During the growth period of children, it is not advisable to blindly emphasize grades!
What affects a child's life is not only achievements, but also an optimistic attitude, a spirit of tolerance, and the wisdom of self-protection...
Only if the parents' educational concept is correct, can they shape a child with the correct three views!
Share the 8 key words of family education from the People's Daily, parents and teachers must watch carefully.
1, optimism: accepting reality is the first step towards optimism.
Cultivate an optimistic personality, let the child face the misfortunes in life calmly, and let the child maintain a normal heart. Children who spend a lot of energy on anxiety cannot exert their inherent abilities. The sense of humor seems to be a "small trick", but it is actually a big skill!
2, tolerance: narrow-mindedness will only make children miserable for a lifetime.
With love, there is the motivation to seek knowledge and beauty. Pranks will "cause trouble" and guide children to correct them in time.
Eliminate your child's cruelty in a timely manner. Only by knowing gratitude can we grow.
3, courage: children are fragile, teach him the courage to face failure.
Cultivating children's willpower cannot be ignored. Children who are unfamiliar with setbacks have difficulty integrating into society.
Replace low self-esteem with self-confidence.
Always blame the child for his failures, the child will become "incompetent", praise the child, but not excessively.
4, self-protection: children who rely on their parents will always be thrown. Teach your child some safety knowledge and calmly deal with harm.
Children lack the ability to deal with the world, and at any time there is a danger of being swallowed up by life. Excessive protection is tantamount to "harm".
Improve your child's "immunity" and calmly face temptation.
5, dreams: there are dreams to create, do not reprimand the child's 'dream words'! When the child has a dream, urge him to take a step towards the dream.
Rejecting the "why" asked by the child is equivalent to cutting off the wings of his thinking. Children who are kind to children's interests and good at loving creation often have a galloping mind.
6, communication: children who know social etiquette can have good popularity.
Children are good at talking and can most arouse the interest and attention of others. To respect others is to respect oneself.
If a child has the courage to admit his mistake, he will have changed it by half. The ability to cooperate is more important than knowledge. Children who know how to listen have charisma.
7, financial management: the sooner the child contacts and learns to use pocket money. When you grow up, it is easy to make money.
Properly handle your child's pressure money.
Develop good habits of saving that will benefit your child for life. It is better to give them fish than to give them fish. Correct the child's blind comparison psychology.
8. Self-awareness: Encourage children to take the initiative to interact with others and eliminate their children's loneliness.
In a long-term shyness, children are prone to inferiority complex. Learn to appreciate others, only then will you appreciate yourself.
Let the child discover one of their own strengths every day. Only by understanding "giving" will there be "gains".