In 1996, the eleven-year-old Gong Tiankuo passed the fifth grade in the piano level examination for the first time, and later reached the ninth grade with his own efforts.
This made the little one feel very accomplished, knowing that before that he was very resistant to practicing.
Gong Tiankuo began to learn piano at the age of four, and his mother Jinzhu rightfully became his sparring partner.
"I don't want to practice" became the phrase he said the most every day, and it also became the fuse for his frequent education.
Watching the mother and son in the family tit-for-tat, which made Gong Hanlin very headache, in order to ease the atmosphere Gong Hanlin proposed to take the mother and son to the mall to ease the mood.
After arriving at the mall, Gong Hanlin "inadvertently" took his son to a piano shop, and he routinely tried his son to play the piano.
The young and ignorant Gong Tiankuo naturally played there, during which it caused pedestrians to stop, and Gong Tiankuo received applause from the audience after a piece of music was completed.
Gong Hanlin and his wife took the opportunity to praise their son: "You see so many people recognizing your performance, how good you play." ”
Gong Tiankuo found a little sense of accomplishment in his encouragement, and from then on he became diligent in practicing until his piano level passed the ninth level.
Since then, Gong Tiankuo's life has been dominated by his father....
One
Gong Tiankuo was born in Shenyang in September 1985, his father Gong Hanlin and his mother Jinzhu were both literary and art workers.
Under the influence of his parents, four-year-old Gong Tiankuo once appeared on the stage of sketches, and he imitated his father's "Thirteen Fragrances" to imitate it beautifully, and the eyebrows revealed a comedic color.
Later, in 1988, his father Gong Hanlin visited Tang Jiezhong and studied cross-talk with him, and it was from then on that gong Hanlin became more and more busy.
Gong Tiankuo often did not see his father, even if he went out with his father, he also accompanied his father to talk about work.
Once Gong Tiankuo went out with Gong Hanlin, it just so happened that Gong Hanlin met acquaintances and people chatted about work, and the conversation was for an hour or two, and Gong Tiankuo waited for his father in the car until he fell asleep.
"Dad, I don't want you to be famous, you're too busy after you're famous, you don't play with me anymore."
Gong Hanlin's heart was very uncomfortable to hear this, and since then he has become respectful of his son's opinion and constantly communicated with his son.
Later, as Gong Tiankuo continued to grow up, Gong Hanlin's career gradually improved, he became the "nail household" of the Spring Festival Gala, and the family conditions were gradually improved.
When Gong Tiankuo was in junior high school, Gong Hanlin and his wife did not have any restrictions on him and let him play freely.
After graduating from junior high school, Gong Tiankuo was sent to the United Kingdom by his parents to attend high school, and Gong Tiankuo's academic performance was very good during high school.
At the university, he was admitted to the University of Fersay in Florida, USA, and studied directing.
In 2009, Gong Tiankuo graduated from university, and his graduation work "Good Things Again" waited for many people to receive praise, and he proved himself with his professional knowledge.
In July of the same year, Gong Tiankuo returned to Beijing and became a handsome returnee of more than one meter and eighty.
Two
In the early 21st century, many families will send their children overseas, and many will return to the embrace of their motherland.
After 8 years of living overseas, the sudden change of environment made him feel very uncomfortable, and for a time he began to "disobey".
Foreign land is sparsely populated, the pace of life is slow, the traffic in the city is also orderly, the people living there are very Buddhist and not sophisticated, while the life in China is very different in comparison.
During that time he became very anxious, and he felt uncomfortable seeing the crowds on the road, and the crowds made him feel fast-paced.
At the same time, the stage play "Drama within Play" invested by his father Gong Hanlin began a national tour, and Gong Hanlin and his wife were busy every day.
Gong Tiankuo, who was idle at home and had nothing to do, decided to help his parents share some work, "Parents, I am just at home and I will help you."
He himself graduated from the directing major, and he was even more comfortable with this matter, so he was busy for several months.
Gong Tiankuo served as a director in the crew, and he showed his professional talent in his work, assisting his father to run the crew very steadily.
Just when everything was running smoothly, Gong Tiankuo gradually clashed with the crew.
Gong Tiankuo received an "American" education, he spoke rigidly and rigidly, and when he spoke, he would use his own body movements to "point fingers" to colleagues.
Gong Tiankuo, who entered the working state, was meticulous, and he also spoke to the point in the face of people older than him, without mercy.
Chinese has always had a good face, not to mention being pointed out by a junior in front of everyone, there will naturally be many contradictions and even quarrels.
After spending a long time together, some gossip spread into the ears of Gong Hanlin and his wife.
"Gong Tiankuo used his father to point fingers at everyone, and his arrogance made this child really rude." This made Gong Hanlin very distressed.
After the tour, Gong Tiankuo decided to leave his parents' protection and find a job on his own.
