Many parents educate their children the wrong way. For example, they hope that their children will be admitted to what schools and where they can work in the future, but they do not examine the actual situation of their children, such as intelligence, personality, hobbies, etc. People look the same, but in fact, the internal difference is very large. What other people's children can do, their own children may not be able to do. The result is that the child not only does not achieve the same achievements as others, but also loses his own roots.
Not to mention, their family culture and economic conditions are different from others. The most important thing is that the three views are different, and the picture of others is "one life", and in your concept, this life is only a transitional stage, and in the end, it is "two auspicious lives". So, as a parent, you must tell your child what to pursue. Your dominant thoughts, every word and deed, will subtly affect the child, so don't mislead your child.
Recently, when I told the biography of Prophet Muhammad, the same story told by the same person, the content material was exactly the same, but one episode was sent out to read millions; one episode was sent out to hundreds of thousands and was removed from the shelves, and it could not be passed on anymore; and one episode was restricted just after it was sent. Some "inappropriate" videos have been appealed and released. Just like people, some people can live to be a hundred years old, some people only live to be a teenager, some people are sick and go to the hospital to see it, and some people can't.
Home is not a house, but a harbor of the soul; parents are not the masters of their children, but their guides on the road of life. Therefore, your duty is not to let the child become what kind of "talent" in the future, but to strive to make his heart have "light" and not deviate from the right direction of life. The Merciful Lord said, "Do not envy their possessions and children, for the Lord is simply going to punish them in this life, and they will die in obscurity." ”（9：55）
Text/Horse Stone, Figure/Unwilling