There is a popular saying on the Internet: good love will make you crazy, and good love will make you a fool. This is indeed true, the most beautiful love will make you a child, know you cold and warm, understand your sorrow and joy.
Why some people love can cross the seven-year itch, and some break up in just a few months, such as fireworks, the secret is that no one understands your implications, but more understands your desires and stops. Happiness, presumably, is about finding someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense.
Yes, the person who does not love you, every word you say, he will feel superfluous; but the person who loves you, no matter what you say, will feel that it is a pleasure, and it will never be disgusted with you to talk much.
Someone once asked on Zhihu: What is the most feared thing for a woman in a relationship? A netizen's answer poked straight into the heart, replying: No response, no words to say. It is indeed heart-wrenching but undeniable, love, is nothing more than being able to say a lot of nonsense together, when this connection is gone, life naturally becomes a pool of stagnant water, no enthusiasm.
A girlfriend around, in love for more than a year, used to sprinkle dog food in the group every day, sharing joy, so that we were caught off guard, until one night, suddenly saw her send a circle of friends, saying " Vigorous love is really enviable, but the real happiness is to find someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense." Seeing that this mood was not appropriate, our small group suddenly became lively, and they were concerned about what was going on.
She recounted that since living together, the passion has slowly faded, and he and I have entered a "state of old age," falling into a state of speechlessness, incomparably familiar with each other's life trajectories, unable to find a topic, coupled with different jobs, awkward to talk about, come back from work, he plays his games, I watch my TV. In this way, accustomed to such silent days, it is really impossible to imagine how to live after marriage in the future.
Yes, loving someone should be: have something to say, never perfunctory. Treating each other as a part of life and sharing their own bits and pieces can't help but be a beautiful love.
When you meet beautiful scenery on your way to work, you can't help but take pictures to share with him; watch a romantic movie, tell him the touching plot inside, make a delicious dinner, and let him praise you. Send all the little feelings to the other person involuntarily.
Although it looks boring, love is the result of countless seemingly boring behaviors, plus a lot of nonsense daily organization. If they don't love you, who would want to be so patient with you every day to talk a bunch of crap and waste their precious time? There are many love words, not necessarily love you, after all, interesting experiences and moving love words are limited.
If I don't like you, who will lick your face, risk annoying people, and talk to you a bunch of nonsense that is not salty, not light, not painful, not itchy? At the end of the day, I like you and I'm willing to talk a lot of crap to you.