Gong Tiankuo began to submit resumes everywhere, and his identity as a returnee made him quickly employed in a media company, he worked hard every day and treated his work seriously and responsibly, but in the impression of his colleagues, he was too rigid.
During the break, he will not have too much communication with colleagues, let alone participate in the team building of colleagues, will not get along in the workplace, gong Tiankuo's first job only lasted 5 months.
At that time, Gong Tiankuo began to fear the workplace, he did not understand what was wrong with his serious responsibility, did not understand where his relationship with colleagues made others uncomfortable, and did not understand why his colleagues rejected him.
Gong Tiankuo, who thinks westernly, has the idea of making him happy and smooth everything, and he leaves the company.
Gong Hanlin, the father, did not say much about this, he thought that his son had grown up, was an adult, and he had his own thoughts and reasons for everything he did.
Gong Tiankuo entered the workplace again after a month of silence at home, this time he changed his way of getting along with his colleagues, he began to talk to colleagues about his life in the United States, music, drama, etc. outside of work, but it seems that his colleagues are not very interested in this.
At the dinner, colleagues talked and drank, but most of the time he could only laugh awkwardly on the side, saying that different things did not conspire, Gong Tiankuo began to be physically and mentally exhausted, although his professional skills were very strong, but he did not gain the hearts of his colleagues.
This made it difficult for his work to progress, and just as he turned positive, he once again chose to leave.
The "returnees" of Kochi elements became "kelp" who were silent at home.
Watching their son depressed at home all day, Gong Hanlin and his wife were very anxious, so they used their connections to find a job as a director for Gong Tiankuo.
"Child, we don't need you to do much, you just need to adapt to life at home as soon as possible, put your mentality at ease, parents don't need you to do much, we just want you to be good." 」
This remark of his father gave Gong Tiankuo a great touch, "I just want you to be well" said his father's heart.
In the days of being a director, Gong Tiankuo's mentality gradually improved, and slowly he wanted to transform into an actor, gong Hanlin began to take him into the show business circle after learning of his son's idea.
Gong Tiankuo's first screen electrocution was the TV series "Lao Ye Shengtang" cooperated with Gong Hanlin, although the role was small, but it was his first step towards the actor.
In the following years, Gong Tiankuo successively starred in "Iron Brothers", "Choice Before Dawn", "Core of Justice" and so on.
Gradually, Gong Tiankuo became a little famous, and slowly removed the title of star second generation whose father was Gong Hanlin, and replaced it with a new young student in the show business circle.
Three
Everything got better, and in 2012 Gong Tiankuo met his lifelong lover, Huang Yihui.
Huang Yihui is 6 years younger than Gong Tiankuo and is a cheerful Shandong lady.
The two met in "The Choice Before Dawn", because of the love relationship they established after the killing.
At that time, Gong Hanlin also participated in the filming of this drama, in which he and Gong Tiankuo played a pair of uncles and nephews, and Gong Hanlin had a deep impression of this tall girl.
He was very happy to learn that his son was very capable of "tricking the actress of the same drama back home" after filming.
The two men who looked like Lang Cai and Jin Zhu soon went home to meet their parents at the urging of Gong Hanlin and Jin Zhu, and the corners of Gong Hanlin's mouth did not fall at the dinner table.
At this time, Gong Tiankuo was 27 years old, Gong Hanlin and his wife were more than 50 years old, and Gong Hanlin and his wife, who had no higher requirements in their careers, only wanted their son to get married as soon as possible.
To this end, at every family gathering, there will be a drama of marriage urging, "We have no too high pursuit in this life, and now your marriage event is my greatest wish." ”
But Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui did not want to get married so early, after all, Huang Yihui was only 21 years old, their careers had just started, and entering marriage too early would bring them too many obstacles.
So Gong Tiankuo put forward the idea of remarrying after several years of struggle, and as soon as this remark came out, Gong Hanlin's blood pressure instantly soared.
At this time, Gong Hanlin looked at Huang Yihui and hoped with anticipation that Huang Yihui would approve of his words, but he did not expect that the two of them had already discussed it, and the unified caliber said that they would struggle for a few more years.
This made the couple who urged the marriage touch a nose of ash, and Gong Hanlin was afraid that his favored daughter-in-law had "run away".
In the face of the two people who were not moved, he had no other way but to make some food at home and ask them to go home for dinner from time to time.
Gong Hanlin used this method to maintain for more than a year, and every time his relatives at home asked about Gong Tiankuo's marriage, Gong Hanlin was sad.
Later, under the guidance of a relative, Gong Hanlin opened the trick and changed the way to urge marriage, and the small one did not work, so he started from the old one.
At a time of drinking tea, Gong Hanlin said to Huang Yihui: "Xiao Hui, you see that you and Tiankuo have been in love for more than a year, our parents have not yet met, when will we meet and meet?" ”
Huang Yihui, who has been through hundreds of battles, naturally heard the meaning and called his parents at home and invited them to come over.
