It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up on your beloved.
In most people's hearts, they all hope to have a relationship, and there will be long-lasting happiness.
But many things in this world can not be as they think, two people in love may eventually be unable to continue for various reasons, they should be able to distinguish between the two from now on, each with joy.
However, people who have once loved deeply, where it is so easy to forget. Some women still indulge in old feelings for a long time after the breakup.
Some men will even come back to you again for a while after disconnecting. By this time, you may have come out of the pain and don't know how to deal with the situation.
On the one hand, you are ready for a new life, on the other hand, you are greedy for the warmth of the past, both want to return to the other party, but also doubt the purpose of his doing so, what is the reason.
The ex turned back, what should I do?
Many girls may encounter such problems. When the two of them were first together, he was gentle, but when he lived too much, he was all kinds of picky about her, and it was wrong to look at her horizontally and vertically.
For love, the girl was wronged in every way, but in the end, the man still took the initiative to break up, and at the moment of leaving, he did not care about the girl's feelings and walked crisply and sharply.
After the breakup, the girl suffered in pain and often dreamed of her ex turning back. Fortunately, time can dilute everything, and she meets a person in her life who cherishes herself.
Gradually, she was no longer haunted by nightmares, and the pain slowly healed. The current is very good, treating her gently and politely, but at this time, the ex turned back to her and asked her to return to him very domineeringly.
The girl suddenly hesitated, after all, because of the ex she paid a lot, although the current is very good, but their feelings are always a little tepid, not as vigorous as the last relationship, in her heart she is more inclined to the ex's turn back.
But at the same time, she is also afraid that if she chooses her ex, will she repeat the same mistakes? After all, I was injured once, and the scar is still there, in case...
The girl's hesitation is normal, saying that the ex is a hurdle that cannot be bypassed. Every ex means the true feelings and youth you have paid, if there is no wavering, no one will believe it.
But why did the ex turn back? Compared to the determination when the breakup, he comes back to you, and the truth is nothing more than this one.
He wants you, but not necessarily because he loves you.
Men's love is different from women's.
The male physiological structure determines the exuberance of possessiveness, and women will most likely choose to bless each other after breaking up, but men are saying blessings while seeing women fall into the arms of others, it is difficult to calm down.
The person who was once owned by himself now has someone else in his heart, which is difficult for him to accept.
A man's desire to win or lose is an instinctive physiological response, and if a woman is single after a breakup, he won't feel anything. Once a woman has other men around her, it stimulates her male hormones.
He may not love his ex much, but when he thinks about the person he loves with someone else, he has a vague sense of discomfort in his heart.
Unless the ex gives him a reason to be together, it's simply a desire to win the outcome and get his charm recognized.
He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng in "Why Sheng Zhen Mo" reunited again after 7 years, he looked arrogant and delicate, passed by, but turned a blind eye.
Until he saw Mo Sheng go on a blind date, the strong vinegar intention made him unable to suppress his feelings, and followed Mo Sheng downstairs.
However, the difference was that He Yichen could not forget Zhao Mosheng at all, even if he used a thousand reasons to make himself hate her, but as soon as he came to her, he was defeated.
They broke up in the first place, but it was just to gamble, and they didn't even understand why the other suddenly proposed to break up. And after 7 years of separation, both sides stopped in place and waited for each other.
But in real life, how many He Yichen and how many Zhao Mosheng?
The men who come back to you after a long disconnection are only because they are "unwilling".
He thinks that without you, you can have a wider world and meet better people.
However, in fact, after he really left, he found that no one treated him with the same heart and lungs as you, and after a long time, he felt that you were still the best compared to you.
People are often like this, when they have it, they don't know how to cherish it, and they regret it after losing it.
But who else can stand there and wait for you? When he finds your good, so no matter what state you are in now, he wants to try it and wants you to come back to him.
Before He Yichen could figure out what Zhao Mosheng was thinking, he made up a lame reason. He said that he did not want to spend too much time on emotional matters, so he felt that Zhao Mosheng was the most suitable.
Fortunately, he was luckier, because Zhao Mosheng was also waiting for the opportunity to be with him again.
But life is not a TV series, and the real story is far more cruel than imagined.
Love, because of various reasons eventually became a stranger, the best way is to forget each other from now on, no one can easily appear in anyone's world.
After all, the choice to break up, the adult world, needs to take responsibility for their own actions.
After the breakup, don't say that there are no good men or good women in this world, don't easily hate the person who took the initiative to leave you, and don't denigrate the relationship you once had, because hatred will only drag you into the abyss.
Wave your hand generously, you know, life is the norm, as long as there is enough time, we always have to accept the reality of the day.
The past that makes you feel miserable is actually a better school, teaching you how to love yourself, how to recognize others, and how to meet better feelings.
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