Speaking of Yang Nan, everyone may not know who he is.
But if you say that his wife is surely known to everyone,
Yang Nan's wife once played the pampered and proud third aunt Tai Meishan in "The Big Red Lantern Hangs High",
In "The Gate of the Big House", she played Yang Jiuhong, a Qinglou woman who is not willing to accept fate and yearns for freedom,
In "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", he played the most beloved concubine Hai Lanzhu of the Emperor Taiji,
His wife is He Saifei, who has the title of "Aunt Wife Professional Household",
He Saifei is beautiful and atmospheric, and every role he portrays makes a deep impression on people, and is the representative of the powerful actors.
And the reason why Josefy has been able to achieve such achievements in his career,
In addition to her own excellence and efforts, she is also inseparable from her husband Yang Nan, who silently supports her behind her back.
For the sake of his wife, Yang Nan did not have children for ten years after marriage.
After the 42-year-old was happy to win Lin'er, he was willing to do "Xiannei Helper" at home.
The two have been married for 34 years without scandal and love, and it has been rumored to be a good story.
Yang Nan, born in 1956 in Zhejiang to a military family,
His father was a soldier, his mother was an actor in the Yue Opera Troupe in his early years, and later he stayed in the Yue Opera Troupe as a teacher.
Influenced by her mother, Yang Nan has a strong interest in art, and after graduation, she engaged in literary and artistic work.
Her mother was old and her health was not good, and Yang Nan often went to the Yue Theater to visit her mother.
And he also met a beautiful love in the Yue Theater.
Yang Nan's mother's surname is Huang, and the students of the troupe affectionately call her "Teacher Huang".
Among the students, Teacher Huang's favorite is a bitter child named He Saifei.
He Saifei, born in 1963 in Daishan County, Zhoushan City, Zhejiang Province, is the second oldest in the family.
Shortly after birth, her mother gave birth to a younger sister for her,
The three daughters in the family, although not very rich and noble, but the family of five is very warm and happy,
However, the good times did not last long, because in the special era, the father was forced to move to the countryside to work for work reasons.
My mother was also suffering from tuberculosis, and in order to treat my mother," my father sold the house, his favorite musical instruments, etc., and took his mother to Shanghai for treatment.
Unwilling to suffer in the countryside anymore, her mother decided to divorce her father, and when her mother left, she chose to take her sister and sister with her.
Only He Saifei was left to her father, who was only 5 years old.
Looking at the young He Saifei, the neighbors advised He Dad to find another one, so that he could take care of their father and daughter.
But the father was afraid that the stepmother would not be good for the child, and did not want to marry again, and said: "I raise her myself, I do not believe that I cannot support her".
After all, men are not careful without women, and sometimes the father is busy with work and often forgets He Saifei at home.
Once when I came home, I saw He Saifei who couldn't stand at home, and I made up my mind to teach her to cook.
From how many meters to how much water to use little by little, teach her hand in hand,
When she was older, her father sent her to learn Yue opera, thinking that the child would have a craft so that he would not be hungry.
So under the strict education of his father, He Saifei was admitted to the Yue Opera Troupe at the age of 18 and became a student of Yang Nan's mother.
He Saifei is beautiful, and he is hard to learn and is deeply liked by Yang Nan's mother,
Sometimes he would invite her to play in his own home, which was also coincidental.
When He Saifei saw the family portrait of Yang Nan's family in the living room, he had an idea that I wanted to marry and become a member of this family.
That time Yang Nan was not at home, and the two did not see each other.
According to He Saifei's recollection, the first time the two met was in the troupe,
Josefy and the troupe's servants washed clothes in the backyard, and the little girls got together to talk and laugh.
At this time, Yang Nan hurriedly came out of his mother's room,
The friend next to him leaned over to He Saifei's ear and said, "It turns out that this is Teacher Huang's son."
He Saifei looked up at Yang Nan and felt that this man looked quite decent, very simple,
Yang Nan on the other side glanced at He Saifei coldly, turned his head and left.
Yang Nan's face was cold, but his heart was irrepressible ecstasy, when he was at home, he always listened to his mother chanting He Saifei, and now when he saw the real person, he felt that there was a feeling of seeing each other and hating the night.
Yang Nan fell in love with He Saifei at first sight, and then launched a fierce pursuit of her,
During that time, people in the troupe often saw Yang Nan chatting with He Saifei, watching her perform, and taking her out to eat and play.
He Saifei did not talk about love, tasted the sweetness of love for the first time, and was soon attacked by Yang Nan.
After a couple falls in love, they most hope to get the consent of the people around them and their families.
Yang Nan and He Saifei are no exception, and when Yang Nan told his family the news of his love, his mother was so happy that she couldn't close her mouth. ，
She said, "If you don't shoot again, your mother will introduce Xiaofei to your brother."