As soon as the Huang family's parents arrived in Beijing, they enjoyed the most advanced treatment, and Gong Hanlin and his wife took them all over the city of Beijing, ate all kinds of food, and took advantage of the happiness of both parties to naturally mention the marriage of the two children.
They drank tea at home and talked about the future blueprint of the two children, and the Huang family's parents saw that Gong Hanlin and his wife did not have any shelf at all, and they liked Huang Yihui in their hearts, and immediately expressed their approval of this marriage.
He also promised that Gong Hanlin and his wife would help persuade the two children to get married early.
"Xiao Hui, the Gong family's parents are really good, the family atmosphere is good, they will not be wronged when they marry in the past, the sky is wide and down-to-earth, and they are also very good to you, you must cherish it well."
In this way, Gong Hanlin's plan to "save the country by curve" succeeded, and Huang Yihui became the daughter-in-law of the Gong family.
Four
In 2015, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui held a wedding in anticipation of their parents.
At this time, the little couple was ready to devote themselves to the work after the wishes of their parents, and Gong Hanlin and his wife began the next work, giving birth!
At what age to do anything, at this time Gong Tiankuo is 30 years old, Huang Yihui is 24 years old, in the eyes of Gong Hanlin and his wife, this is the best age for childbearing.
So in the 1 month after marriage, they began to actively prepare for Huang Yihui's pregnancy, and began to instill the benefits of having children early.
"Even if the career is successful, no offspring is incomplete, taking advantage of the fact that Xiaohui is now young and recovers well after giving birth."
"You see how cute other people's babies are, tiankuo is already 30 years old, and among his peers, he has already married late and had children late."
Under jinzhu's bitter heart, the little couple was moved and began to actively prepare for pregnancy.
Finally, at the end of 2015, Huang Yihui became pregnant with the expectations of her family, and she lived a life of wearing clothes to reach out and open her mouth throughout her pregnancy.
Jinzhu often runs back and forth to take care of her, and as long as she is a little uncomfortable, she will run to the hospital to see a doctor.
After experiencing the pregnancy in October, the high-profile baby was born in September of the following year, and the Gong Hanlin couple was immersed in the happiness of being grandparents.
At this time, the young couple can finally breathe, after the baby weaned, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui began to go out to shoot, and Gong Hanlin and his wife took care of their precious granddaughter at home.
Every New Year's Festival, Gong Tiankuo and his wife will receive large red envelopes from their parents, so that the clean days have only passed for two years.
In the past two years, Gong Tiankuo's career has also been greatly developed, and he began to go out of the screen and take to the stage to contact the performance sketches.
He took "White Lies" to the stage of the Liaoning Spring Festival Gala, and every year since then, the Liaoning Spring Festival Gala has had his works.
Gong Tiankuo, who was in the ascendancy of his career, was given a current affairs lesson by his father Gong Hanlin at a family banquet.
The reason is that the state has opened up the two-child policy, and Gong Hanlin and his wife want to keep up with the trend of the times and seize the time to conceive a second-child baby.
At this time, Gong Tiankuo began to have rebellious thoughts in his heart, marriage was urged by his parents, and he was urged by his parents to have children, and now he began to urge the second child.
So he began to deliberately reduce contact with his parents, and only returned to their parents' homes once a few months.
Parents always understand their children, knowing that their son is not willing to give birth to a second child, Gong Hanlin began to sleep at night, sleeping and eating, and then Gong Tiankuo heard about it and felt sad that his father once again took soft.
In 2019, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui's second child was born, and Gong Hanlin was finally satisfied.
Five
After the birth of the second child, Huang Yihui rarely went out to shoot dramas, and most of the time was spent at home with her children.
Gong Tiankuo's career is rising, he began to participate in various variety shows, partnered with the second generation of stars Pan Yang on oriental satellite TV "Looking for comedians", and even as a new comedian on the "Happy Comedians Season Six".
And in the past two years, he participated in the movies "There is a situation in the village" and "Wuhan, hello!" " and so on, active in the audience's sight, and now Gong Tiankuo is a relatively well-developed star second generation.
Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui, who have two daughters, gradually understand the original birth of their parents, watching the little sisters play happily at home, the sisters have deep affection, and there is a great touch in their hearts.
Gong Hanlin once said: "I don't want your descendants to experience the loneliness of a child, two children will bring you a lot of joy, I don't want you to have regrets when you are old!" ”
Today's Gong Tiankuo will take his children back to his parents' homes as long as he has time, so that parents can enjoy the joy of three generations of the same family.
Gong Tiankuo's filial piety to his parents is seen by his children, and every time it is the grandparents' crying, I believe that Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui's words and deeds will educate his daughters more perfectly.
Although every step Gong Tiankuo took was arranged for him by his father, it seems that all this is the best arrangement now.
If he had been as determined as he had just returned to China, and insisted on making a living in the workplace, he might not have the beautiful family and successful career he has now.
Teenagers don't know their parents, and their adoptive children know their parents.