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People are social animals, and if there is no friend and no one to accompany them, they will seem very lonely.
Perhaps it is such a one-sided cognition that allows many people to avoid falling into loneliness and cope with many ineffective social interactions.
Someone once said that I didn't want to be unsociable, so even if I didn't like that type of person, I could only force myself to blend in with them. Watching them smile happily, in order not to look particularly dazzling, so I can only echo the strong smile.
Afraid that in various pairs of festivals, you can only accompany the shadow, so you wronged yourself to love someone who is not worthy of love at all.
I was too afraid of being alone, so I tried my best to please others. Too afraid to feel the plot of the original lack of love, so I am very in love with the brain, blindly paying without self-respect, and dare not ask for half a point.
Perhaps because few people say that loneliness is everyone's daily routine, some people really have to avoid loneliness and put themselves down to cater to others and live as the public standard should be.
"When you get old, you should get married and have children." "You have to rely on friends when you go out, so you don't have to be so lonely, always alone."
In the various external definitions, we can easily lose ourselves and can only live as a marionette.
In fact, loneliness is the norm in life. No one in the world is absolutely true.
If there is one accurate way to live, it is to live the life you want in the way you like.
Not everyone has to have love, not everyone should have a group of friends, but each of us should let ourselves live the life we want.
Love is something that cannot be sought, even if it is possible to obtain love through planning, but it still depends on fate. A lifetime of friends is even more rare, more emphasis on fate, because to be consistent in the three views, get along comfortably.
For other intimate relationships, basically pay attention to fate, so we can only grasp our own life, so we must first learn to please ourselves, and first make efforts to live the life we want.
All the beauty is based on the material basis of reality, so make good money, because the life you want is very "expensive".
01, making money can make us more "free" to a certain extent
The so-called financial freedom is not that I can have what I want, but that I can have the courage to say that I don't when I don't want something.
Making good money is for financial freedom, but also for being able to have more choices.
Even if having money may not allow us to experience everything, at least it can make us reject what we don't want to a certain extent.
Making good money can at least make us not bend over for five buckets of rice, not lose our bottom line because of money, or give up what we love.
Making money can cultivate a person's self-confidence and confidence, and there will be no deep sense of unworthiness when good comes.
Making money can make the heart more abundant. When one's heart is open and allows goodness to come, more goodness follows.
Being able to say no to things that are rejected, and being able to have more confidence to meet more beauty, this is freedom.
Making good money can make people have more beautiful choices.
02, the life you want is really expensive
If a person has a deep sense of unworthiness in his heart, then he is not motivated and confident enough to build the life he wants.
Only a person's heart is rich enough, coupled with enough material foundation, to create the life he wants.
There is a realistic side to life, and many good experiences cost money.
Money is needed to give older parents better living conditions.
Even many times, money can buy peace and health for parents.
We want a life that is nothing more than to be able to live happily with ourselves and the people we love.
Ideals need money to support them, and the ideal of putting aside money is just talk on paper.
Because there are too many beautiful things you want to see, because the people you love also want a lot of happiness, so the life you want is really "expensive".
To make good money is to be able to see and experience more beauty for ourselves and those who truly love us.
Fantasizing about the moon in the sky, you need to spend money to build rockets. To travel the world, you need to pay for a ticket. If you want to stay young and face the world, you need money to go to the gym to work out, and you need to do beauty.
Happiness and happiness are everyone's want, but behind it is all financial support.
Because the life you want is very expensive, you must make good money.
03, make good money, is a person's top self-love performance
Making good money can allow us to achieve the goals we want, and it can give us a certain sense of achievement mentally.
Make good money, not for money, but by making money to achieve the goal.
Each of us aspires to be a worthy person, and making money is realizing self-worth.
Making good money doesn't mean turning you into a money-making machine. The so-called "good" is to remember their original intention and purpose, to achieve their own value as the original intention, to achieve the desired life.
Making good money is a top-notch manifestation of self-love, and because making money is to meet our spiritual and material needs, making money is a true form of self-pleasing.
For people who live only by relying on others, it is difficult to realize their ideals in life, because no one will feel empathy, because it is difficult for someone to clearly understand how important your ideals are to you.
When a person has the ability to achieve his dreams, he is very close to the dream.
To love oneself is, in the final analysis, to be able to give oneself joy and happiness.
Make good money and use it as a way to achieve your self-worth and goals. In self-pleasing, harvest the desired life.
For the rest of your life, make good money, because the life you want is very "expensive". For the rest of your life, love yourself well, in order to truly love others in happiness and happiness.
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