Text/An Dongyue
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Shakespeare said, "Time is a silent footstep, and it doesn't stop for a moment because we have so many things to deal with." ”
Yes, time is like flowing water, passing in a hurry, never staying. This year seems to have passed faster than in previous years, and there is really a sense of "if the white colt crosses the gap, suddenly it is just".
At the end of the year, there will always be many feelings inexplicably. Sigh time, sigh life, sigh all the hurts and pains, gains and losses that you have experienced all year round...
We are accustomed to making New Year's plans at the beginning of the year and doing year-end summaries at the end of the year. Unfortunately, the plan could not catch up with the changes, and many of the goals set at the beginning of the year could not be achieved at the end of the year. Although I am not willing, I have to learn to be relieved.
Learn to be relieved, and the mind is no longer entangled. Only by not tangling can we welcome a new beginning in the best state.
At the end of the year, in addition to learning to be relieved, you should also learn to thank some people. For example, these four people.
01. Loved ones
Gorky said: "With the passage of time, many of the past events have faded. But in the long river of history, there is a star that shines forever, that is, family affection. ”
The warmth of the world is affection.
On weekdays, family affection is easily overlooked, but when you hit a wall outside and are injured, you will miss your relatives at home. Because, only they really hurt you and care about you.
Relatives, mainly refers to close relatives, such as parents, brothers and sisters.
Modern people, because of various reasons such as school, work, marriage, etc., even if they are close relatives, do not often meet, but rely on phone calls, videos, and chats to send their thoughts. But despite this, that affection is not diminished by half a point.
This year has not been easy. For a time, the family's funds could not be turned around, and they had to borrow money from their relatives.
That morning, I sent a message to my mother, aunt, brother, and eldest brother in the province to explain the situation, which was still quite embarrassing, but they were very supportive, and immediately transferred money to me, and all of a sudden the money was put together. At that moment, my heart was full of emotions.
Here, to all the loved ones who have helped me, I would like to sincerely say: "Thank you." ”
02. True friends
Friends, not in the many, but in the truth.
A true friend is a bright light in life, illuminating the soul and guiding the mystery.
Colton, an Argentine writer, said: "Life without friends is like life without the sun." ”
A person cannot be truly happy without friends. There are too many cold, warm and sad joys in life, and you need to talk to your friends and share them with your friends.
When you encounter difficult problems and confusion, friends can help you analyze and give you suggestions from an objective point of view.
When you are in a bad mood when you are wronged, your friend can patiently listen to your nagging and give you comfort.
When you fall into a low point of depression, friends can spur you on, encourage you, guide you, and take you out of the low.
Friends can give you a lot of things, relatives often can't give. Because of many things, many thoughts and feelings, you don't want to talk to your loved ones at all.
My world is small, I don't have many circles, and I have few friends, but I have real friends.
This year, the company of friends has always warmed my heart. Here, I would like to say from the bottom of my heart: "Thank you." ”
03. Excellent opponent
Athlete Liu Xiang once said: "Without an opponent, there is no motivation, and I am always grateful to the opponent." ”
Everyone has a competitive spirit, but the intensity is different. People with a particularly strong sense of competitiveness, in order to surpass their opponents, either desperately improve themselves or find ways to suppress their opponents. The former is positive and motivated, and the latter is mentally incorrect.
If a person turns the pressure given to him by his opponent into a driving force and sincerely thanks his opponent, it shows that he is a person with a good mentality, three positive views, a pattern, and a realm.
In a sense, good opponents are also good role models and can learn a lot from them.
In today's society, competition in all walks of life and circles is very fierce. Only by continuous learning can we stand in an invincible position.
Some people may say that everyone has their own rhythm and should not be compared with others everywhere. True, but we can't rest on our laurels and completely ignore the existence of competitors, which will only become more and more unable to keep up and eventually be eliminated.
In the writing world, there are so many good authors, they not only write well, but also are particularly diligent, and can write several articles a day. Compared with them, I am still far behind, in order not to fall behind too much, I can only force myself to write as much as possible. It's tiring, but it's worth it.
Good opponents can stimulate each other's progress, and if you are getting stronger and better, don't forget to say to your opponent: "Thank you." ”
04. Work yourself
The road of life, after all, is to rely on yourself step by step. Regardless of whether the current self has lived to be what you like, the efforts made along the way and the bitterness experienced are worthy of recognition.
Looking back at myself a few years ago, I was immersed in complicated trivia all day long, life was not poetic, there was no distance, and my heart was depressed, but I didn't know how to change.
To find a path that really suits you, try and make mistakes over and over again. In the process of trial and error, I have been deceived, suffered losses, been deceived, of course, I have failed, I have given up, and finally because I am not willing, I start again, slowly insist, and unconsciously come to the present.
Now I have achieved the goal I set a few years ago, become a true freelancer, and have achieved economic independence. Although the process is tortuous and full of hardships, as long as the result is good, everything is worth it.
I know that we still need to continue to work hard in order to further break through ourselves and become a better version of ourselves. But while pursuing better, we must also say to the self who has worked hard in the past: "Thank you." "After all, without the past self, how can you come to the present self?"
Growth is a process, all the detours traveled, in fact, are the only way, no need to complain, just thank you. Thanks to my hard work, after going through the wind, frost, rain and snow, I finally saw a beautiful rainbow.
epilogue:
2021 is about to be a thing of the past, and 2022 will come soon.
During the year, there is no one to give you warmth, no one to give you strength. And yourself, are you more mature and powerful than in previous years?
If so, be sure to learn to be grateful.
Thank you for the company of your loved ones, the support of your friends, the stimulation of your opponents, and your own efforts.
Relatives, friends, opponents, and oneself are the people who should be most grateful.
At the end of the year, the efforts made are worth it, and all the wishes are fulfilled.
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