On TV, on mobile phones, we see some programs, some children perform piano, some children perform dance, shine in TV, as parents we are still very envious, some parents even joke online: "Silently turn off the TV, pick up the slippers and go to the children who are playing games."
As parents, we still hope that our children will have some talents, and they don't necessarily have to say how good they are, but at least they can show it and highlight their talents, so most parents have reported interest classes to their children.
"Temperament is piled up with money", the father refused to give his daughter a dance class
There is a video on the Internet is very hot, is a couple of conversations in the car, on the way home, the wife mentioned the matter of reporting dance classes to her daughter, think that the little girl learns to dance very well, can cultivate temperament, feel that girls have temperament is very important, now take advantage of the small start to learn, the future will definitely be better than ordinary girls to have a career.
For the wife's idea, the husband who was driving refused, and bluntly said: "Temperament, temperament is piled up with money!" I'm not going to tell you anything! ”
The husband thinks that the child is still too young, learning to dance is not of much use, and learning to dance is too sinful, there are many ways to cultivate temperament, and there is no need to rely on dancing to cultivate. And the husband feels that the temperament is smashed out with money, do not talk about what temperament without money, the confidence of dancing comes from the display, and the number of performances in places with many people is more, so it becomes confident, which is an inflated confidence and temperament.
Is it really a parent's idea to let children learn to dance and learn music?
Because of the difference of views, the husband and wife did not say who, and then the wife posted this video on the Internet, did not expect to quickly become popular on the Internet, causing a lot of netizens to discuss. Many people think that this father is right, it is a rare "sobriety in the world", and feel that many parents are now "brainwashed" and "anxious" by training institutions.
For most parents, let their children learn to dance and learn the piano is to train her to become an artist? No, it may be because it was publicized by the agency and there was anxiety about the future of the child, or it may just be that the friend's child learned the piano, so it felt necessary for the daughter to learn a dance.
To really say that the "temperament" of cultivating children may also exist, but many of them are not entirely because of this reason, part of them are parents' "inner volume", comparing with each other, and some are partial to listening and believing, thinking that they are all for the good of their children.
But in fact, what is the use of many interest classes? When the child is three or four years old, let her learn to dance, and if she doesn't learn it for two years, will it be useful in the future? Really to cultivate children's temperament, learn a technology, that is to start cultivating from an early age, but also children love, adhere to more than ten years may be effective.
Mom's sensibility, encounter Dad's rationality, educational differences
For mothers, it is a good thing for a daughter to learn to dance, versatile, and it is also decent to say it herself, and if the child learns well, she can cultivate her temperament in the future, how a good thing.
But Dad belongs to rationality, deeply understands the operating mechanism of this society, what temperament, what dignity, you can afford to pay tuition with money, ask famous teachers to teach dancing, no money to squeeze inside, can not learn anything, can only be a waste of money, but also let the daughter suffer.
In fact, the ideas of father and mother are not wrong, all for the good of the child, the father's words are not rough, not completely unreasonable, but it is also a little one-sided, because it is always good to learn more things.
Let the child learn more talents, it is still good for the child's growth!
Education on the "inner volume", we parents sometimes have to face, you say other people's children, this can sing, then will dance, then our children will not be anything, in school let the performance program, you say that children psychological inferiority is not inferior?
Learning a hobby is not to expect how much the child has achieved, but to have a little skill, which can entertain the child's growth and increase the child's personal capital.
Of course, all this must also be based on material foundations, children learn art, but also to see the family economic situation, can not say that the family conditions are average, must let the children learn high piano, out of the actual empty talk temperament, will only take the family's life away from the original track, how much strength to do how much work.
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