are many women who think that what can attract men has always been the value of the face, as everyone knows, the "freshness" brought by the value of the face is very short, to know that "the people of Israel, eventually because of the decline of color and love to relax", not to mention that there is no shortage of beautiful women in this world.
There are also many women who like to pretend to be simple in front of men, set up an illusion to let men fall in love with such a self, no matter whether women are tired or not, but treating men as fools is really not saved. Men are much more emotionally shrewd than women, he does not tear it down, just pretends to be confused and enjoys the ambiguity, passion, etc. you bring, don't expect him to love it.
In fact, women who are "attractive" to men are never simple or dependent on appearance.
First of all, women who know how to show themselves just right.
Many women are very passive or very active in the process of interacting with men, from one extreme to the other, the former makes men feel bored, and the latter will scare men into negatively affecting women themselves.
Some women are very eager to have a man fall in love with themselves, but they do not know how to show themselves, they love to stay at home, do not communicate, WeChat circle of friends are not even bothered to send photos, others introduce a member of the opposite sex and do not take the initiative to say hello, expecting others to fall in love with your WeChat name?
However, there is a kind of woman who knows how to show herself very well, can go to parties with friends, and let men have an indelible impression on her when they first meet her. There is style but not dust, connotation is not empty, interesting and not boring, attracting others who want to be close to her and get to know her.
This kind of just right to show yourself, must be very aware of yourself, familiar with their own advantages and disadvantages, know to take advantage of their strengths and avoid weaknesses, but also know how to maintain a decent image, elegant behavior, work measured, can support their own world, beautiful is for themselves, not necessarily to please others.
Showing yourself just right is also respect for others. No matter what kind of people you are facing, the attitude and style of doing things that are appropriate to the occasion will promote better getting along and communicating.
Showing the good side is the need for etiquette, respect for others, but also respect for their own behavior, invisibly adding attraction to themselves.
Second, a woman with a wise mind.
If a man wants to control a woman, then he will definitely choose a woman with a simple mind, because such a woman will obey him and not worry about getting out of control. Men only use this kind of woman and do not love deeply.
But a woman with an intelligent mind is attractive to men, and she can become a great "comrade-in-arms" of men and maximize the benefits of cooperation.
Because the best love is that you are good, and I am not bad, for men, women with intelligent minds, he will appreciate, respect, and love from the heart.
This kind of intelligent woman is more suitable for the standard of men's mate selection, which is conducive to the genetic inheritance of future generations, and the man is so realistic that he needs a partner who can share, not a "vase" who only knows what to circle around men but will not.
Intelligent women know how to get along with men, how to give men face, even if the body is rejecting men's approach, but the eyes are tempting men, so that men can't stop.
Occupying a certain degree of dominance in the phase, not deliberately pleasing men, knowing how to refuse men's unreasonable requests, and more aware of the power of recognition and reward, these behaviors are attractive to men and become the capital that men are proud of.
Finally, the informed woman.
Knowing is to have eyesight, know when to do what kind of things, more will judge the situation, can also grasp a good degree, and such a woman to get along, men do not have to worry about their face can not hang, respect is damaged and other issues, but let men fall in love with this kind of woman to get along with the feeling, because people are like a spring breeze.
Informed women have a wide range of insights, and may not be proficient in many things, but what men say she understands, and has her own unique insights, can talk about it together, and can also benefit people from empowerment.
Men and such women only feel comfortable, like feathers scratching the heart, itching to the point, making people feel heart but not bring burdens, just want to take good care of, afraid of destroying this beauty.
An informed woman has good self-control, knows when to stay away and when to go further, and leads the man to take the initiative to approach, satisfying his desire to conquer and everything he cares about.
Such a woman is empathetic, knows self-esteem and self-love, and will not be wronged for the love of men, more concerned about whether men can match themselves, and will treat each other with heart when they encounter each other, and be an informed and interesting person.
Men will have a sense of belonging and ease when they meet this kind of woman, and they will never let go easily if they catch it.
Women want to be the top of men's hearts, don't be deceived by some idol dramas, pretend to be simple rather than improve their attractiveness.
In the Cai Gen Tan, it is said: "It is better to make people have the joy of having a first friendship, but it is better to make them not tire of being bored for a long time." ”
Don't think of playing tricks to win people's hearts, but real kindness, so that he is humanely rounded, is empathetic understanding.
If you can do this perfectly, the attraction to men must be long-lasting and fatal.
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