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Since ancient times, there has been a discipline of facial physiognomy in China, and people can speculate on the personality and conduct of others by watching the faces of others, and even be able to predict the fate of a person.
In modern society, people naturally judge and evaluate a person by observing the appearance of others, especially when they meet for the first time.
Gu Youyun "born from the heart", people believe that a person's inner state and true emotions will have a certain impact on their appearance.
From the perspective of psychology, a city government is relatively deep, in life like to calculate others people, often in the usual chat and contact revealed the following five characteristics, below, combined with the knowledge of psychology to analyze the individual's appearance characteristics and behavior between the connection.
It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and indeed, every child will be affected a lot by their parents in the process of growing up.
In particular, the classic psychological characteristics and behavior habits of many parents will affect the child nearly 100% and be reflected in the child's behavior.
In the child's early years, it will unconsciously learn the words and deeds of the parents, especially imitate the parents to speak, and this imitation of the parents will last for a long time, until the child has a complete sense of independence, this imitation will gradually disappear.
After adulthood, individuals gradually come into contact with people, things and things in society alone, and in the process of contact, they constantly improve their personality and form their own unique views on society.
Slowly people will form a set of behavior norms that only belong to themselves, and unique characteristics will also be formed in terms of appearance characteristics, and the traces left by parents on their children are becoming more and more shallow, until the individual has a complete independent consciousness and becomes a complete independent person.
When individuals enter the adult stage, they will gradually integrate into the social environment, adapt to and integrate with the people and environment around them.
At the same time, under the influence of the social environment and the surrounding groups, the appearance of adults will be different from that of adolescence, and gradually become in line with the social status of the surrounding environment.
For example, a teacher, after entering the teaching position, will contact a lot of children, constantly contact with a variety of people, in order to be able to give students a good example, teachers will be more strict with themselves, the so-called high school for the teacher, the body is a model, they will through their own words and deeds, in the subtle influence of their students.
Therefore, the physical characteristics of teachers are usually more prominent, such as good looks, elegant conversation, proper dress, and good posture.
If you work in a government unit, you need to be strict with your words and deeds at all times. The most basic is that the costume is decent, you can't wear strange clothes, the hairstyle can't be weird, and the color can't be too exaggerated. And as a government worker, Mandarin must be spoken to standards and speak clearly.
For example, some bosses, rich businessmen, they are radiant at all times, speak strongly, logically clearly, dress with excellent taste, often have watches as decorations to wear on the wrist, let people see that the other party is worth a lot.
From this, we can determine that people in different social classes and different positions will show completely different physical characteristics due to the influence of the surrounding environment and people.
These features may not have been discovered by themselves, but outsiders will soon be able to discern them.
In modern society, those who want to distinguish those who have deep hearts, deep cities, and like to calculate others, in fact, by observing his face, they can easily identify that a person's face has long exposed his nature.
After a lot of observation and research, psychologists have pointed out that most of the above types of people have the following five characteristics:
First, the facial expressions are relatively rich and the conversion speed is relatively fast.
Second, the cheekbones are prominent.
Third, the lips are thin.
Fourth, single eyelids, slender eyes.
Fifth, the bridge of the nose is high.
Most of the people with the above facial features are more scheming, fierce, mercenary, and will calculate the people around them for their own interests. Such people are very selfish in life, good at calculation, and particularly prone to revenge.
The values of such people are more distorted, and their vision of things is more extreme, in their view, the interaction between people is to use each other.
When their own interests are affected, everyone around them can be used by them as sacrifices, as long as they can defend their own interests, it is worth sacrificing anyone.
If your friend around you has the above five classic characteristics, be sure to be vigilant, be careful in words and deeds, and don't accidentally fall into his carefully designed trap.
However, do not directly label others as "villains" because of these characteristics, and you also need to constantly understand in the process of getting along, but you can keep an extra eye when communicating, in case you are pitted and unnecessarily hurt.
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Author | Tommy
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参考资料：Vogel, D. L., & Wester, S. R. (2003). To seek help or not to seek help: The risks of self-disclosure. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 50(3), 351.
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