As the saying goes, the blood of father and son is thicker than water, which is a constant flesh-and-blood connection. But sometimes life is like this, for some special reason, so father and son are separated from each other, and then they can't see each other for decades.
But as long as the father and son are connected by blood, no matter how long it is, how many years have passed, as long as they meet again, they will recognize it for the first time. It's a powerful emotional connection between father and son, and it's also a wonderful aspect of human emotion.
In history, there has been a real case of a fighter who chose to be separated from his family for the sake of the Chinese revolution, a full 22 years of separation, so that when his wife died, he did not have time to go to her side, leaving only a son who had never met before.
After 22 years of separation, the soldier who has become a commander finally met and recognized his son, and the reason was only because of a photo, and some people once lamented that the father-son relationship was so wonderful. So what's going on here?
1. Soldiers who have left home
It happened to Deng Hua,
Deng Hua
Born in 1910, he is the child of a family of scholars in Chenzhou, Hunan Province. Because of the acceptable family environment, he read poetry and books since childhood, and has since studied at Yueyun Middle School's South China Law and Politics School.
Due to the influence of advanced ideas, this young man has a passion for serving the country from an early age. However, no matter how enthusiastic he is, he still has to face the real life after all, so when he returns from study, he will soon marry a woman named Qiu Qing'e in the same village at the request of his parents.
In the beginning, because it was an arranged marriage, there may be some awkwardness between them. But soon, they had a common language, and Qiu Qing'e was gentle and virtuous and talented, and the two had a commonality when discussing national affairs.
meantime
The two soon developed a sweet love affair and even gave birth to a child. At that time, Deng Hua was not yet 20 years old, but he was very fond of his children, and also named his son Deng Xianshi, which is a very good name, and Deng Hua hoped that his son could become the ideal of a sage in a poetry-like world.
But alas,
Their sweet life did not last long, and the country ushered in great turmoil. In the face of his family and the world, Deng Hua finally chose to give up his small family to take care of everyone, and he wanted to participate in the revolution.
So Deng Hua and his wife parted sadly, and touched the child's head and said goodbye.
However, the pain of parting still made Deng Hua a little uneasy about his wife and children, and he decided to leave a photo of himself, hoping to leave it to his wife as a souvenir.
Since then, Deng Hua has never seen his family again, because he followed Mr. Zhu to Jinggangshan and has been working hard to create a new China ever since.
2. 22 years of separation
In the years that followed, Deng Hua was always on the battlefield, and his contact with his family was often interrupted by the war, and he even lost contact with his family later.
During this period, Deng Hua's son Deng Shixian has been working hard to grow, because his mother is very excellent, so his son received a good education, he not only has excellent learning ability, but also listens to his mother every day to tell his father's heroic deeds, so he soon established revolutionary enthusiasm and courage.
In 1938, Deng Hua's wife died of illness, which was a big blow to Deng Hua, and when there was still contact, Deng Hua once wanted to take his son to his side, but because the war was very tight and the road was too far away, this idea was shelved, and even later, the connection between the two was slowly broken.
However, it is still the old saying,
There are no dogs under the tiger father
When Deng Hua followed Mr. Zhu to conquer the world, his son was also quite courageous. Soon the young man joined the army and was determined to conquer the world like his father.
But for the young man, he thought his father had died in battle, so he didn't know that his father was alive and was the commander.
So, one of the fathers and sons crossed the battlefield, the other trained in the army, and they both gave up their small families for the sake of the country.
Third, meet
It was not until October 2, 1949, when the Guangdong Liberation War had begun. but
At that time, Deng Hua had become the commander-in-chief of the 15th Corps, and he had become the commander from the original soldier. Although there were still 150,000 Kuomintang troops in Guangdong at that time, the Kuomintang army was lost in the hearts and minds of the people, so Deng Hua was very confident that he could easily take Guangdong.
Sure enough, as soon as the battle began, in only 12 days, the Kuomintang army collapsed completely, and even the Commander of the Kuomintang was forced to flee.
Created such a great victory,
All the people were celebrating, and Deng Hua was also very happy, and the new world of Chinese people was about to arrive.
Maybe he himself did not think that victory on the battlefield is only one aspect,
Heaven even gave him an even bigger surprise. At that time, in order to celebrate this event, everyone specially published a photo of Deng Hua, the commander-in-chief, and also circulated all the newspapers.
Deng Xianshi, who had already joined the army at that time, had become a soldier of the 46th Army after several turnovers, and he also happened to see Deng Hua in the propaganda newspaper because of an accident.
Although he had not seen each other for 22 years, the soldier always felt a sense of closeness to the general in the newspaper, and under the guidance of this wonderful feeling, he finally took out the pocket, and I don't know how many times the old photos were viewed, and then the two were compared.
After constant comparison, the warrior's heart is more determined, this person is his father, that is, the father who has not been seen in 22 years.
Under this firmness, the soldier immediately found his company commander, and then took the photo to Deng Hua in the newspaper and said excitedly:
This general is my father, whom I have not seen in 22 years, and I am his son.
For Deng Xianshi's move, the people around them were very surprised, and even felt a little wonderful, is there really such a coincidence in this world? But everyone did not dare to delay, so they reported the matter to the above, and soon someone informed General Deng Hua.
After hearing this news, Deng Hua wanted to see people without saying a word.
Then he rushed to his son's company. As soon as the two met, they didn't have any words, but Deng Hua and Deng Xianshi knew that the two of them were father and son, which was a kind of blood and family connection. So the two of them hugged their heads and cried, and the two warriors and generals, who had never been afraid of life and death, actually cried like children at that moment.
We have not seen each other for 22 years, and finally met at this moment, this emotional burst, this dependence on the father, the care for the son, can be described as a good heart, so that all the people present were moved to tears.
Eventually the two met, and they went home holding hands. For General Deng Hua, he not only defeated the Kuomintang army, but also found his own son, and heaven was really lucky for him. For Deng Xianshi, he finally found the father who had always existed in the heroic way in his mind, and he was no longer alone from then on.
This scene is really sweet, this is the heavens' feedback to the heroes, but also the praise of the heroes who take care of everyone in the small family, this is the history of the warriors and heroes of that era.
epilogue
Therefore, looking back on this incident, we can clearly feel the connection between father and son, and we can also see the greatness of the warriors in that era. Taking Deng Hua as an example, he finally chose to abandon his family and fight abroad for the rise and fall of the country, and finally he saw the founding of New China and worked hard to create a greater era.
But Heaven is also fair, and when these heroes give everything for the country, Heaven is also slowly arranging for their father and son to meet. The moment they let them hold their heads and cry not only witnessed the greatness of the heroes, but also witnessed the greatness of the father-son relationship, which really touched us and is worth learning.
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