Many women, in their feelings, seem to be very passive, waiting for men to pursue, waiting for men to confess, waiting for men to pay.
Passive may make women more secure and not afraid of being hurt too much, but passive women are often prone to miss true love. You know, a man who falls in love will also be as insecure as a woman, and if he doesn't get your response and can't feel your love for him, he will also retreat and turn away.
After all, love is never a one-man show. Only two people who come and go and pay together can bear a beautiful fruit. Therefore, in love, women must also appropriately put down their own reticence, learn to take the initiative, and hold the line of feelings in their hands in order to grasp love. Smart women, learning to take the initiative to do these 4 things, will make men more and more inseparable from you!
01, take the initiative to trouble men, meet men's heroic complex
Since ancient times, men have a heroic complex, and he hopes that he is a great image in the heart of the woman he loves deeply, which can make women rely on and let women worship.
So, women don't dare to trouble men, you are too independent and strong, but let men feel unneeded, not loved. On the contrary, if you take the initiative to ask the man for help when you are in trouble, give the man a chance to express himself, let him prove that he is needed, then he will often love you more.
02, take the initiative to spoil men, so that men's hearts are soft
Spoiling is a woman's best weapon, and no man can escape a woman's pampering. Spoiling is a kind of identification of women with men, because women will not be spoiled by everyone, only to those they trust and like, when men realize this, they will love women deeper.
Therefore, women should understand that the phrase "the best life for a spoiled woman" is not just talk, and learning to be appropriate and appropriate to spoil will arouse the man's warm love for you.
03, take the initiative to improve themselves, enhance attractiveness, and maintain charm
You know, the reason why two people can come together is because there is something about each other that attracts them. Thinking that together, you can let yourself go and stop the pace of progress, which will only make the two people drift apart.
Therefore, if you want to make your feelings last, women must constantly improve themselves, read more books, see the world more, make more like-minded friends, make their inner richer and richer, and cultivate their temperament more and more uniquely, so that you are more attractive.
04, take the initiative to plan the future, win the respect of men
In the relationship, the most beautiful thing is that your future has me, and your future plans are all me.
A relationship can be maintained by freshness, but the trick to continue to go on must be to have a common goal. If you truly love someone, you will definitely summarize the other person in your future.
Feelings can not always enjoy the present, but to learn to think for each other, for the future. Therefore, smart women know how to open up and talk to men, which can both solve problems and win men's respect.
Some people say, "Active women are too cheap", this sentence is too biased.
Active does not mean upside down, women are too passive in their feelings, waiting for men to do everything, so that men do not feel loved and needed, and they often miss true love.
Feelings of things are not natural, many times is in our own hands, only take the initiative to grasp, to work hard, in order to manage the feelings, in order to let men love you into the bone.
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