Recognition: To judge whether a person is lying, it is enough to memorize these three sentences of Zeng Guofan
There is a saying in the folklore - "Zeng Guofan will know people, Zuo Zongtang will fight", this statement is not false at all, they are two famous ministers in the late Qing Dynasty, one relies on wisdom to recognize heroes, promote and reuse talents and establish unique feats, and the other relies on Wen Tao's martial strategy and ability to fight and pass through the ages.
Zeng Guofan not only has his own superb ability to recognize people, but he also summed up his own knowledge and experience in his later years, and compiled a biographical book about knowing people and people - "Ice Book"!
How to judge whether a person is lying, we can refer to Zeng Guofan's three tips for recognizing people in the book "Ice Book".
Memorizing these three tips of Zeng Guofan's knowledge of people can make it easy for us to judge whether a person is lying! Let's take a look!
1, quiet as fluorescent light, moving like running water, sharp and happy; quiet as half asleep, moving like a deer frightened, others and deep thinking. One is a loser, one is an invisibility. ——Zeng Guofan,"Ice Book-Divine Bone"
Interpretation: When a person's eyes are static, the gaze is like the light of a firefly, faint and flickering; when it is dynamic, the gaze is like flowing water, although it is clear but wandering. The above two kinds of gaze, one is a good look at disguise, and the other is a cute look in the heart.
A body of spirit, with two eyes, the eyes are the window of the soul, through a person's mood can roughly know its true and false, evil and righteous. When a person listens to you, his eyes are weak and flickering; when he speaks, his eyes are wandering, you can roughly judge that this person is good at hiding his inner hypocrisy and treachery.
2. There is a dialogue between the party, and God ignores him. ——Zeng Guofan,"Ice Book-Mood Chapter"
Interpretation: If he is talking to someone, he suddenly turns his eyes and thoughts to other places, which shows that such a person is insincere.
Eyes are most likely to betray a person's heart, when we talk to people, if the other party does not dare to look at you, the eyes are uncertain, looking east and west, it means that the person has hidden secrets in his heart, and it also shows that he is not sincere with you. So what he says cannot be taken seriously, because his words are either perfunctory or lies.
3, anxious but not reached, late at night rat chewing; or words and sentences are connected, chattering; or teeth and throat segmentation, chattering. ——Zeng Guofan,"Ice Book-Sound Chapter"
Interpretation: A person, when speaking, is eager, creaking, intermittent, and like a rat stealing food in the dead of night; when speaking, sentence after sentence, incoherent, endless, and short of breath; when speaking, slurred, swallowing, vague.
Zeng Guofan's first two sentences of the Zhiren Technique are mainly through the observation of people through the demeanor, and this ZhirenShu Tips are based on the sound of speech to judge the true and false.
brief summary
The above are the three sentences of the art of knowing people that Zeng Guofan said in the "Ice Book", which has reference significance for us to judge whether a person is lying. Memorizing these three tips of Zeng Guofan makes it easy to judge whether a person is lying!