In this life, everyone is the same, and I hope that I can live with peace of mind.
It is human nature to want to live with peace of mind, and if you really want to do so, it is not so easy.
Throughout their lives, many women are always looking for this sense of security, when single, women will always feel that they will be unreliable, all because they are a person, and it is good to get married.
When men are not good to themselves, they will be particularly insecure, their whole person, the whole heart, as if there is no pillar, even if the man is very good to himself, he will still feel worried, will worry that the other party will change his heart one day.
Women always tend to think that the sense of security they want, that lies in men, but in fact, the sense of security, given by others, is difficult to make people feel solid.
In life, the only thing that will not change is change. On the road of life, everything is uncontrollable, and in the years to come, all kinds of things may happen.
People, the more they think, the more they will be particularly uneasy, and there is no way to live the current life well.
The sense of security, that is really not in their own life is always calm, peaceful, but in the fact that they are strong enough to withstand all wind and rain.
In this world, we can not have a lot of beautiful things, but we must not be without the minimum material security.
Money is a person's guts, when there is no money, on many occasions, we will be particularly bottomless, when we have money in the card, we will really become very different.
Without money, our lives will not be able to withstand any wind and grass, and a little thing will also make us particularly desperate.
Life never treats us preferentially because we are women, and if we want to have a certain degree of control over life, we must always have a skill, so that we can make a living at any time.
With their own strength, women should have been able to cope with feelings well, but because of the spiritual level is not independent, even if they are excellent, many women are still always afraid of each other leaving themselves.
It is a terrible thing that women are not mentally independent, it is easy to always want to find a dependency, and then the more you want to find, the more you can't find it, and the more you feel insecure in the end.
In fact, women will long for someone to love themselves, willing to love someone with their hearts, which is very deserved, but when they love a man and manage a relationship well, they must not lose themselves.
To love, but at the same time, if the other person is not worthy, we also have the ability to leave the other person.
Too many things, instead of wanting others to give, we should fulfill them ourselves. Only when the sense of security grows from within us will others be unable to take it, and we will always have it.
In this way, we will become a better version of ourselves, and it will be easier to get a really good relationship. Helpers help. In the face of life, when we are always uneasy, this will make others feel very bad, and it will also make good people not willing to go near us at all, thinking that we are too negative, which will cause him to be consumed.
Life is never waiting for someone to take on our life, but we first become a stable self, and then attract some equally good people, to become friends, to become lovers, to feel this life together.