Text/Moran
For a relationship, it is reluctant. It is said that the fate of the world is predestined, who meets whom, who is with whom, and who is separated in the end, this is all predestined.
In this life, people come and go, and fate gathers and scatters, all of which are the norm, and we can't change it, we can only accept it.
Like many times, we reluctantly love you alone, and even if we force it, we will not be happy.
In this world, not all feelings can end well, sometimes the person you love does not necessarily love you, and sometimes the person you love may not be able to accompany you to the end even if they love you.
So, for those reluctant relationships, stop here, and love is humble.
You can love someone, but you can't be humble to the dust, because no one loves you in the dust.
Don't think that if you love someone wholeheartedly, give for him, change, he can change your mind. Feelings are not obtained by touching, but need to be traveled in both directions.
Love should be the truest feeling from the heart, it is to give willingly, without asking for a response.
If because you love someone, you constantly sacrifice yourself and wrong yourself, then there is no need. Good love should make you better, not make you selfless.
Perhaps in real life, many people do not believe in fate, always cling to their inner obsession, love a person with one brain, even if they are aware of the problem, they are not willing to admit reality.
In fact, such people often end up hurting themselves. In this world, anything can be changed through effort, but love cannot be changed by effort.
If a person does not love you, no matter how much you give, there is no point in pleasing you, even if you touch the other party, this is only temporary.
The temporary touch will eventually fade away with your efforts. So, too much attachment, no response to the relationship, should end here.
Some time ago, I was chatting with a friend and thought about her past feelings.
Once she loved someone wholeheartedly, thinking that if she changed and paid for him, she could be cherished.
Their emotions are pulled by the other party, they can't be themselves at any time, and they often change because of the other party's emotional changes.
In fact, I am not happy like that, and I believe that many people will have this kind of attachment time.
Because I was not willing, I became more and more persistent, and only later did I find out how ridiculous the things I insisted on were.
You are here for him to suffer and feel sorry, but the other party can be like a person who has nothing to do, you are busy before and after the pay, the other party is willing to enjoy.
You always think about each other, understand his preferences, take care of his emotions, accompany him to do what he wants to do, along the way you accompany him from scratch, but in the end he has everything, but he does not need you.
For a love that does not respond, there is no point in giving more, you are touched by yourself.
In fact, maybe she herself has realized that he does not love himself, but she is unwilling to admit reality, accept reality, afraid of loss, and constantly redeems herself by paying.
However, deliberately pleasing and pandering will only make the other party enjoy your good and pay more unscrupulously, and will not know how to cherish at all.
summary:
This kind of loss of feelings, if the other party does not love, no matter how much you pay, it is superfluous. If you love someone too humblely, you will lose yourself.
Deliberately pleasing, for the sake of the person you love, ignore yourself, and ultimately lose yourself. Feelings need to go in both directions, know how to love themselves, and only then will they be loved.
A person who is unwilling to respond to you should stop here, and love again is humble. And too humble, it can not be exchanged for love, only lost in self.
Therefore, no matter when, you must recognize the reality and stop the loss in time, which is the best way for yourself.