Yang Nan's side received blessings and support, but He Saifei's side was opposed.
He Saifei's father felt that his daughter was still young and should focus on her career.
Her father disagreed, and Josefy argued with her father, saying: "Falling in love will not affect my work.".
The father and daughter argued, and finally the father compromised and said, "If you achieve good results, then I will not oppose you falling in love."
Josefi nodded firmly in agreement.
In 1984, He Saifei had the honor to star in the movie "Five Girls Worship Shou", and won the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Award, and his career and fame went to a higher level.
Yang Nan was also happy about Sai Fei, but just when the couple was ready to tell their father the good news,
However, He Saifei's father was diagnosed with lung cancer at this time.
When he learned the news, He Saifei felt that "the sky had collapsed", and his brain was blank and he didn't know what to do.
Yang Nan took her hand at this time and said: "Go, I will accompany you to the hospital to see",
Because he and his father did not want He Saifei to fall in love, Yang Nan carefully feared that his hasty appearance would make the old man unhappy.
When he got downstairs in the hospital, he said to He Saifei, "You go up, I'll wait for you below."
For several days in a row, Yang Nan accompanied He Saifei to the hospital to take care of her father.
Every time He Saifei came out, he saw Yang Nan's face flushed with sunburn, his clothes soaked with sweat, and he said bitterly: "You are not stupid, will you not find a place with shade to wait for me",
Yang Nan shook his head and said, "I'm afraid you won't find me when you come out."
He Saifei is busy at work, the troupe can not always give her permission to leave, at this time Yang Nan took the initiative to take care of He Father's task, so that He Saifei can go to work,
During this period, Yang Nan took care of He Father as if he were his own father.
With the doctor's permission, Yang Nan pushed a wheelchair every day and took He Father around the hospital, giving him massage, rubbing his body, and delving into recipes.
Under Yang Nan's careful care every day, he finally got the approval of He Father.
Despite Yang Nan's good care, Father He's condition deteriorated.
In the first 9 days after He Father's death, He Saifei accompanied his father to his bed every day, and Yang Nan went to the hospital to accompany her after finishing work.
The day before He Father's death, Yang Nan received a call from the unit asking him to go back to emergency treatment.
The unit kept urging, and He Saifei said to him: "You go, Dad, this is enough for me",
Before leaving, Yang Nan shook He Saifei's hand and said, "I'll come back as soon as possible, and if there's anything, call me."
The day after Yang Nan returned to Hangzhou, Father He passed away.
Yang Nan, who learned the news, rushed back to the hospital overnight, and when he arrived at the hospital, he saw Thatsay Fei was so tired that he fell asleep on his stomach next to the bed.
Yang Nan did not wake her up, silently walked over and shook He Saifei's hand,
The sudden force in her hand made He Saifei open her eyes, and she opened her eyes to see Yang Nan in front of her, and asked doubtfully: "How did you come back?".
Yang Nan did not speak, but only increased the strength in his hands, he was telling He Saifei in this way that he was by her side,
Pass on your strength and love to Josefy with your clenched hands.
Accompanied by Yang Nan, He Saifei quickly adjusted his state and let himself walk out of the pain of his father's death as soon as possible.
After the death of his father, Josefy chose to numb himself with his work.
Every day, he went to the scene of major Yue opera performances, and in 1986, he also received the role of "Miao Yu" in "Dream of the Red Chamber".
Yang Nan looked at He Saifei, who was working non-stop every day, and was very distressed.
He knew that the death of Father He had hit her hard.
He Saifei's parents divorced since he was a child, and he and his father were dependent on each other, and his only relative was gone.
Yang Nan desperately wants to give He Saifei a home, he wants to be her dependent, to shield her from the wind and rain.
So on the day of Chinese New Year's Eve Night in 1988, Yang Nan, who was not prepared, proposed to He Saifei.
When she was a child, her parents divorced her original family brought her influence, making Josefy very afraid of marriage.
She only asked Yang Nan a sentence: "Divorce is too terrible, and if you marry me, you can't get a divorce, can you do it?".
Yang Nan smiled and said, "We will not divorce.",
He Saifei, who got a positive answer, accepted Yang Nan's marriage proposal on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve.
At that time, Yang Nan only wanted to give He Saifei a home, except for a heart that loved He Saifei and had nothing else.
No money, no room, when the two got married, they took a photo in the photo studio, simply ate a meal, it was considered to have eaten a wedding banquet,
The two married naked, without their own house can only live in Yang Nan's parents' home,
Fortunately, He Saifei was not disgusted with this, which made Yang Nan work harder and think of giving his wife a better life.
