The children of poor families have long been in charge, and it is really difficult for children of poor families to turn over? In fact, there are still many theories, but if the children of poor families want to succeed, the hardships behind them must be inhuman.
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Success is not a generational affair
There is a saying that is very good, your grandfather has a foothold in the countryside, your father can go to the provincial city to work, your father can go to the provincial city to work, you can stay in the provincial city to settle down, and you can also gain a foothold in the provincial city.
Careful study will find that "the poorer the poor, the richer the rich", society is homogeneous and hierarchical is very obvious, "circle" will be a group of people divided, want to enter from one "circle" to another "circle" requires great effort, some things, only you reach a certain level to do. Of course, it is useless for us to complain about this situation, which will only increase some negative emotions, and the only thing we can do is to try to change ourselves, hoping that one day we can change our destiny in the future, and even the next generation, maybe we can really catch up with them.
Late maturation
The word late maturity covers a lot of meanings, the children of poor families do mature relatively late, most of them have to understand the logic of society and the nature of human nature after the age of thirty, because the world with little contact with the world has only one side, and the heart is relatively kind and simple, as for "the children of poor families have long been home", it is just when a person masters some basic survival concepts and skills in a bad environment, because they have no wayward capital, and they need to bear these from birth.
No help and guidance
In a poor generations and very honest family, the thinking is also very feudal, some poor children drop out of school early and go to the city to work, and some poor children go to work and get married after graduation, because the traditional concept of the family is the right way, so that the ultimate life of the child is just ordinary, the parents of the poor family can only let the child "do their duty" to work and get married, can not give the child too much guidance and help, can only rely on themselves to achieve their ideals. Children from wealthy families are often at the key points in life, have someone to guide and advise, have the support of family members and have seen the logic of society from an early age, so their chances of success are often higher.
Trial and error capital
The so-called trial and error capital is that in your entrepreneurship or investment, even if you fail this time, but there is still the capital to turn over, the same, if the children of poor families fail, it is really difficult to turn over, because of the family situation, they can only succeed, can not fail, not once. On the other hand, the rich can fail, they can practice the truth, continue to accumulate experience, constantly summarize lessons, ups and downs, even if they can't succeed in the end, they can have a good job.
summary
In fact, whether the rich and poor can succeed in this topic of debate is still relatively large, everyone experiences differently, the way of treating things is also different, can not say that the children of poor families can not turn over, nor can it be said that the children of rich families will be successful, but the proportion of external factors, the biggest factor that hinders their success is themselves, I always firmly believe that "gold can shine everywhere, is the glass slag everywhere reflects" Finally hope that on the road to success, you are not alone, and finally sparkling.