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The famous Russian writer Leo Tolstoy said in his famous book "Anna Karenina": "Happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes."
In fact, this sentence is common in many aspects of our lives.
When one person's life is getting worse and worse, there may be ten different reasons for ten people. But if you look at people whose days got better and better, their life trajectories tend to have striking similarities.
In this age of hustle and bustle and everyone's pursuit of free individuality, the way smart people live encompasses these three things: reading, saving money, and enjoying solitude.
One: Reading
Although many people put reading on their lips, there are very few people who can really read books and can calm down to read.
It's not that you've read a few online novels and turned a few pages of successful books, even if you've read books, it can only be regarded as browsing, not reading.
In today's society, the pace of life is many times faster than ten years ago, we are more and more accustomed to fragmented information acquisition, short videos are only 15 seconds, an article is only a few hundred words, open a movie with fast forward, maybe twenty minutes to finish.
It's too hard to get you to sit down quietly and read a book word for word.
Modern people's reading, the pursuit of short and fast, the pursuit of information increment, the pursuit of sensory stimulation, so suspense mystery novels are popular, love sweet pet articles are very marketable.
But those tomes, obscure humanities and social science books, are often placed in the corner of the bookstore, and no one cares.
Reading is not utilitarian, nor is it a business card that you package yourself, but you are providing nourishment to the soul, reading will not make you rich, but it can make you live a fuller, richer life, but also closer to your inner self.
Two: Save money
I once saw a survey report that showed:
45% of the post-90s have substantial debts, and the amount of debt reaches an average of 120,000, accounting for 1850% of the monthly income, which is equivalent to the need for this person not to eat or drink for nearly 19 months to pay off his debts.
Now the merchants, for the consumer's mind are very accurate, a variety of installments, credit, preferential means, etc. emerge in an endless stream, advertising slogans blowing the sky, monthly payment of dozens of dollars can have a new lipstick, monthly payment of more than a thousand can get a latest Apple mobile phone.
It seems that the exquisite life in advertising is all at your fingertips, and you only need to pay a little bit every month.
Under such brainwashing, advanced consumption has become the habit of many young people, and they have become the most contradictory group of people in this society. It looks shiny, but in fact it is already in debt.
Exquisite and poor, this nascent word, is to describe this group of people trapped in the trap of consumption.
A person who does not know how to save money and does not have any concepts and plans for consumption, expenditure, income, financial management, etc., is very sad in this life, the future is full of uncertainty, and your ability to take risks is basically zero.
Really smart people realize the importance of existence early on, they don't spend ahead of time, and they don't let themselves be in debt.
Many times, the more sober you live, the better your life, which is not natural luck, but what you deserve.
Three: Enjoy solitude
Smart people know a word, low-quality social, not as good as high-quality solitude.
When your social interaction can no longer bring you happiness and energy, but is consuming your energy, you should know that you should give up, otherwise the days to come, will only live more and more tired.
Those meaningless meals, parties and activities, etc., if you can't go, don't go, people should understand when they live to a certain age: the more people you know, the more smooth your life will be.
On the contrary, if you invite too many people into your life, it will inevitably be crowded.
When you lose the focus of your life and your life, you slowly become numb, confused, and no longer clear about what you want and how to do it.
Empty your heart and time, quietly enjoy the time of being alone, when you are alone, you are close to yourself, it is easier to listen to the voices of the heart.
When you are alone, you are free, no makeup, no disguise, no need to think about how this sentence is appropriate, and you don't have to worry about whether you will not take care of it well. You are your own, you can rest well, absorb nutrients, and do what you love.
Learn to enjoy being alone, and you can enjoy your life.
There are thousands of ways for a person to live his life well, as long as it is suitable, what you like, your way of living will also be the way of living of smart people.
Enjoy life, enjoy your life.
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