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After nearly two hundred hours, the 23-year-old girl in Wuxi, who had been missing for eight days, was finally found, but unfortunately, she had left this world forever.
According to the feedback from the scene, the location where the girl was found was only 100 meters away from the north gate of the missing community. When the girl was found, the clothes remained intact.
There are no conspiracy theories, and no netizens' reasoning comes true. The real reason, so far, has not been made public.
In just a few months, this is the third girl to leave suddenly, which really should cause people to reflect.
1. What is safe
In a certain Weibo where the girl was found, some netizens commented: "What is the self-safety protection of women?" Do you have to go out of the door and don't step on the door? ”
Looking back, several related contents that have caused discussion on the Internet have gone from the disappearance of the morning running girl in Zhushan County, Shiyan County, Hubei Province, to the wuxi girl who has been missing for eight days now
It seems that more and more information is telling us how dangerous it is for women to go out, and it seems that no matter how much women protect themselves, there will be various problems.
You can't get up early and go out for a run, because your good looks and self-discipline will become a reason for others to hurt you; you can't just love someone, and you can't go out on your own in the middle of the night.
It seems that all the rules and regulations are formulated for girls, and after all the problems occur, there are always people who subconsciously blame girls.
Like the one that was a sensation in India, when the perpetrator was interviewed, he said that the reason he had ganged up with others to hurt and kill the girl was that she was out in the middle of the night.
"A good girl will not go out dressed like that in the middle of the night." So, she had an accident, and it was she who was seducing us, that's why we did it. “
The terrible thing is that such people with no lower limit are not unique, they are hidden in the crowd, hidden in the night, waiting for an opportunity at any time.
2. Freedom, ben innocence
We all know that everyone has their own freedom. You can wear the clothes you like and do what you like, which is a choice that you have the right to make.
Anyone's dress, or lifestyle habits, should not be a reason for others to hurt her. This is without exception.
It seems that I don't know when it started, people are always emphasizing that girls must protect themselves when they go out, so what is protection?
I have to dress tightly, I have to go home before five o'clock, I have to be a good child in the eyes of others, is this called self-protection?
Of course not, there is too much helplessness in life, and the tempering of life is not divided into men and women. People have to face the life they have to face.
The girl also needs to rush until late at night, when she needs a bus that can safely take her home, not a dangerous attack;
Girls can also go out with friends to release stress, living in this metropolis, who has not had a moment, want to empty themselves?
Freedom itself is not sinful. The existence of all 'victim guilt' is itself a fault.
3. Tragedy, don't happen again
Women's self-protection is only one aspect, but it is not the only problem of stability and stability.
Don't go out alone late at night, and if it's really necessary, then it's best to find someone to accompany you; don't be greedy and go for a ride in a vehicle that is not qualified to operate.
We can't guarantee that all people in this era are bad people, but we must believe that even if there are many good people, there are still a few bad hearts.
When we see similar incidents happening, the first response that should be made must not be to question or even to hurt twice.
Regardless of whether the other party is a boy or a girl, as long as he is a person, he should be respected, and it is the perpetrator who should really be questioned and criticized.
Life is hard enough, don't let hurt add unnecessary pain to people. Whether these people are people we know each other or not.
For the families of the victims, what they expect is to be able to return their children to justice, and what we are looking forward to is not exactly that?
4. Please, take care of yourself
For self-protection, learning and improving self-defense ability, it is not so that you can really use it one day, but you at least have a hole card.
The same tragedy, once is enough to make people heart-wrenching. No one wants to see a similar story, it happens over and over again.
So, whether you're going to love someone, you're still going to learn to love yourself.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.