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Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

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Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

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When it comes to Park Shu's name, the first thing that comes out of my mind is the four words "musical talent", of course, this is also recognized.

How many fans of his youth? Starting with his first solo single "Train to Winter" in 1996,

How many people love classic songs such as "Born as Summer Flowers", "Those Flowers", "Birch Forest", "Ordinary Road", "She Sleeps", "Newboy", "On the Field of Hope" and other classic songs written and sung by him?

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

In particular, "Birch Forest" is my favorite so far, a poignant love story,

Every time I hear "who will prove the love and life of those who do not have tombstones", I can't help but burst into tears, and the sense of picture comes to my face...

There is also "Newboy", which can be vibrated every time you listen to it, but there can be many newboys, and Park Shu only has one.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

People who know Park Shu feel that he is very real, not pretending, his songs are clean and pure, and people can't extricate themselves once they fall in love.

But Park Shu is also a little melancholy, he is introverted, sensitive, like a person who is particularly talented in a certain aspect, life is a little strange, which ordinary people cannot understand.

There are many people who appreciate his talent, but few people can always endure his weirdness.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Park Shu and Zhou Xun stills of "When the Flowers Bloomed"

Once, Zhou Xun had a relationship because he filmed "When the Flowers Bloomed" with him, but this relationship lasted less than a year before breaking up.

Park Shu is talented, tall and handsome, he can satisfy most girls' fantasies about boyfriends, but outside of music,

His melancholy personality and lifeless state of life are difficult for anyone to endure for a long time.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Park Shu and his wife Oh Min Fei

Even his wife, Wu Minfei, once filed for divorce from him because she was overwhelmed.

She said to Park Shu, "You put the best energy in the record and left the worst side for me." ”

Later, it was he who cried and promised that "it would be fine", and Wu Minfei was soft-hearted and saved the marriage.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Wu Minfei

Wu Minfei is a lucky woman and an unfortunate woman.

Why is it said that she is a lucky woman, needless to say,

What is the beauty of transforming from a nameless young actor into the wife of a musical talent? How many people envy.

But behind the scenery, she is also an unfortunate woman...

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

01 "Tomboy" metamorphosis road

Wu Minfei, formerly known as Wu Xiaomin and Wu Daining, was born in Shanghai in 1981.

She is the only daughter in the family, although the family is ordinary, but also the pearl in the palm of her parents.

Wu Minfei has been born beautifully since she was a child, especially a pair of large eyes that flash and flash, smart and charming.

But it is such a particularly beautiful girl, who has had a naughty boy's personality since she was a child,

She is also a particularly nosy "tomboy", and her electric eyes were once almost blind because of her nosy.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

No one in Wu Minfei's family is engaged in art.

However, she is very interested in acting and likes to role-play with her friends when she was a child.

After graduating from junior high school, she entered the Shanghai Xie Jin Hengtong Art School to study, and Wu Minfei, who had an excellent appearance and figure, quickly embarked on her own acting path after the teacher's order.

In 1998, when she was only 17 years old, she starred in her first TV series "Shanghai Love", and officially began her acting career.

Later, she played the black and poisonous Jiang Yushan in the "Invincible County Order" starring Su Youpeng and Wang Yan.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Wu Minfei stills

Subsequently, Wu Minfei starred in many modern costume TV series such as "Never Look Back", "Crystal Love", "Flower Eye", "Joyful Pig Eight Commandments", "Wisteria Love" and so on, and began to emerge in the film and television circle.

Wu Minfei in the play, or sinister and vicious, or black and cold-blooded; she is extremely simple and straightforward in life.

Is a very positive energy girl, and as an actress, she is also an excellent actor,

But since marrying Park Shu, her identity has changed from an actress to "Park Shu's wife".

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Park Shu and Wu Min Fei

02 Two versions about acquaintance

Wu Minfei from the debut of the beginning, in fact, she has been filming continuously, she herself is like a "desperate three women" constantly taking over the drama,

Even after marrying Park Shu, she never let go and was at ease to be a little woman, but continued to create various different roles in the film and television dramas she loved.

