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I like a saying: "All the tenderness in the world is because of empathy." ”
A sign of a person's true maturity is the discovery that fewer and fewer people can blame. Feeling that everything is forgivable, this is not becoming sophisticated, but being kind after the world...
In the cold street, a drunk man bumped into a father and son.
The child asked his father, "Is he a bad guy?" "When the child's father thought that he was unhappy, he also borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows, so he told the child that he was not a bad person, he was just in a bad mood.
In the hospital, the young nurse accidentally overturned the medicine plate, and the old man just wanted to accuse, but he thought of his own child who had just joined the work, so he silently said: "It doesn't matter." ”
Learning to think in a different position means more understanding; learning to compare hearts to hearts leads to a little more tolerance.
When you are gentle with others, others will also give you a spring breeze.
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Truly kind people always have others in their hearts.
I've seen a story like this:
There was a boy, and the man in the next door neighbor's house was a policeman. While the boy was in his junior year of high school, the policeman was killed in the line of duty, leaving behind his wife and 10-year-old son.
In the past, boys came home from school, never took the key, and when they arrived at the door, they shouted at their father to open the door.
But when the neighbor policeman passed away, his father asked him to carry the key himself and stop calling his father to open the door.
Puzzled, the boy asked why.
Dad said, "Because every time you call out to Dad, you will remind the little boy next door of the fact that his dad is gone, and I am afraid that he will feel bad in his heart." ”
No one is an island. The deep connection between people is nothing more than trying to empathize and put others in mind.
If you want others to be good to you, you must first learn to give; if you like to be taken care of by others, you must take care of others first; when you treat others well, you are actually treating yourself well.
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"Always hold an umbrella for others, and others will hold an umbrella for you in the future."
Because I have experienced being drenched by heavy rain, I can't bear to see others wet by the rain.
The wisdom of getting along with people is to learn to think about problems from the perspective of others.
Learn to be considerate and compare hearts to hearts in order to win people's hearts for a long time.
Photography | West Hill Watch
Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article has been deleted and revised
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