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Years are relatively cruel for women.
Women are sought after by countless people when they are young because of their flower-like appearance, which greatly satisfies women's vanity. So young women have relatively few annoyances, and for them, there is nothing that a sleep can't solve.
When you wake up, the sun has risen and a new day has arrived. Breathing in the fresh air and watching the sunlight jump on the branches, the otherwise gloomy mood instantly became clear.
In this case, even in the face of the most painful things, I feel full of confidence. For example, Ye Qingmei in "Qing Yu Nian".
God has given her countless powers to bring modern technology to ancient societies. This is an anti-heavenly existence for any monarch, so no matter what method is taken, it will be suppressed.
However, Ye Qingmei was not afraid, because she had five bamboos. This servant, who could compete with the Grand Master, was loyal to her. No matter who it is, if you want to move your eyebrows, you have to weigh it.
Countless money, super fame, interesting ideas, Ye Qingmei has all the things that girls dream of. There are not many descriptions of Ye Qingmei in the original work, but countless readers can still imagine her expression of looking at the world and pointing out the country.
However, even the most powerful people will grow old, which is a law of nature that no one can change.
Usually, after a woman enters the age of 40, her advantage in appearance will gradually fade, and then develop in the direction of aging.
The ancients once said: Women are 40 years old tofu dregs. That's what it means.
But if we look closely, we will find that not all women are like this. Some women seem to really confirm that saying: years are undefeated beauty.
The cruel years slipped past them, not only did not take away their beautiful looks, but also gave them an elegant temperament, so that they had both the relatively full state of young people and the stable and elegant temperament of middle-aged women, which seemed to be more beautiful than before.
If you are over 40 years old and still have these characteristics, then steal the fun! Because it shows that you are not getting older.
01 Memory is better
In "Langya List", when she saw her grandmother calling him "Xiao Shu", Mei Changsu was shocked.
He had changed his appearance under the attack of the wind and rain, and even his lover Neon Phoenix did not recognize him. Why would the already confused grandmother see through his true face?
Then he found that he had thought too much. Because Grandma was already confused, no one around her would take her words seriously.
People's memory declines with age.
This is an indisputable fact.
In real life, most women will have different degrees of memory decline after the age of 40. If you haven't already, then congratulations, you haven't gotten old yet.
02The skin is still elastic
As people age, the subcutaneous tissue will appear to be loose, first becoming inelastic, and then slowly having wrinkles.
In the consciousness of many women, getting old and ugly are reciprocal. So they will delay getting old through various channels.
For example, Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life". Years of life as a stay-at-home mother have made her less and less confident, especially in the face of her thriving husband, who is close to inferiority.
Initially, they were on a starting line, and years later, she was still wandering in place, and he was too far away to see. In this case, although the husband said he would take care of her for the rest of his life, she was worried that he would not be able to resist the temptations of the outside. So she tried everything to protect her appearance, hoping to withstand the ravages of time.
Unfortunately, her efforts were in vain, and the man who said that he would raise her for the rest of his life, despite her pleading and crying, walked towards another woman.
But Luo Zijun's years of maintenance are still effective.
This gives her an advantage over ordinary second-married women, so there are still other options after divorce.
Looks are a woman's business card, not that women lose their due value when they are old; but a young look will make women more attractive. So a 40-year-old woman still has skin that can be blown apart, which is enviable.
03 Good mindset
As we all know, attachment is the most bitter.
A 40-year-old woman, as long as she does not cling to the health of her parents, as long as she does not cling to the maintenance of husband and wife feelings, as long as she does not cling to her children's achievements, her life may be a little easier.
But how could she bear it?
Her parents have paid a lot for her growth, how can she bear to see them difficult to take care of themselves and be indifferent; her husband and he have come all the way, hard to achieve today's results, how can she be willing to let go? The child is in a period of rebellion, how can she bear to watch him repeatedly decadent at the age when he should work hard, so that he can live an extremely hard life?
Can't bear it, can't be reluctant, can't be indifferent. So I knew that it was very bitter, but I still chose to pick it up; I knew that I was very tired, and I still had no remorse. After struggling in it for a long time, I can't help but feel resentment.
Complaining is the most useless behavior. Because things don't get better because you complain, children don't understand things because you complain, and life doesn't get better because you complain.
But some women still can't help it. The more complaining, the mentality is biased, which will increase the degree of aging of the woman's body.
Of course, not all women are like this. Although some women face the same dilemma as their peers, they always maintain a good attitude and look at everything around them with a relatively peaceful and relatively objective eye.
Such a woman, even if she has wrinkles on her face, is beautiful.
For example, actress Lin Qingxia.
She is very calm about the age problem that all actresses are unwilling to face. Whenever I go out, I always smile and greet the people around me, without any shelf. And she is not afraid of others saying that she is old, and always likes to go out in plain clothes.
The writing of "Inside the Window" allowed her to find the direction of her efforts in the confused world, and she began to write more and more courageously. Throughout the second half of her life, you will find that she did not live a gloomy life because she grew old, but a new world slowly opened up in front of her.
Finally, I would like to say that old age is something that everyone will encounter, whether we want to or not, no matter how we stop it, one day it will usher in aging.
Before it came, we could resist aging by reading and exercising. And after it comes, there is no need to be too harsh, just maintain a normal mentality.
Do not dwell on the growth of age numbers, do not pay attention to the passage of time, do not care about the wrinkles on the face, such a woman, no matter when, is beautiful and heartwarming.
May all women be such people.
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