It is said that maternal love is not only selfish, but also great, I have seen such a mother in life, daughter and son-in-law died unexpectedly, in order to find sustenance, in 2010 she risked death through test tube technology to give birth to twin daughters, now 11 years old. Looking back on her 11 years of experience, Ms. Sheng lamented that the process was too hard, she had to go to various places to give lectures to earn money and raise children, but also to take care of her wife who had suffered a stroke, and she could only find happiness in her troubles and pains. Facing the future, she said that she will return to her family more and live for herself, because they can live well because they live. The woman was 60 years old at this time.
Perhaps many people think that Ms. Sheng's approach is a bit irresponsible, not properly considered, she is already 60 years old when she is doing IVF and the child who is about to be born is more than 60 years old, so that the child will have a lot of strange eyes and gossip in the future life communication, and considering their age and health, they should not have children at such a big age.
This is just the opinion of others, but as a strong woman in the profession, how can you not think about it! After his only daughter and son-in-law had a car accident, her husband also suffered a stroke, which is an absolute disaster for a normal family, such a family is simply a disaster, a woman in her 60s, on the one hand, faces the pain of losing her only daughter, takes care of her wife' responsibility, and assumes a family, which may not see hope in the eyes of an ordinary woman.
Think of a woman in her 60s facing such an encounter, making the determination to have a child, this time is already a high-risk mother, and she is willing to use her own life to have another child in exchange for her hope of surviving, I think others do not have the right to blame. This is a manifestation of a woman being responsible for her family and responsible for her own life.
And Ms. Sheng also admitted that she lost her only daughter, faced with her husband who had suffered a stroke, at that time she was facing pain, and after she made her decision, these ten years were indeed hard, very hard, but she lived with hope, and she also knew that she might spend less time with her children than ordinary parents, because her age could not accompany her children for so long, but she would accompany her children in the only time she had, teach children to learn to be self-reliant and self-confident, which is a mother's responsibility to children.
If this mother in her 60s who still has children is selfish, I think her love and education for her children in just a few decades is absolutely selfless and undesirable, which is much stronger than those parents who are young and irresponsible, and I hope that Ms. Sheng can be happy with her daughter forever!
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