Mom is not superman, Mom is a title, but also a lifelong dedication and responsibility.
The popularity of the variety show "Mom is Superman" has given everyone more discussions about the title of mother.
a. Dong Jie
Dong Jie, who has always been shown as a pure jade woman, has lived alone with her son Dingding since divorcing Pan Yueming.
In the variety show, she once said that she was once confused and did not know how to show people, and felt that the pressure of public opinion made her breathless. Lonely and arrogant and a little inferior, so her children are not sunny. She was cautious when dealing with her, and the absence of a fatherly role was a heavy blow in the boy's world.
Therefore, the importance of the father can be reflected in the key role of the child's growth process.
b. Mei Ting
The unladylike encounter of the first marriage and the timely stop loss did not affect the happiness of this relationship. It is not difficult to see in the picture that her face is full of strong happiness, a female star, who has given birth to two children, and still maintains an optimistic heart.
Her husband got up immediately when the children cried in the middle of the night, doing housework assistance with children who were proficient, but Mei Ting was unable to do it between the two children, and even doted on the younger son too much, and ignored the eldest daughter, which is a taboo for the second-child family.
Today's second child and even the future third child, do not forget to treat the child fairly, and do not snub the big one when there is a small one. When a child feels that he has lost the attention of his parents and family, you may also lose him. When children are separated from their parents and families, it is not good to get hot again.
c. Ran Yingying
I personally really appreciate her, out of the netizens always spit on her outfit, there is really nothing to black it. Dress style or medical aesthetics is their own choice and freedom, and no one has the right to interfere.
In the show, she truly expressed herself, two big fat boys easily picked up, and even cooked without delay. Help your husband deal with trivial things, worry about his body, and socialize.
She is very capable herself, and before marrying the Olympic champion, she was the head of the financial channel, and she was the best in college. Although she grew up in a single-parent family, it did not affect her excellent and correct values and outlook on life.
She will let her sons cherish the happy life of their father's punches, will cheer for him in the ring of her husband, and will worry about him until dawn in the night when no one is there.
This may be an enlarged version of the ordinary family, living at home is a life, going out to fight is life. Up to the hall to the kitchen, can cut through thorns and thorns can also be gentle and virtuous.
d. Alyssa Jia
There is actually not much attention to the goddess of the bay, but I know that a divorced woman has found a supporting role that is not very famous, and the sister-brother love has given birth to two daughters.
In fact, her husband's black material is really quite a lot, but the feelings are like people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge, maybe the two are really happy, otherwise why do you want to have children, can children really be born without being responsible? Of course, her husband can still take care of the children.
For the family's efforts, can not only be done by one person, the parents of both husband and wife are mutually supportive and mutually helpful, and the family is not composed of one person, so don't let one person do things.
Fu Seoul said that Superman is the label that society has forced on mothers, and will be pressured by society.
In fact, women are really not easy, Superman may just want to give himself a motivation. Being Superman is hard, but mom is my responsibility. Raising a child is not an easy task.
From the worry about whether the embryo is healthy when it is just known to exist, the results of each obstetric examination; the difficulty of breastfeeding after birth, the entanglement of the child's colic and separation anxiety; the ability to walk and communicate with the requirements of companionship after the meeting; the picky eating after eating, and even the allergy and discomfort, a series of problems are all dealt with by the mother one by one.
If you're tired, take a break, don't put too much pressure on yourself, you're a big mom, but you have to be yourself first.
The child will always grow up, but you have to be happy first to be better with her. Give the child to the father for a while, the crystallization of the two of you, can not only the mother is paying for the baby. Fathers must not be absent in the process of their children's growth, teaching boys to become talents and teaching girls to be brave.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. It's just strong, it's the steely will and spirit that sustains us from sunrise to sunset, from a good morning when we wake up in the morning to a good night when we turn off the lights and go to bed.
I've always thought that society's demands on women are too high. From ancient times to the present, people have always said that the liberation of women, equality between men and women, and the top half of the sky, are all lies, and if true equality exists, it will not demand equality. If it were really treated equally, there would be no such arguments. The best way for women to fight back against people who make demands and doubts is enough ability and money, but unfortunately, full-time mothers do not have the ability to fight back, and having a mother-in-law who does not make trouble and a mother-in-law who can help is already a favor of heaven.
Recently, Wang Lihong's collapse of the house has been unbearably, and people's discussion of women has deepened. In fact, when their efforts are recognized, they will not be discouraged. Kochi's talented woman is also an ordinary woman, and if you can't empathize, don't treat the woman who gave birth to three children for you in five years without being cold and ruthless -- why isn't she a "superman"?
Everyone's family is different, but the goal of happiness is the same - to take care of a healthy and happy baby, to run their own marriage and family.
When you return from a stay-at-home mother to a working identity, you may not adapt, but you will cherish the opportunity to devote yourself to work again, and only after experiencing it will you understand that doing everything well in the moment is the most important.
May you be the best version of yourself in your heart, and then the mother of the child.
We don't have a star aura, but we have the same problem; we all take some detours in the path of parenting, and even wonder if our initial choice is correct. But when you come out of that darkness, you'll suddenly find that all the problems have been solved with time.
We watch variety shows and live life. Celebrity parenting is used by us to take its essence, and what suits us is the best. Each child's temperament is different, the living environment is different, conform to the child's natural development, experience the child's inner feelings, respect the child's imagination and creativity, the child will bring me unexpected surprises.
Life is not easy, life is the process of inheritance, mother and child are born together, do not be superman, you are the mother.
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