Wu Minfei and Park Shu were married in 2005, and after marriage, she starred in dozens of classic film and television hot dramas such as "The Next Stop is Happiness", "So Many Petite", "Secrets", "Darts the World", "I Owe You a Hug in This Life", "Husband and Wife", etc.

Among them, my favorite "This Life Owes You a Hug", which she co-starred with the film Emperor Fu Dalong, she played the military sister-in-law Lin Xiaomin in it, kind and selfless, when chasing the drama, I don't know how many times I was moved and how many tears were shed.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

This life owes you a hug still

Wu Minfei plays well, the film is continuous, but it is tepid, which has something to do with her personality, she is not a person who loves hype.

Outside of the drama, she is very low-key, including when she first married Park Shu, as if it had never happened:

There was no wedding or honeymoon, just two adults sat down and had a meal together.

Wu Minfei and Park Shu met in 2002, at a friend's birthday party, when she was only 21 years old, 8 years younger than Park Shu.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

It is strange to say that he is obviously younger than Park Shu, but the first time they met, Wu Minfei was particularly distressed about him.

Perhaps from that moment on, it was destined that in their marriage, she belonged to the party that gave more.

Some versions say that at that party, the sincere and straightforward Wu Minfei drank with the "sun goddess" Xie Na and chatted happily.

Suddenly, she saw a tall, handsome, but exceptionally quiet man sitting in the corner, not as active as the others, not talking and laughing with people, and there was a melancholy temperament in his body that attracted her.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

"Who is that man?" Wu Minfei asked Xie Na,

"Park Shu," Xie Na replied. At that time, Wu Minfei did not know Park Shu, specifically it should be the first time to see him as a real person.

She had always liked his "Those Flowers", so the lively and outgoing she walked up to him, and the two chatted and had a good chat.

Later, when they were separated, the two left their own contact information, and only then did they have a later story.

But in An interview with Ms. Wu, she talked about her acquaintance with Ms. Park, another version.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

At that time, we went to a friend's birthday party together, and Park Shu sang "Birch Forest",

I also improvised a song, and after I finished singing, Park Shu came over and praised me for singing well.

Three days later, I was chatting with my agent when my phone suddenly rang, and it turned out that Park Shu had asked me to go to dinner.

Wu Minfei said that in fact, no matter which version it is, the final ending is that they met at that party.

Then not only fell in love, but also entered the palace of marriage, and Wu Minfei was still the one who proposed marriage.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

03 Park Shu's wife is not good

Regarding the combination with Park Shu, Wu Minfei said, "Because at that time, I felt that there was no man more suitable for me than him." ”

In fact, for their marriage, at first it was not very optimistic,

Because in the eyes of outsiders, the personalities of two people are two extremes, and to live for a long time, there will definitely be many problems.

But Wu Minfei, who loves Park Shu deeply, is not afraid, she knows that no matter who she lives with, if she spends a long time, there will be problems.

Therefore, she doesn't mind what the outside world says, she just follows her inner voice, for the sake of Park Shu, Wu Minfei actually really gave up a lot.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

They registered their marriage in January 2015, when Wu Minfei just turned 24, the same age as hua.

Girls at this age are yearning for romance, wu Minfei is the same, she wants to have a decent romantic wedding,

But because Park Shu is low-key, he believes that marriage is his private affair, and there is no need to let everyone know.

So, she respected his choice, no lavish weddings, no romantic love words, not even relatives and friends please,

Only the parents of the two families had a meal together.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Park Shu Wu Min Fei

But for Wu Minfei, who loves Park Shu deeply, as long as she can marry her beloved, what is it without a wedding.

But people who are familiar with Park Shu know that he suffers from severe depression because of his excessive pursuit of perfection, and he likes to be quiet.

And Wu Minfei likes to be lively, in order to create a good environment for him to recuperate and create, Wu Minfei also respects his request to move to the suburbs to live.

