Mother is generous.
However, when I was young, I saw this thickness as synonymous with weakness. When I was a child, because of my family's cold family, I was really bullied by others. When those big children bullied me, I would naturally resist, but after being known by my mother, dragging me back to cover my face was a scolding, and sometimes even the pain of flesh and skin, and my mother's reason was that you can't beat people, you won't hide, people are bigger than you.
Every now and then I would say to my mother: It is because you are too honest that others dare to bully me. But the mother said: Children, those who can suffer losses are blessed. I asked in my heart, "But where have all your blessings gone?" At the same time, I also secretly swore in my heart that when I grew up, I would never allow anyone to bully our family again.
Mother, of course, will not take my little ass words to heart, and still treat the people and things around her in her own way. At that time, the production team had to hold a meeting or something from time to time, and everyone liked to squeeze into the dilapidated and cramped room of our house, so that our sisters and brothers did not even have a place to write. The mother, who was handing over cigarettes and serving tea, was very busy.
Some people also asked if you had applied to the team for electricity and tea subsidies, and your mother replied with a smile: No, it can't cost a few dollars. My mother, my lord, may be the popularity of Want want.
When I grew up, I used my first salary to dig a rocking well for my family so that my parents would not have to carry water from the open well in the village. Since our family's well was drilled, the families of those who did not drill wells in the vicinity have come to our house to shake the water, and over the years, my mother has never expressed unhappiness.
After the sister-in-law passed through the door, she had her own opinion on this, and the mother still said the same sentence: It's okay, it can't cost a few dollars. In fact, that well has a history of more than ten years now, because there are many patrons, and I don't know how many times I have changed my hands. Some of them also proposed to cooperate to share the maintenance costs of the rocking well, but the mother did not agree.
This is my humble and ordinary mother, who has been infecting everyone around her with her kindness, kindness and enthusiasm for decades. Every time I go back to my mother's house, the old people who come to my house to shake the water always talk to me about my mother's goodness, so that they have a lot of light, and I naturally understand that those words are heartfelt, from the bottom of my heart, and full of heavy feelings.
In the TV series "Wife", Ma Jianqiu's parents warned them from childhood to be kind, they said so, and they did this, in the last days of their lives, they spared no effort to come up with magic tricks, and helped their five children to survive one obstacle after another, including career, emotional, and life. Compared with my mother's kindness, their kindness is not shrewd, and it is also what I value more. Such an old man is really great!
Compared to my mother, my mother-in-law is shrewd. When they were young, mothers and mothers-in-law had a lot in common, not much difference in age, both had a husband who was quiet and honest, both had several young children, and both had a poor home.
The difference is that the mother-in-law is spicy and straightforward. As soon as someone came to invade her homeland and bully her family, the mother-in-law would roar and roar, charging forward, and the father-in-law shouting and cheering in the back, which was really spectacular (of course, these were all hearsay after I got married).
At that time, my mother-in-law was the pillar of the family, she worked hard to manage the housework, she was good for her husband, and she was very protective of her children (these I also have a deep feeling now). Externally, the mother-in-law's attitude is that I will not give you a point less, I will not take more than one point if I should not, and whoever bullies me for no reason resolutely disagrees.
After more than ten years of marriage, my relationship with my mother-in-law has always been very good, and it can even be said that there has never been a gap, not that I am more virtuous and filial, but that my mother-in-law does have her superiority in being a person. Every time I go back, my mother-in-law always tells others in front of me how good I am, in fact, in addition to being generous financially, what have I done for her, I have not washed her clothes once, or even cooked a delicious meal for her, which is really ashamed. What an easy to satisfy old man, if you change a picky mother-in-law, my ma daha daughter-in-law may only be counted. So I've always felt lucky.
In the TV series "The Marriage of the Two of Us", Xia Xiaoning's mother-in-law is a middle-aged widow, a watertight old man who speaks without leaks, and has absolute authority in front of his children, but it is such a shrewd old man who gave her an invisible sense of repression when he first met his daughter-in-law, so that later the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were incompatible.
Compared with the shrewdness of my mother-in-law, what I value more is which answer is naturally not clear. On small issues, once in a while pretending to be deaf and dumb, no one will treat you like a fool, and sometimes people will be grateful. When the water is clear, there are no fish, maybe this is the truth.
My mother and mother-in-law are the two dearest old people in my life, although the personalities are completely different, and the way of dealing with the world is also very different, but they all have a happy old age, accompanied by filial piety and children, and naughty grandchildren who inherit the knees, for them, this is the greatest satisfaction in life.
They are all worthy of my respect!