The recent hit "Xiao Min Family" not only has a young campus romance, but also middle-aged people who take care of their families while busy with their careers, and are busy and hard to fall in love.
Sandwiched in romantic love, the most laughable person is Liu Xiaomin's ex-husband Jin Bo.
In the play, he has no face and no skin to eat and drink, and the incomprehensible style makes Yang Di's mother mad.
Couples who have not been in touch for more than ten years after divorce have no relationship in the first place.
In order to avoid debt collection, Jin Bo ran to his ex-wife's house to ask for asylum.
With the relationship between himself and his son, a "no one cares about me anyway" posture of relying on his son.
After leaving his ex-wife Liu Xiaomin without eating, he ran out to find a place for him.
When Liu Xiaomin was not at home, he also stole the key and slept scruffily on Liu Xiaomin's bed without the consent of his master.
This is why Liu Xiaomin took care of his son's emotions without turning his face, and put it on another person, which will definitely overturn the sky.
Since living in his ex-wife's home, Jin Bo feels that his ex-wife's home is many times better than his own, and his job is also paid high.
Seeing that the debt collectors want to force themselves to sell their houses to pay off their debts, Jin Bo does not want to sell his only remaining property, so he hits his ex-wife.
Kimpo's son heard about the plan and immediately stopped him.
Although he had previously fled Jin Bo's side in order to test Qinghua, he rejected Jin Bo's idea of making him work to pay off his debts.
But he has his own backbone, and does not want his father to owe his mother any more affection, and promises to help Jin Bo pay off his debts.
A middle-aged man who encounters things will only hide behind his son and ex-wife.
Jin Bo's rogue slippery image makes people stomp their feet in anger after watching it.
While waiting for his son to pay off his debts, Jin Bo started his ex-wife's idea again.
In front of outsiders, he should pretend to be a male host, and pretend to be a well-behaved filial son-in-law who can do housework in front of Liu Xiaomin's mother.
Interfering in Liu Xiaomin's private life everywhere, he did not regard himself as an outsider at all.
Whoever wants to put on such an ex-husband is really avoiding it and never wants to see each other again.
The reason why this role is so infuriating is also a testimony to the acting skills of actor Tu Songyan.
After all, he has participated in more than 70 works since his debut 15 years ago.
The various images of small men he created made the audience who saw it clap their hands.
In 2020, "In the Name of Family" made Tu Songyan a "benchmark for middle-aged men".
In the play, Tu Songyan played the best father in the world, which was hotly promoted by the audience as the top father template.
Everyone wants to be the daughter of Li Haichao (played by Tu Songyan), and the call is a wave higher than a wave.
Being able to switch freely between good men and scumbags is still thanks to Tu Songyan's tempering for more than ten years.
As an actor from a serious class, Tu Songyan graduated from the talented Chinese opera class 94.
His classmates include Tao Hong, Duan Yihong, Yin Xiaotian and so on.
After graduation, watching his classmates become popular on the road of acting, he maintained a pure heart.
The entertainment industry is ups and downs, and he really sticks to his original intention and becomes a good man who has a sense of responsibility and can stick to himself.
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Not for fame, only for the heart
He also graduated from drama school, but Tu Songyan never thought of fighting for something.
After graduation, he was assigned to the National Theatre of Drama and began many years of running dragon sets.
Participating in drama performances is not easy, not only is the income not high, but also has to run around the world.
Tu Songyan, who has no fame, can only play some inconspicuous supporting roles, and has been honing in the drama for seven years without complaint.
Until 2006, Tu Songyan starred in the TV series "Double Sided Tape" as "Phoenix Man" Li Yaping.
Because the performance was in place, Li Yaping made the audience hate it and tickle his teeth, and since then, various small men's roles have come to the door.
But he still didn't have a big hit, and the role of the little man made him play a wonderful role.
Compared with his classmates, his value has skyrocketed, and he is still only playing some roles in life dramas.
In the face of such a disparity, Tu Songyan did not complain.
It seems that for him, he is very happy to be able to do what he likes, and he does not value fame and fortune.
It is this sincere heart that allows him to enjoy his life while enjoying his work.
I usually like to do handicrafts, and I also like extreme sports.
Not only did he have three diving licenses, but his underwater photographs were also included in National Geographic magazine and won an award.
Be conscientious at work, enrich your life when you rest, and focus your time on exercising and discovering dreams of life.
It is precisely because of such a sunny life that he has not had any scandals since he started his career.
Men who can keep their hearts from being seduced by the lights and greenery outside often have their own perseverance and love of life.
Put your mind on climbing, diving, parachuting, observing life, and living a positive life is naturally not idle and emotional.
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The most pyrotechnic actor
Tu Songyan has played a variety of small men in the TV series.
In life, he even put his true gu family image on the entire crew.
Every time Tu Songyan enters the group to shoot a scene, he will bring all kinds of household appliances, coffee machines, bread machines, yogurt machines, and washing machines.
As soon as the TV series started filming, he couldn't return home for several months, and Tu Songyan made his dormitory full of fireworks.
Work is work, life is life, even if the work is hard, he does not forget to take good care of himself.
At the end of the night, he will not indulge himself, he will make yogurt in the room, make bread, and taste coffee.
Stick to your healthy life, even if you are alone, you will not be empty.
In his spare time, he also shares his work with colleagues.
Because there is a heart that loves life and has its own rhythm of life, it is not easy to be attracted by the temptations of the outside world, and no matter what situation you encounter over the years, you have adhered to your heart.
This principle of life makes him full of happiness in his life.
And this sense of happiness is the source of motivation that can bring unlimited energy to life.
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Good men always put family first
At the age of 41, Tu Songyan's son was born.
In order to take care of his wife and son, he pushed off most of his work and worked full-time as a "nanny" at home.
Everything is done, all hands-on.
Changing diapers, helping his son bathe and wash clothes, breastfeeding and hiccups, taking care of his son is not at ease.
When his son grew up a little, Tu Songyan did not immediately put into work.
In order to have more good memories with his family, Tu Songyan took them to travel the world.
When the first season of "Actor" program team found Tu Songyan, he was traveling in Canada with his wife and children, and refused the invitation because he did not have time to accompany his family.
I have to sigh that it is more important to accompany my son's growth and family than work, which is a good man with real strength in the entertainment industry.
A person's preferences reflect the person's heart, and a person's living habits reflect the person's principles.
A man's achievements and appearances are just a plus for life, and what really lives together is a sense of experience.
At the weakest time, the other party is not putting themselves in their hearts;
When you need companionship, the other party is not willing to share some time to come out.
Men who are sunny and have a healthy hobby can add fun to life.
A man with principles and persistence can bring stability to the family, and a man who is willing to spend his mind on his family can make two people feel more secure.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.