Someone asked Wu Minfei "Is Park Shu's depression terrible?" Hearing this question, Wu Minfei's heart was a little angry,

But she still controlled herself and said peacefully: "Depression is not a fatal disease, and now many people in the industry suffer from different degrees of depression because of too much stress." I think it's no big deal to let Park Shu calm down and let him live the way he likes. ”

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

04 Common suffering

As long as you can make Park Shu happy and let him live the way he likes, Wu Minfei tries to cooperate as much as possible.

He wants to live in the suburbs, they move to the suburbs, he wants to write songs, he worries about snubbing his wife during the creation, he suggests that she go to her mother's house, she goes back to her mother's house, he wants to travel alone, she lets him go alone, but her worries and love are everywhere.

Sometimes it's a phone call, sometimes it's a text message, but each time you don't get a timely response, or even no response.

Changing to others may have long been unbearable, but Wu Minfei knows that the road is her own, people are chosen by herself, and she believes that he will get better, so she has never given up.

But she also has times when she is overwhelmed, at this time she also needs emotional venting, but also needs comfort, so during the period she mentioned divorce, but Park Shu cried and said "it will be fine", which made her soft and compromised.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Wu Minfei is an amazing woman, she not only embraces Park Shu's life infinitely,

She was also a very generous and intelligent woman.

As we all know, there is one person who can't get around when it comes to Park Shu, that is, Zhou Xun.

Someone once said that Wu Minfei looked very similar to Zhou Xun, and the implication was that he may not have let go of her.

But Wu Minfei is very generous, she does not mind others comparing her with Zhou Xun, and she herself also admires Zhou Xun very much.

Others say that she looks like her, which means that she is very beautiful herself.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Park Shu Zhou Xun

For ex-girlfriends, topics like Zhou Xun, Wu Minfei never felt bothered, she said:

"I can allow him to have his own past, and he can allow me to have a past" and for these sensitive topics,

She also asked rhetorically, "Why can't they be good friends or relatives?" They have a connection, but I still feel more in love with him,

It shows that he respects his previous feelings, and if he dodges, it means that he can't let go. ”

For the label of "Park Shu's wife", Wu Minfei also looked very indifferent, she said, "As long as you are with him, you will always be covered by her light." ”

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Wu Minfei's love for Park Shu is extreme.

She once said on the show that their family ranking is: Xiao Pu, Dog and Me.

She put Park Shu first and herself last, and could see how much she loved him.

As we all know, in the 16 years since they were married, Wu Minfei has repeatedly expressed on the show that she wants to have a child of her own.

But because Park Shu did not dare to try, he was worried that he was not sure that he could raise his child into a person with a sound personality, so Wu Minfei always respected his choice of Dink.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Today, she is 40 years old, he is 48 years old, and they still live in the world of two.

Of course, for Park Shu, Wu Minfei is also the most important woman in his life, indispensable.

Once in Chen Luyu's show, she asked Park Shu a question:

"I ask about the loved one you have in this life, will you know who this person is?"

Park Shu did not hesitate: "Oh, I still think of my daughter-in-law." ”

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

It can be seen that they are the most important people in each other's lives.

An introverted and not good at expression, no sweet words, a sunny upward, not generous, inclusive of everything,

Even if you have been married for many years, there is no wedding, no honeymoon, no sweet talk, no romance, confiscated flowers, no children,

But each other can be safe and healthy, do what they love, can hold hands with each other, and walk through life, it is already happiness.

Nobel laureate Steven Chu once said at harvard university graduation: "Life is too short, so you can't walk empty-handed, you have to pour your affection into something." ”

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

Just like Park Shu, his half life, clean, simple, unworldly, gave all the enthusiasm and passion to music;

As his wife, Wu Minfei gave him his best years and best love, no matter how the outside world judged.

She only followed her own heart, firmly adhering to the beauty that belonged to him alone. Romain Rolland once said:

There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the truth of life, it is still persistently loved.

Deeply believed, the most difficult thing in the world is that when you have gone through thousands of sails and recognized the truth of life, you can still respond and love affectionately, perhaps, this is the meaning of life.

Actor Wu Minfei: Married to the musical talent Park Shu for 16 years without children, only she can endure the strange life of him

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