"Girls because their mother promised to buy a mobile phone and repented, emotionally out of control when the street roared and beat their mother", such a headline appeared on major platforms.
I believe that most people, when they see such a thing, will first react to the girl, especially after watching a small video that was exposed at the time, they will feel more angry, and even many netizens will think again: How can there be such a child!
There are still many people who start to speak ill of each other, it seems that netizens are standing in God's perspective, but after not understanding the whole process in the video, no one can hastily decide until the netizens investigate the reason, after learning the truth, they don't know who is right and who is wrong?
Because of the problem of "buying a mobile phone", the follow-up of the girl who beat her mother on the street is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong
At first, in the video that the public saw, only the girl beat her mother on the street, and collapsed and roared, there were many passers-by around to point fingers, the mother in the video sat on the electric car, the girl sat in the back seat to let the mother go, the mother did not go.
The person who passed by and took the video learned from the girl's words that the girl was because her mobile phone was broken, and his mother promised him to buy a mobile phone, but perhaps when he went to repair the mobile phone, he learned that the mobile phone could still be used, or some other reason, in short, the mother repented.
This made onlookers even more angry, thinking that even if they didn't buy it, they shouldn't beat their mothers on the street, and even many pedestrians tried to go up and pull the girl, at which point the girl had collapsed, shouting and beating her mother.
This girl to many netizens who have never met, left a deep impression, everyone is paying attention to the follow-up of this matter, after the investigation of the relevant personnel to learn: the original girl in order to buy a mobile phone, go out to work has saved 4,000 yuan, I hope that the mother will fill in 2,000 yuan.
You can buy an Apple mobile phone, but the mother then rebelled not to buy a mobile phone, and took away the 4,000 yuan that her daughter saved, which is not the reason why the girl collapsed and beat her mother on the street, and then the mother's series of behaviors led to the results seen later.
But the mother tried to use the discussion and humiliation of passers-by to let the girl take the initiative to give her 4,000 yuan, the child was close to collapse at that time, let the mother leave quickly, but the mother just did not go, looking at the more and more people around.
Everyone's critical remarks and eyes, resulting in the girl's collapse of emotional control, coupled with the incitement of passers-by, and finally the girl roared and beat her mother, after netizens learned the whole truth, it was impossible to distinguish who was right and who was wrong in this matter!
Sister Yanyan has something to say:
This is what everyone calls: it is difficult for a clean official to break the housework, first of all, on the moral level, the grace of parents' birth and maintenance, although with the different economic conditions of the family, the environment in which the child grows is naturally different, but it cannot erase the parents who brought the child to the world.
But from the level of education, the so-called "hope to become a dragon, hope for a woman to become a phoenix", there is a big premise, that is, how parents educate their children, if like this mother's approach, I believe many people began to sympathize with girls, this is not the behavior of parents.
After learning the truth, netizens still have their own opinions
"It's not right for a girl to hit her mother, after all, she was born and raised..."
In the view of some netizens, even if the girl's mother is no longer right, the girl lets the mother leave the crowd, even if the mother does not leave, the girl can also leave on her own, no matter how you should not hit your mother on the street, it will also make the passers-by misunderstand.
Even these netizens can not understand the "beating mother" thing, parents with parenting grace, no matter what kind of mistakes they make, as children should be forgiven, and should not put this matter in front of the public, but these people forget that girls are only children.
"Doesn't this expose the nature of parents?" Don't tell your child about what you can't promise, and since you promised it, you must do it. ”
"Most of all, her mother scolded her with those outsiders, and if my mother heard someone scolding me, I would fight with others."
In fact, there are differences between parents, and it cannot be said that parents who blindly protect their children are good parents, but parents who cannot protect their children and try to put pressure on their children with outsiders must be unqualified parents.
At least they have not done to protect the child, not disturbed by external public opinion, now is the information age, some of the child's "immature" behavior will eventually pass, but put on the Internet will have a memory, will definitely have a serious impact on the child's body and mind.
"The former is actually a fuse of knowledge, not to make her emotionally collapse, the latter is, being watched, all passers-by are accusing her."
Those who think that they stand on the highest point of morality and arbitrarily make judgments when they have not understood the whole truth of the matter do not know whether they feel that their behavior at that time is a little inappropriate after learning the truth, but not all the sorry can be exchanged for that sentence!
I don't know how big a scar this matter has left in the girl's psychology, and the mother who should have stood by her side and was willing to be the enemy of the whole world is now on the opposite side, so that the girl is caught in endless public opinion.
Today's topic: Can you tell who is right and who is wrong in this matter?