Today's couples usually have children later, because it is more important to give their children a good environment than to have a baby early, otherwise, the family's economy will certainly be very difficult, and raising children will become a problem. But now many couples have children too late, it is easy to affect the future life.
Because of the work of the early years, Ms. Mao and her husband did not have time to take care of the children, and the family's economic conditions were poor, and even if they had children, they simply could not afford to raise them. So the two decided to have children later to work hard for their careers, and finally when the two were 45 years old, they had a stable family, and after saving some savings, the two planned to have children.
Although Ms. Mao is older, fortunately, she did not expect to get pregnant for a long time and immediately became pregnant. The whole family was ecstatic, but only Ms. Mao knew how hard she had to work after her pregnancy. But pregnancy tests are much more than ordinary pregnant women, and they are afraid that their children will be affected, and they are lucky not to eat indiscriminately. Finally survived until the birth of the child, Ms. Mao thought that she could finally relax, but she did not expect that taking the child was still a hard job. And their bodies are getting worse and worse than before, and there are many gynecological diseases.
Every day, she greedy for dolls, which makes her can't help but worry about the days to come, especially when she and her husband are 60 years old, when they retire, the children at that time are only 15 years old, and they really have the ability to raise children? Will the child's future life become insecure? These problems have always plagued Ms. Mao, and even caused her to suffer from postpartum depression at one point.
The reason why today's couples want children later is understandable, compared to when they are unable to raise children, having children will become a burden on our lives. But at the same time, there is one thing that has always bothered us, that is, when we enter old age, will life really be better? Will the child's life be happy?
Having a child after the age of 45 and reaching the age of 60 has no more than two endings
If women are ready to have more children after the age of 45, then one of the most likely problems is that the risk factor will continue to rise. You must know that once you have a child at an advanced age, then you will definitely suffer a lot of sins, not only to do a lot of examinations, but also to spend a lot of money. Even if a child can be born healthily, it will cause a series of problems for the mother's body.
After all, women's bodies will continue to change with age, and when women are 45 years old, their physical function will become very poor, so it has become very difficult to recover their bodies. At the same time, these women are also accompanied by some gynecological diseases, which will lead to their bodies in a very passive situation.
And the life of elderly couples after the age of 60 is also very embarrassing, after all, their physical condition is not as good as imagined, so they simply can not put energy into the child. Coupled with the fact that the child is relatively young at this time and must be taken care of by the family, this situation is very embarrassing.
In addition, there is another point that needs to be admitted, that is, the physical strength of elderly couples is not as good as before, so their energy consumption is relatively fast. They simply can't compare themselves to young people, and they have to put more effort into their children, so their lives can be very difficult.
In addition, there is a more embarrassing ending, that is, these elderly couples are likely to be gossiped about by others. Although the birth of a child is a thing to celebrate for them, the problems they face in the future are very serious. After all, he is old enough to be a child's grandfather and grandmother, and at this time he has a son or daughter, so that the neighbors and friends around him will express great incomprehension.
Especially when the child grows up, the parents will participate in the child's parent-teacher conference after the age of 60, which is more likely to fall into embarrassment. And these children see that their parents are so old, and then see that other children's parents are so young, so they will also have an inferiority complex. They will feel that their parents are not the same as those of other people's children, so the relationship between parents and children is also easily affected.
Even these children never want to go out with their parents, after all, they think that their parents are too old and it is a very humiliating thing to take them out.
Although it is said that after the age of 45, there will be a more awkward life after the age of 60. But having children is often up to you, and if you can maintain an optimistic attitude and get old, it is also a fortunate thing for the whole family. If you have already thought about having a child at the age of 45, don't worry too much, work hard and pay attention to your body.