Although He Saifei has no opinion on living in his in-laws' house, the family is also harmonious together.
But there will always be a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and soon after marriage, He Saifei was promoted by the in-laws.
That night, He Saifei confessed to Yang Nan, "I am now in the ascending period of my career, and I don't want children for the time being."
After Yang Nan learned of his wife's thoughts, he did not lose his temper and expressed understanding, he said: "If you don't want us, don't, for me you are the most important."
With the approval of Yang Nan, He Saifei focused more on his career,
In 1991, she received the role of the third aunt Tai Meishan in the film "The Red Lantern Hangs High" directed by Zhang Yimou.
Mei Shan in the play is from singing Peking Opera, although He Saifei has the foundation of singing opera, but singing Peking Opera is always almost meaningless,
For several days in a row, Josefy was always dissatisfied with his singing,
Yang Nan saw that his wife was depressed, so he accompanied her at home to watch Peking Opera and learn the skills of singing.
Under the guidance and help of Yang Nan, Mei Shan, played by He Saifei, was a great success.
With this fame, He Saifei starred in the movie "Red Pink" and "Wind Moon" two classic movies.
Seeing that He Saifei was getting busier and busier outside, this could upset Yang Nan's parents,
They kept pushing Yang Nan, and the mother said: "You are almost forty, and you are not in a hurry for the child, is it that Xiaofei does not want to give birth, if so, the mother can talk to her".
Knowing that her parents are eager to hold their grandchildren, Yang Nan does not want her parents to say that her wife is not.
So Yang Nan said to her mother: "No, I don't want to have children, I want to be alone with Xiaofei for a few years".
For the cause that He Saifei loves, Yang Nan chooses to respect her ideas, and his efforts regardless of return finally touched He Saifei.
He Saifei is busy with work every day, shooting in various crews,
It was hard to go home without work, and it was Yang Nan who waited before and after to take care of her.
One night, she saw Yang Nan busy in the kitchen, and suddenly felt that both of them were no longer young, and Yang Nan's efforts in those years were all in his eyes.
So she said to Yang Nan: "We want a child", Yang Nan nodded and said "Yes".
In 1998, He Saifei became pregnant, and Yang Nan, who learned of this news, took a long vacation from the unit and concentrated on taking care of his wife at home.
On the day of childbirth, because He Saifei was 35 years old, considered an advanced maternal age, and needed a caesarean section.
Yang Nan saw the contents of the operation sheet and said that the risk of surgery was very high, and he did not dare to sign it with a pen in his hand.
But if the family does not sign, Josefy cannot perform the operation.
Yang Nan took a deep breath, trembled slightly, signed his name, and said to the doctor: "If there is an accident, I want my wife".
The operation was successful, He Saifei gave birth to a son, Yang Nan could not look at his son, ran to He Saifei's hospital room, kissed her lightly on the forehead, and said: "The wife is hard",
Yang Nan named her son "Tiger Baby", although she gave birth to a child, He Saifei still could not let go of her career.
So when the child was more than one year old, she thought of making a comeback to shoot,
Yang Nan expressed his understanding and support for this, he said, rest assured to do it, there is me at home.
He Saifei did not go home for a long time, and the family of three spent very little time together, afraid that his wife would come back and his son would not recognize him.
Yang Nan showed his son a picture of his wife every day at home and told him that this person was his mother.
When he grew up, Yang Nan taught his son that he should support his mother's dream and not hinder his mother from acting.
So every time He Saifei went out to shoot a scene and told his son that he was going to go out to shoot a movie, Tiger Baby would wave his hand and say: "Mom, go, go and come back early."
With the support of her husband and son, Josefy's career has also reached a higher level.
In 2001, He Saifei played the famous prostitute Yang Jiuhong in "The Gate of the Mansion", and won the "Audience's Favorite Top Ten Actress Award" for her outstanding performance in this drama.
This drama has made He Saifei's fame to a higher level,
In the following years, she successively starred in the emperor Taiji's favorite concubine Hai Lanzhu in "The Secret History of Filial Piety", Ji Wenyue in "Moon Shadow Wind Lotus", Empress Wei, the wife of Tang Zhongzong Li Xian in "Tang Gongyan", and the cress lady in "Those Women".
He Saifei can achieve such an achievement, inseparable from her husband Yang Nan, who silently accompanies her behind her.
Because she loves her wife, Yang Nan chose to give Him Saifei a home at the low point of her life.
Because of love, Yang Nan chose to respect her wishes and support her acting career for ten years for Dink,
And because of love, at the age of 42, I finally had a son,
But she still puts her wife first, respects the cause she loves, and is willing to be the man behind her wife, so that she can safely pursue the acting she loves.
The two have been married for 34 years, and they are still in love as before, so the love that is full of foam is enviable.