On December 22, 2021, a 10-year-old boy in Xuzhou City, Jiangsu Province, said that he was very aggrieved and had a very strong desire in his heart. Unexpectedly, after he plucked up the courage to say his wish, his mother, who had always loved him, was unusual.
The child's wish is actually very simple, and it is really very embarrassing. The child has been an only child for 10 years, and he feels very lonely. Especially when he saw that other friends had sisters to take care of and considerate, he was even more envious.
When he got home, he pestered his mother many times and said expectantly, "Mom, you will give me a sister!" I want my sister! ”
The mother felt that her son was making some international jokes, and sometimes she thought that one play was one play after another, and perfunctorily told him that there was no drama.
The boy found that it didn't work to sell cuteness, and he began to think otherwise. He tugged at the corner of his mother's clothes and looked at her with grievance. The mother was indifferent to his move, and the boy broke down and cried: "You give me a sister, only one!" ”
Mom cried and laughed and said, "No matter how hard I try, there is no drama!" Who made you run so fast became Mom and Dad's first child! Even if I love you again, your father and I will not be able to give birth to a sister. I can only give you one sister out at most. Then do you want a sister, you have to take care of your sister! Of course, the younger brother can also. ”
When the son heard this, he rolled his eyes and said, "I don't want my sister, and I don't want to take care of my sister." Then before I was born, you were a sister. ”
Mom said somewhat impatiently, "Born before you, are you sure?" ”
The son nodded vigorously and said, "Well, your husband has a sister, give birth to me again!" ”
Mom was a little annoyed and said, "I had a sister before I gave birth to you?" Then I can't help it, your father has no ability, he didn't plant it! So what can I do, aren't you embarrassed for me? ”
The boy listened to his mother's words, and some of them seemed to understand. His heart was sad, and the desire to have a sister seemed to be in vain. He was also counting on his mother to have a sister so that he would have someone to take care of him, to protect him, to give him a bottom.
Qiu Qiu would like to say: Every child's childhood will come up with some strange ideas, so that we adults can't help but laugh, but also cry and laugh. My daughter is only two years old and wants me to give her an older brother. Because the brother of the little boy in the same class has Ultraman, he can protect him.
This created her envy and wished I could get her there. She pestered me and her dad every day, making us one head two big.
Fairy tales, this is the innocence and cuteness of children! At this time, in the face of children's imagination and strange questions, we adults should learn to think in a different position, calmly and seriously reply, and avoid perfunctory.
Because doing so can better retain a child's childlike heart, and use scientific answers to solve their doubts.